Presented By: Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15 Anger Management
Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15
Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15 What is Anger?   Emotional state that varies in intensity from mild irritation to intense fury and...
Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15 Expressing Anger Natural way to express anger is to respond aggressively A certain amount of anger...
Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15 Expressing Anger …   Expressing your angry feelings in an assertive—not aggressive—manner is the h...
Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15 Expressing Anger … Calming This means not just controlling your outward behaviour, but also contro...
Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15 Anger Management   Reduce both your emotional feelings and the physiological arousal that anger ca...
Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15 Handling Anger   Relaxation Simple relaxation tools, such as deep breathing and relaxing imagery, ...
Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15 Cognitive Restructuring  This means changing the way you think Angry people tend to curse, swear, ...
Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15 Better Communication If you're in a heated discussion is slow down and think through your response...
Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15 Using Humor “ Silly humor”  humor can help diffuse rage in number of ways. There are two cautions ...
Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15 Changing the Environment Sometimes it is our immediate surrounding that’s give us cause for irrita...
 
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Anger Management

  1. 1. Presented By: Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15 Anger Management
  2. 2. Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15
  3. 3. Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15 What is Anger? Emotional state that varies in intensity from mild irritation to intense fury and rage. Like other emotions, it is accompanied by physiological and biological changes; when you get angry, your heart rate and blood pressure go up, as do the levels of your energy hormones, adrenaline, and nor adrenaline. Can be caused by both external and internal events <ul><li>You could be angry at : </li></ul><ul><ul><li>a specific person (Such as a co-worker or supervisor) or </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>event (a traffic jam, a cancelled flight), or </li></ul></ul><ul><li>your anger could be caused by worrying or brooding about your personal problems . </li></ul><ul><li>Memories of traumatic or enraging events can also trigger angry feelings. </li></ul>
  4. 4. Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15 Expressing Anger Natural way to express anger is to respond aggressively A certain amount of anger, is necessary to our survival as it inspires powerful, often aggressive, feelings and behaviours, which allow us to fight and to defend ourselves when we are attacked. <ul><li>The three main approaches to deal with angry feelings are : </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Expressing, </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Suppressing, and </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Calming. </li></ul></ul>
  5. 5. Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15 Expressing Anger … Expressing your angry feelings in an assertive—not aggressive—manner is the healthiest way to express anger. Expressing This happens when you hold in your anger, stop thinking about it, and focus on something positive. Suppressing This means not just controlling your outward behaviour, but also controlling your internal responses, taking steps to lower your heart rate, calm yourself down, and let the feelings subside.
  6. 6. Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15 Expressing Anger … Calming This means not just controlling your outward behaviour, but also controlling your internal responses, taking steps to lower your heart rate, calm yourself down, and let the feelings subside. When none of these three techniques work, that's when someone—or something—is going to get hurt.
  7. 7. Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15 Anger Management Reduce both your emotional feelings and the physiological arousal that anger causes Why Are Some People More Angry Than Others? Easily angered people don't always curse and throw things; sometimes they withdraw socially, sulk, or get physic It may be genetic or physiological: some children are born irritable, touchy, and easily angered. Family background Typically, people who are easily angered come from families that are disruptive, chaotic, and not skilled at emotional communication
  8. 8. Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15 Handling Anger Relaxation Simple relaxation tools, such as deep breathing and relaxing imagery, can help calm down angry feelings. <ul><li>Some simple steps you can try: </li></ul><ul><li>Breathe deeply, from your diaphragm; breathing from your chest won't relax you. Picture your breath coming up from your &quot;gut.&quot; </li></ul><ul><li>Slowly repeat a calm word or phrase such as &quot;relax,&quot; &quot;take it easy.&quot; Repeat it to yourself while breathing deeply. </li></ul><ul><li>Nonstrenuous, slow yoga-like exercises can relax your muscles and make you feel much calmer. </li></ul>
  9. 9. Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15 Cognitive Restructuring This means changing the way you think Angry people tend to curse, swear, or speak in highly colorful terms that reflect their inner thought Remind yourself that getting angry is not going to fix anything, that it won't make you feel Logic defeats anger, because anger, even when it's justified, can quickly become irrational. So use cold hard logic on yourself
  10. 10. Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15 Better Communication If you're in a heated discussion is slow down and think through your response Don't say the first thing that comes into your head, but slow down and think carefully about what you want to say. At the same time, listen carefully to what the other person is saying and take your time before answer. It's natural to get defensive when you're criticized, but don't fight back. Instead, listen to what's underlying the words: the message that this person might feel neglected and unloved Don’t let your anger—or a partner's—let a discussion spin out of control. Keeping your cool can keep the situation from becoming a disastrous one.
  11. 11. Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15 Using Humor “ Silly humor” humor can help diffuse rage in number of ways. There are two cautions in using the humor : 1. Don’t try to just “laugh off” your problems; rather, use humor to help you face them more constructively. 2. Don’t give in to harsh, sarcastic humor; that’s just another form of unhealthy anger expression.
  12. 12. Dheeraj Anand 2009MBA15 Changing the Environment Sometimes it is our immediate surrounding that’s give us cause for irritation and fury. Some other tips for Easing up on yourself .. Timing Avoidance Finding alternatives

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