I am very thanks Frankfinn Institute & verygrateful for the strong support and guidance provided to me by my Personality Development teacher Mrs. Garima MehtaWho helped me in preparing this assignment I am very thankful to her for the same.
Personality Development is the sum total ofways in which an individual reacts and interactswith others. Or Personality is generally defined asthe deeply ingrained and relatively enduringpatterns of thought, feeling and behavior. In fact,when one refers to personality, it generally impliesto all what is unique about an individual, thecharacteristics that makes one stand out in acrowd.
Q 1: Define Personality Personality refers to individual differences in characteristic patterns of thinking, feeling and behaving.1. Growth in Personal Nature2. Growth in Personal Character3. Progress , evolution, maturing , makeup(physical and psychological) , disposition , character or ‘persona’ .
Strength Weakness Opportunity ThreatsConfident Not Puntual Army High CompetitionI Have lot of I don’t have ability Singer Financial ThreatsPatience to say notGood Speaker Bad listener My Parents Laziness Co-operate meUnderstanding I am very Actor Emotional
Strength Weakness Opportunity ThreatsI become good Not punctual Aviation High CompetitionlistenerReasonable eye I don’t have Hospitality Financialcontact ability to say no ThreatsWell groom I am very Travel & Emotional Tourism LazinessHuge ActorconfidenceFriendly nature My Parents & Teachers Supporting me
Q2: What factors is important for development of one’s personality? Justify by giving examples.
Rationality is the characteristic of any action, belief, or desire, that makes their choice a necessity. It is a normative concept about the reasoning in the sense that rational people should derive conclusions in a consistent way given the information at disposal.
In process of personality development person should apply empathy internally that means “ put your self into other persons shoes and think accordingly” empathy help to make understand others very well with good long term relationship.
Positive attitude helps to cope more easily with the daily affairs of life. It brings optimism into your life, and makes it easier to avoid worry and negative thinking. If you adopt it as a way of life, it will bring constructive changes into your life, and makes them happier, brighter and more successful. With a positive attitude you see the bright side of life.
Leadership, a critical management skill, is the ability to motivate a group of people toward a common goal. These items will help you develop your skills as a leader.
Q1: Why do you think time has to bemanaged……?
Time management is the act or process of planning andexercising conscious control over the amount of time spenton specific activities, especially to increase effectiveness,efficiency or productivity.Time management may be aided bya range of skills, tools, and techniques used to manage timewhen accomplishing specific tasks, projects and goalscomplying with a due date.
Setting Goals Prioritising Avoiding Procrastination Breaking down tasks Persevering Organising your time Use Wasted Time
Q2: What are the Time wasters and how toovercome them?
Time Wasters• Une x p e c te d vis ito rs• Pro c ra s tina tio n•I nte rrup tio ns• Te le vis io n• M bile Pho ne , e m a il , I o nte rne t• Una bility to s a y no
Prioritize Do it now Set goals, achieve goals Schedule phone calls with end times when possible Use wasted time Using time management grid Avoid watching late night shows as this will delay the day schedule.
High important/ High importance/High Urgency Low urgencyLow important/ Low important/High Urgency Low urgency
Q1: Give a presentation in class on the leadershipqualities of a Famous personality or in the classwhom do you think has the leadership qualities,what were the qualities which made him aleader ? Which of these qualities you have? Whichare the qualities you lack and how you candevelop the same?
A quote from Mahatma Gandhi.In the mist of death, life persists.In the mist of untruth, true persists.In the mist ofdarkness, light persists.Hence I gather that God is life, truth, and light.He is love; heis the supreme good...Mahatma Gandhi was a leader that brought one of the world’s most powerfulnations to its knees… by using peace, love and integrity as his method forchange.
1. Definite Of Purpose2. Discipline3. Integrity4. Related To People5. Belief And Faith6. Flexibility7. Able To Transcend Adversaries
Qualities Qualities which is Lack Confident Nervousness Friendly Nature Lazy Positive attitude Well education Patient Motivator How can develop Leadership qualities Integrity Passionate Commitment Courageous Goal-oriented Prioritize
Q1:-What do you understand by open SelfPersonality?
When a person knows ones own personality and iswilling to share ideas, thoughts feelings and values withothers, that person is called an “open self ” personality. In service sectors like hospitality and aviation it is veryimportant that one should be an open self personality towork successfully. He should be very clear to others. Heshould share what he knows without shyness, uncertainityor lack of confidence. He should know himself better thanothers know about him. He should make conscious andconstructive interpersonal relations.
Q2:- Define the term Transactional Analysis and what sort of Ego State you mostly operate justify by giving examples…
Transactional AnalysisTransactional analysis, commonly known as TA toits adherents, is an integrative approach to the theoryof psychology and psychotherapy. It is described asintegrative because it has elements of psychoanalytic,humanist and cognitive approaches. TA was firstdeveloped by Canadian-born US psychiatrist, EricBerne, starting in the late 1950s.
Each and every human being behaving in different ego states depending upon moment and person. Parent ego state Adult ego state Child ego state “Most of the time I am in Adult and Parent ego states”
I am responsible person in my family so… When I am taking any decisions I always take my parents suggestion with prior intimation. With my brother I deal maturely and with responsibility. I take care of my family and I respect their orders. Parent Ego State ◦ Some time I advise my friend with parents ego state like ‘please don’t do this… do this… it will give you benefits’. ◦ I advice my friends and my family for their advantage.
When I am with my family and friends I am in Adult ego states. With my Colleague and Senior I behave in Adult ego state With Small children and grand parents I am in child ego states. as per situation and person I behave in different ego states,
Q1:- Talk about the Experience of the field activity. (P)
In my Group we are five members we visited SelectCity Walk Mall in Saket , New Delhi and we askedsome questions to some workers & Team Leaders.one of them said that he is satisfied with his job &one of them said that he is not satisfied with his jobbecause salary is not good and work is very tough.Team Leader Mr. Gaurav said that he is very muchsatisfied about his Job.
Q1:- Give Extempore Presentation on moral values . It can be from Panchtantra story , Movies or any personal experience of an individual.(P)
What are moral values?Morality as it relates to our behavior is important on three levels.Renowned thinker, scholar and author C.S. Lewis defines them as:(1) to ensure fair play and harmony between individuals; (2) tohelp make us good people in order to have a good society; and (3)to keep us in a good relationship with the power that created us.Based on this definition, its clear that our beliefs are critical to ourmoral behavior.
1. Mother and father are the first line of God.2. Time is very precious.3. Sleep is for relaxation but not for enjoyment.4. Good character, depth of knowledge, and positive intelligence are the real assets of man.5. Performing duties, fulfilling responsibilities, keeping up his words, and not hurting others are the characteristics of a gentleman.6. Love and care are the two eyes of God.7. Love, without self interest, is the greatest in the world.8. Bible is second to fathers advice.9. Life is an opportunity to learn from experiences.10. Understanding feelings makes friendship.
Moral Value from “Panchtantra story” The Musical Donkey Once upon a time, there was an old thin donkey who used to carry clothes and other burdens for his master. At night he was free to wander as he liked. One night, he met a jackal and they both went out in search of food. They found a garden filled with cucumbers and helped themselves to a delicious meal. After that they returned every night to the garden to eat cucumbers. And so the donkey started looking healthy and fat.
One night, after a particularly tasty meal, the donkey wasoverwhelmed with happiness and he told the jackal hewanted to sing a song. The jackal immediately told himnot to do any such thing! He warned the donkey thatthey were thieves so it was not a good idea to make noiseand attract the farmers attention. If they were caught,they would be beaten. But the donkey insisted on singing.The jackal told thedonkey that his voice was not sweet.The donkey wasupset and thought that the jackal was jealous of him.Thejackal warned the donkey again that if he did sing, thefarmers would come and reward him in a way that hewould not like.
But the donkey started singing, and the jackal decidedto wait outside the garden.When the farmers heardthe donkey braying, they rushed out to beat him. Thedonkey fell down and the farmers tied a heavy stonearound his neck. Somehow the donkey dragged himself out to thewaiting jackal. The jackal congratulated him on hisreward.The donkey realised his mistake andapologised to the jackal for not listening to the goodadvice.MORAL : He who has no wits of his own or does notheed advice of good friends, perishes like the donkey
I feel some Big changes in me because of them and those factors which I learnt in Personality development. Now I realize the importance of time management. Now I realize importance of Leadership.