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Habit 2

  1. 1. 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Living By Design
  2. 2. Proactivity does NOT mean… <ul><li>You cannot get angry (what do we do with our anger?) </li></ul><ul><li>You cannot ask for help! </li></ul><ul><li>You cannot quit a project/situation </li></ul><ul><li>You must do everything (what is a team for?) </li></ul><ul><li>You have no weaknesses ! (how can you compensate for those?) </li></ul>
  3. 3. Name and discuss one person you believe is very succesful in life
  4. 4. Were the following people successful ?
  5. 10. “ That depends a good deal on where you want to get to...”
  6. 11. What is YOUR definition of success?
  7. 12. Exercise #1 Write the TRIBUTE STATEMENTS of key persons in your life
  8. 13. It’s Your Funeral!
  9. 14. Think… <ul><li>What kind of spouse/friend/colleague would you like their words to reflect? </li></ul><ul><li>What character would you like them to have seen in you? </li></ul><ul><li>What difference would you like to have made in their lives? </li></ul>
  10. 15. XYZ Friend Allan / Dr. Tan Colleague Son Father “… a loving husband who was always there for me…” Wife Husband Tribute Statement, “Alwyn was…” Person Role
  11. 16. Habit #2 BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND
  12. 17. Independence Dependence Interdependence PUBLIC VICTORY PRIVATE VICTORY Seek First to Understand … Then to be Understood Synergize Think Win/Win Put First Things First Be Proactive Begin with the End in Mind Sharpen the Saw
  13. 18. Begin with the End in Mind. These people use personal vision , correct principles, and their deep sense of personal meaning to accomplish tasks in a positive and effective way. They live life based on self-chosen values and are guided by their personal mission statement. Begin with No End in Mind. These people lack personal vision and have not developed a deep sense of personal meaning and purpose. They have not paid the price to develop a mission statement and thus live life based on society’s values instead of self-chosen values. HABIT 2 S EVEN H ABITS OF H IGHLY E FFECTIVE P EOPLE E FFECTIVE P EOPLE I NEFFECTIVE P EOPLE
  14. 19. All Things Are Created Twice
  15. 20. “ If you fail to plan , you will plan to fail.”
  16. 21. Are you cutting down the right jungle?
  17. 22. Management = How can I best accomplish certain things?
  18. 23. Leadership = What are the things I want to accomplish?
  19. 24. Effectiveness does not depend solely on how much effort we expend , but on whether the effort we expend is in the right jungle .
  20. 26. Exercise #2 Write a personal mission statement (example)
  21. 27. Emotional support and care for my wife Education for my children Fidelity / Provision Son / Father / Husband Assistance, Listening Ear, Professional Support Care / Understanding / Help Friend Help teachers and students, etc. Introduce XYZ topics to KDU, etc. Efficiency / Creativity Trainer Long-Term Goals / Daily Contribution Values Role
  22. 28. Don’t be caught in the “THICK of thin things”!
  23. 29. 30-Day Test <ul><li>At least once a fortnight, reflect on your roles and values </li></ul><ul><li>Make sure your long-term goals fit your values </li></ul><ul><li>Always anticipate new roles (if any) </li></ul>