How to Know You are Not In Lust? Personality Development by Amb Juan

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The Author personally conducts the Lecture-Workshop in your Country. She lives in Tagaytay City, Philippines. To Reserve a Workshop Date in your Venue, please call her directly: Local (Philippines): 09295197788 or International: (63) 9266787938.E-mail: wellnesspilipinasinternational@gmail.com. E-mail: ambassadorzara@gmail.com

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P10,000 per talk provided the Organizer will fetch and bring back the Speaker in Tagaytay City.

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INTERNATIONAL Professional Fee: $1,000 USD per talk
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FYI: Ambassador Zara Jane Juan conducts the Training herself to fund the Peace Missionary Programs of Sailing for Peace because she doesn’t receive donations to prevent corruption.

PEACE VIGIL Programs are:
Initiating Peace: Interfaith Interracial Intercultural Worldwide Prayers to End Terrorism
Educating Peace: Wellness for Peace Education on Climate Change Worldwide
Innovating Peace: Climate Change & Peace Building Eco Forum and Symposium

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How to Know You are Not In Lust? Personality Development by Amb Juan

  1. 1. How To Know Your “In-love” & Not “In-lust”? Alternative Natural Contraceptive Guide only for the ladies & gentlemen who “finally” decided to be chaste by Zara Jane Juan
  2. 2. Romantic Love What is it? How do you know your in- love? How to Know Your In-Love & Not 2 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  3. 3. they say…. “He is constantly on your thoughts and first on your mind upon waking up and last on your thoughts before falling asleep” How to Know Your In-Love & Not 3 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  4. 4. they say….“You can’t keep a silly smile off your face when thinking of that person” How to Know Your In-Love & Not 4 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  5. 5. they say….“You know you have to make few adjustments in your life just to accommodate this person” How to Know Your In-Love & Not 5 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  6. 6. they say….“He/ She has unlovable traits but you love him/her just the same” How to Know Your In-Love & Not 6 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  7. 7. they say….“there has to be a “kilig” factor” How to Know Your In-Love & Not 7 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  8. 8. they say….“Real love can be proven by time” How to Know Your In-Love & Not 8 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  9. 9. they say….“When putting thebest foot forward is not anymore what both of you do” How to Know Your In-Love & Not 9 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  10. 10. Most people find that the cure for love sick is to go…. let go…let the feelings lead you where you are going... but this one is really dangerous How to Know Your In-Love & Not 10 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  11. 11. The danger offalling in love is togive in totally topassion dictated byemotions How to Know Your In-Love & Not 11 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  12. 12.  Love ruled by passion is not in-love…. Being in-love is ruled not just by passion but by principle… Principle is you know what you want and what you don’t want! How to Know Your In-Love & Not 12 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  13. 13.  If both of you are being ruled only by passion without principles…. You are not in-love… You are Infatuated… Infatuation fades How to Know Your In-Love & Not 13 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  14. 14.  So slow down… … Sexual Passion is moving water in the stream… It doesn’t have a mind of its own. Be careful! How to Know Your In-Love & Not 14 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  15. 15.  If infatuation fades and babies were created or worst sickness were left then you will be pressured by the dictate of the society…stress develops afterwards. How to Know Your In-Love & Not 15 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  16. 16.  To avoid the Penile-Vaginal Insertion (PVI) give limits to yourself and to your partner: Declare the levels of physical intimacy up to first degree only… Holding hands… Lip kissing & Hugging How to Know Your In-Love & Not 16 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  17. 17. How to keep yourself SAFE? Avoid being alone when you are passionate with someone How to Know Your In-Love & Not 17 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  18. 18. DivertSENSUALITY to CREATIVITY How to Know Your In-Love & Not 18 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  19. 19. Use your sensual passion to produce art Write a Book Learn to Paint Dance to Your Desire Sing w/ all Your Might Keep your mind occupied w/ pure thoughts & your body will respond to it accordingly. How to Know Your In-Love & Not 19 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  20. 20.  Talk it out…Lay all the facts, analyze, itemize… Talk your way out….Tell how passionate you are to this person as often as you can to release your overflowing passion within But Remember to tell it only to the one you can trust… and who to trust?... No one else but God. How to Know Your In-Love & Not 20 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  21. 21.  Tell it to God! Start the conversation with God through prayers Ask for healing… Ask for guidance… Remember that infatuation is not true love… only God knows how to heal it… Stay connected. Pray meditatively. How to Know Your In-Love & Not 21 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  22. 22.  ALWAYS CARRY A CROSS WITH YOU IF YOU’RE A CATHOLIC… FOR OTHER RELIGIONS, ALWAYS CARRY ONE ITEM IDENTIFIABLE TO YOUR RELIGION HOLD ON TO IT AND PRAY HARD… WHENEVER YOUR SEXUAL PASSION IS OVERFLOWING How to Know Your In-Love & Not 22 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  23. 23.  Do not expect instant healing at once; overflowing sensual passion is fatal sickness if not cured. Healing will take time. The first thing to do is to know that your sick with it. How to Know Your In-Love & Not 23 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  24. 24.  Ways to tamed down overflowing sensual passion: Eat Papaya everyday Tire yourself...Walk! Go to the Gym! Exercise! Avoid chili foods & spices Pray 18x a day or Fill your day with complete schedule of work with only lunch break and dinner break as your rest in between How to Know Your In-Love & Not 24 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  25. 25.  Maintain friendship to the person whom you have an infatuation Sincere but distant; Detached but concern; Aloof but approachable How to Know Your In-Love & Not 25 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  26. 26. How to be SAFE from the person you have strong sexual vulnerability? Maintain one meter apart by putting things or “safe people” in between Converse only on the phone to reconcile your principles How to Know Your In-Love & Not 26 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  27. 27.  If the person whom you have deep infatuation is not concern with your principles and doesn’t even care to respect it…. But you still like the person just the same…. Pray… Just pray… You will be guided… it is a big load of problem that only God can solve… Don’t trust yourself… leave it to God! How to Know Your In-Love & Not 27 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  28. 28.  Do not try to find the same level of sensual infatuation to other people that you meet… It is chemistry Body’s reaction will depend on elements How to Know Your In-Love & Not 28 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  29. 29.  If you give in to sensual passion once outside marriage…. go and ask for forgiveness to God. Go to your priest, confess your sin and ask for absolution Wait and ask for God’s mercy How to Know Your In-Love & Not 29 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  30. 30.  Chastity requires conviction… first and foremost, you must believe that being chaste is equivalent to human complete civilization How to Know Your In-Love & Not 30 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  31. 31.  Chastity defines our higher state of mental, emotional and psychological difference to our fellow co-creations How to Know Your In-Love & Not 31 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  32. 32.  Working for our being in achieving its full potential and perfection requires discipline of thoughts, body, actions, reactions, etc How to Know Your In-Love & Not 32 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  33. 33.  Our body is sacred… if you’re a believer it is God’s temple… so you take care of your body wholeheartedly in the same way you take care of God… If you’re a non-believer, you may take the idea that your body is worth your respect How to Know Your In-Love & Not 33 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  34. 34.  Be Considerate. Take time to be sensitive to the person’s needs. Sympathize, listen to the needs without prejudice, empathize, feel the needs but keep your virtues and find ways how you can provide without sacrificing and hurting your principles Maintain the platonic friendship. Guard its purity. Do not exploit your respect to the person and your respect to yourself. How to Know Your In-Love & Not 34 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  35. 35. Remember: There are no accidental meetings or acquaintances. The person whom you have deep passion is your sheep at a lost. Exhort. Be responsible. The person needs your help. Be the shepherd not the sheep. Lead. How to Know Your In-Love & Not 35 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  36. 36.  As a shepherd, be sensitive to the needs of your sheep. Search for wholesome events, activities, meetings, people, etc. for the person’s fulfillment and social development How to Know Your In-Love & Not 36 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  37. 37.  If the person became aloof or indifferent, guard yourself not to be offended while you are in the process of analyzing how you can help this person without compromising your virtues and principles. Take time to secure their emotions for they are very insecure. Being self-oriented, they are afraid to get hurt after experiencing traumatic pain. Patience my dear, patience How to Know Your In-Love & Not 37 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  38. 38.  Acknowledge the fact that you are highly vulnerable and that you may fall to someone. The problem is, if you are not emotionally healed and matured yet to handle the situation, the experience will be traumatic. Be safe. Wait. Pray for Discernment. If doubtful, step back and take more time to make everything absolute in your heart and mind before you proceed. How to Know Your In-Love & Not 38 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  39. 39. Remember exposing ourselves to individuals, groups of people, activities, reading materials, pictures, videos, etc that will lead us to emotional vulnerability….gives a warning signal to our hypothalamus beforehand e.g we feel uncomfortable…. If this happens to you, get out right away! How to Know Your In-Love & Not 39 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  40. 40.  Say “I’m out of here!” or “I can’t do it!” is ok to guard yourself against the dangers of emotional vulnerability How to Know Your In-Love & Not 40 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  41. 41.  Emotional vulnerability is like a flue that will paralyze your whole system for a while and will get worst if not cured. Treatment is relaxation away from the danger zone. Calmness through deep spiritual meditation and prayer. It must be natural healing, wait for the time How to Know Your In-Love & Not 41 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  42. 42.  Remember to stay away from loud and obnoxious people because they are harmful to the spirits. Continue praying in silence, do not worry, God will guide you how to solve your emotional vulnerability How to Know Your In-Love & Not 42 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  43. 43.  One cause of emotional vulnerability is the weak family foundation during your childhood. Do not compare your emotional maturity to anybody because each and every family is unique and had undergone its own way of holding the family’s foundation. Be intellectual, analyze your childhood background to understand why you are emotionally vulnerable How to Know Your In-Love & Not 43 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  44. 44.  Take note that all effects has its cause… it’s scientific! Learn the law of nature and deal with it intellectually. How to Know Your In-Love & Not 44 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  45. 45.  If you extend more time to analyze and practice intellectual exercises, you are teaching yourself to discipline your own emotional vulnerability. In due time, you will know the answers to your problems. So enjoy detailing everything down the line. Allot a time for yourself to do this intellectual dialogue alone with God. How to Know Your In-Love & Not 45 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  46. 46.  Respect is the mediator between two opposing sides that are passionately connected. If you can’t get the respect, release the person right away to avoid getting hurt. You can love the person unconditionally from afar. How to Know Your In-Love & Not 46 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  47. 47.  Remember: Consistency of your actions will give you the respect that you need. Be confident on the virtues and principles that you believe in. Do not adjust just to please another fellow. Take care of yourself. God loves you! How to Know Your In-Love & Not 47 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  48. 48.  Romantic love is to undergo the emotional, spiritual & intellectual trainings day by day…... You’re like a soldier about to face conflicts and keep in mind that whatever happens in the end… ALL IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR! How to Know Your In-Love & Not 48 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  49. 49. Think on thebrighter side…. How to Know Your In-Love & Not 49 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan
  50. 50.  God had made two innocent people in the most unexpected time to be in-love and share their life together no matter what the future holds, no matter what the people say, no matter what the dictate of society states...People have the right to fall in-love and every feeling of it is a wonderful gift of Life. Amen. How to Know Your In-Love & Not 50 In-Lust? by Zara Jane Juan

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