Persuasion: 6 Ways to Influence People (and how to say no)

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We might not all be sales oriented, but all of us would have to persuade someone at a point. Based on the book by Robert Cialdini, here are the 6 rules of influencing others (and how you can avoid being influenced).

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  • Different perception when we see two similar things one after another, instead of in isolation
  • To pay in kind what someone else has given us even if we do not like that person
  • Mamak stall – selling tissue
  • Society says: a person who has good values is consistent

    If someone says you are a generous person, you are too lazy to say otherwise.

    We don’t want to think.
  • If others are doing it, then it must be right.
  • Kids learning from other kids, young adults in college
  • Humans automatically obey:

    Titles (professor, doctor)
    Outer appearance (motorists honking)
  • If I can’t have it, I want it.
  • To popularize certain views, its better to get them censored and then publicize the censorship.
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  • Persuasion: 6 Ways to Influence People (and how to say no)

    1. 1. 6 Methods of Influencing Others By Pam Cheing, Marketing Manager at Ezypay/iconnect360 (and How to Say No) 2015
    2. 2. A summary from the book “The Psychology of Persuasion” by Robert B. Cialdini
    3. 3. About the author and the book Psychologist, author, speaker Over 2 million copies 26 languages New York Times Best Seller The Times Book of the Year
    4. 4. Weapons of Influence We all have Fixed Action Patterns Learn to trigger these action patterns to your advantage
    5. 5. Example: The discount coupon with no discount
    6. 6. Contrast principle Showing an inexpensive product before an expensive product
    7. 7. Real estate agents show rundown units before upgrading
    8. 8. The 6 Rules of Influence • Reciprocation • Commitment and consistency • Social proof • Liking • Authority • Scarcity
    9. 9. Rule 1: Reciprocation
    10. 10. Hare Krishna members and flowers
    11. 11. Free samples
    12. 12. The story of the German soldier
    13. 13. Because taking without giving is not the social norm. People expect you to repay debt, even uninvited debt. Why do we tend to reciprocate?
    14. 14. Like a man who buys a girl a drink
    15. 15. Make one offer first. After it’s turned down, make a second offer. People are less likely to turn down the second offer when they feel that they’ve made a concession. How to use Rule of Reciprocity
    16. 16. 1/3 received a hand-written sticky note requesting completion, 1/3 received a blank sticky note 1/3 without a sticky note. Marketing Example Results: - Hand-written note: 69% response rate - Blank sticky note: 43% response rate - No sticky note: 34% response rate
    17. 17. Gifts do not have to be expensive or substantial for reciprocation to work. Sharing information and doing favours can also work.
    18. 18. How do you say no to reciprocity?
    19. 19. Rule 2: Commitment and Consistency
    20. 20. Sales reps always starting with, “How are you?”
    21. 21. Objective: Get more guests to reuse their towels. Marketing Example #1: Reuse for the environment #2: Reuse and the hotel will make a donation! #3: Hotel has given a donation, “will you please join us?” #4: State that most guests reuse their towels at least once during their stay.
    22. 22. Objective: Get more guests to reuse their towels. Marketing Example #1: Reuse for the environment #2: Reuse and the hotel will make a donation! #3: Hotel has given a donation, “will you please join us?” #4: State that most guests reuse their towels at least once during their stay. 38% 36% 46% 48%
    23. 23. Get the prospect to commit to something simple and easy (like a Call-To-Action form)
    24. 24. Get the prospect to commit to something simple and easy (like a Call-To-Action form) Then get them to do even more stuff
    25. 25. Get the prospect to commit to something simple and easy (like a Call-To-Action form) Then get them to do even more stuff The prospect must view it as doing it for their own purpose.
    26. 26. Get testimonials from people similar to your target audience Shows similar people also enjoyed your service/product Product testimonials and movie reviews leverage on the rule of Commitment and Consistency.
    27. 27. How do you say no to C&C?
    28. 28. Rule 3: The social proof
    29. 29. Laughing track on old TV shows
    30. 30. Tip jars
    31. 31. 1987 - Anthony Greenwald interviewed voters on the day before election day Marketing Example “Will you be voting tomorrow?” “Why not?”
    32. 32. 1987 - Anthony Greenwald interviewed voters on the day before election day Marketing Example 100% people interviewed said that they would vote.
    33. 33. 61.5% of voters not interviewed did not vote. Marketing Example 86.7% who were interviewed the day before voted.
    34. 34. How to use the rule of social proofing? People want to be consistent and true to their word. Get people to respond by changing your sentences: “Please call if you have to cancel.” “Will you please call if you have to cancel?” Same message, different response
    35. 35. How do you say no to social proofing? Check your sources!
    36. 36. Rule 4: Liking
    37. 37. Rule 4: Liking 1.Physical attractiveness 2.Similarity 3.Compliments 4.Contact and cooperation 5.Conditioning and association We like other people based on:
    38. 38. 2005, Randy Garner sent out a marketing survey to participants with similar names. Answer rate: 56% Compared to 30% from participants with different names. Marketing Example
    39. 39. How to use the rule of liking? Know the audience’s challenges and preferences. Get them to like you!
    40. 40. How do you say no to liking? Keep your feelings separate when making business decisions.
    41. 41. Rule 5: Authority
    42. 42. The White Lab Coat Effect 1974, Stanley Milgram invited participants to ELECTRIC SHOCK interviewees.
    43. 43. The White Lab Coat Effect 1974, Stanley Milgram invited participants to ELECTRIC SHOCK interviewees. Everytime someone answered incorrectly, you increased their voltage by 15V
    44. 44. The White Lab Coat Effect 1974, Stanley Milgram invited participants to ELECTRIC SHOCK interviewees. “NO! STOP! IT HURTS! HELP ME!”
    45. 45. The White Lab Coat Effect 1974, Stanley Milgram invited participants to ELECTRIC SHOCK interviewees. Incredibly, 2 out of 3 testers would ignore the cries and continue increasing the voltage as instructed by the white lab coats.
    46. 46. When people are uncertain, they look outside themselves for information to guide their decisions.
    47. 47. Rule 6: Scarcity
    48. 48. Parental interference in a romantic relationship.
    49. 49. We value banned information as more valuable.
    50. 50. Marketing Example 1985, Coca Cola decided to change their recipe and called it “New Coke”. During blind taste testing, people preferred the New Coke flavour over the old flavour.
    51. 51. New Coke: “The Marketing Fiasco of the Decade.”
    52. 52. Because people couldn’t have the old Coke anymore, it became the favourite.
    53. 53. This is why copywriters use sentences like: “Don’t miss this chance…” “Here’s what you’ll miss out on…”
    54. 54. How do you say no to scarcity?
    55. 55. Review: The 6 Rules of Influence • Reciprocation • Commitment and consistency • Social proof • Liking • Authority • Scarcity
    56. 56. My Personal Opinion Being able to influence others is important. But You cannot win at life if you’re persuasive and selfish.
    57. 57. For more info, read the book! (Available at the Marketing Team’s library)

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