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Convert your Love into Arrange
Marriage: Mixed Marriage
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Convert your Love into Arrange Marria
In our country India, people value
more to the tradition and the culture
than anything else. So, interracial
marriages in India like country are
the cry and imbue. Because here
the kid goes in that school in which
his or her parent wants. In college
choose those subject and stream
which parent suggests. And finally
Boy or Girl marries to the person
whom parent selected for him or her
as they are totally involved in their
child’s life. Sometime they do plan
their own dreams and leaves it to
their children, no matter what their
children want. Even after years of
globalization, people’s… Page 1 of 9

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thinking and outlook not got
changed about love and love
marriages. In most of the cases girl
and boy do revolt against their
parents and elope from home to do
love marriage. But in few of the
circumstances, parents get
convinced to their children’s choice
and do marry according to their
children’s wish. Lover of same
caste or religion may also have
problem of convincing their family
and parents.
It is a very challenging, complicated
and difficult task to convince Indian
family and parent about, “you… Page 2 of 9
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want to marry your love.” It requires
much efforts, skill, time and
sensitivity also. Once you disclosed
at home about your love and
marriage it could be stressful for
you both.
Few ideas for convincing your
parents:
Right Time:-
In India order of marriages event
are being well decided. Girl of India
can get marry any time after 18 and
boy after completion of his
education when he starts…
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So before revealing your love in
front of your family, boys you must
start earning good and if you have
some good bank balance it will be
plus point for you and for girl it is
must that your young man is
earning good. Wait for the time until
these requirements are fulfilled.
Secrecy:-
It is the norm of Indian culture you
can’t express your love openly in
the family. Because love and dating
is a taboo for traditional and
conservative family. As elder thinks
having a boyfriend or… Page 4 of 9
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girlfriend may disturb their child’s
study or job. So, if boy keep you
secret it means he is shielding you
(girl) and himself also from mental
torture for the time. So, keep your
love secret unless you (Boy) have
secured earning and financially
strong to support both of yours
expenses.
Now sow the seed :
Finally the time has come when you
are prepared to disclose your love
and having in mind to marry her. So
you can express “I know this person
since long time” it will give them… Page 5 of 9
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time to think about. Or they may
have counter argument with you on
“why to be with ‘X’ only” So try not
to be blank in your discussion and
strongly prepare earlier for such
questions. For example you may
express:
• You want to marry her only, no
one else.
• She will care for you all very well.
• How she will serve you better.
• We need both of your blessing.
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Convert your Love into Arrange Marria

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Don’t impose on them; try to have
two way conversations. They may
have lots of point for opposing you,
so you must have worked out with
all points previously.
Don’t say like “if you will not
approve, we shall elope from home”
it will be worst nightmare for your
parents.
Let few days pass, and one day
make a meeting of parents with
your girlfriend suddenly. It is to
demonstrate to your parent how
perfect is your choice and your
parent may get impressd by… Page 7 of 9
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talking with her.
Some Manifest may work:
While convincing give them some
good real life examples how ‘love
marriage’ are happy and
successful. And also remind them
some arranged marriage examples
which turned into unhappiness or
divorced. Tell them how estimating
mutual compatibility is necessary to
live happily.
If you have doubt of even 0.01 %
don’t start conversation. Try to take
help of your aunty/ sister … Page 8 of 9
Convert your Love into Arrange
Marriage: Mixed Marriage

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uncle or anybody to whom you are
very closed and your parents trust
on their judgments. Firstly introduce
your lady friend to them and ask
them to bring the topic with your
parents.
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Convert your Love into Arrange
Marriage: Mixed Marriage

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