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Lots of guys want to know how to make a girl like them over text. If you're one of them, you've
come to the right place. Getting a girl interested in you just by texting will be easy if you follow
these tips on how to text girls.
The Most Important Thing When Texting Girls
Whether you're texting a girl you just met or texting a girl you've known a while, the most
important piece of advice for texting girls is to have fun. Always keep your texts with women
playful and lighthearted. Making a girl smile and light up when she sees your message is the
key to how to make a girl like you over text.
How to Make a Girl Smile over Text
As for how to make a girl smile over text, here are some tips and examples of what to text girls
that are sure to get the girl to like you.
 Tease her. Don't be afraid to poke fun at the girl you're texting in a playful, good-natured
way. Not only does teasing a girl make her laugh, it shows that you're not a just a suck-
up. Teasing alone can show that you have confidence with women and therefore will
help build attraction with women. Here's an example of a fun text to send to a girl that
reflects that confident, playful teasing: "you're a closet dork aren't you…except without
the closet.
 Make fun of yourself. A surefire way to get a girl to smile over text is to make fun of
yourself (in a tongue-in-cheek kind of way, not through self-deprecation). By making fun
of yourself, you get her laughing and show that it's okay for her to let her guard down.
She'll feel more comfortable with you, which will allow the woman to become more
attracted to you.Example: If you're agreeing with something the girls says, you could
respond to her text with something like "Okey dokey little pokey (ya I'm a dork like that.
 Guess her answers. Another way to have fun and keep your texts to girls interesting is to
guess her answers. This is a great way to spice up your texts to girls, separate yourself

from other guys, and ultimately get the girl interested in you.For example, your text to a
girl could read: "What r u up to this weekend? Let me guess…taking a speed knitting
class so you can make me a scarf! You are sooo sweet.
 Role play. The same banter techniques that work in meeting and attracting women also
work great over text. Whether it's pretending to be a husband and wife headed toward
divorce, a rock star and his groupie – or anything else you can think of – bantering with
girls through made-up role play is great. It provides a fun way to create a shared
experience that will make the girl smile and get her feeling more connected to you.One
example of how to banter with women through text is to pretend she's a stalker and
you're her victim. Using this banter example you might text a girl something like: "Did I
just catch you spying on me as I was changing into my gym clothes my little stalker?!"
Make Her Chase You
Women want a man who provides a challenge and are turned off by men who make things too
easy. So when you're texting a girl, get her chasing you by giving her a bit of a challenge. You
can do that by following the two texting tips below:
 Disqualify yourself. To look more confident with women and avoid coming across as
needy, playfully disqualify yourself from her dating pool. That is, joke about how the two
of you would never be right for each other. You could, for instance, text her something
like: "Woah woah! You like {thing she likes}? I didn't know you were that "type" of girl! I
might have to get my mom's permission just to kick it with you… lol :)". By playfully
pushing away like this, you create that space for the girl to chase you.
 Do not overtext. This is a big one as too much texting can destroy attraction with
women. As a general rule, whoever is putting the most effort into the communication is
the one doing the chasing. So if you want to have any shot of getting a girl to chase you,
then you must not over-text. Instead, look to keep the text ratio close to 1:1 and text the
girl about as frequently as she texts you.

Make a Girl Feel Special over Text
Another trick for how to make a girl like you over text is to stroke her ego. Let her know that
she's made a positive impact on you and that she's still on your mind. An example of this would
be, "I just saw the cutest little squirrel in the park gathering nuts and it made me think of you :)"
A text like that is going to make a girl feel special – and making a girl feel good like that is a
surefire way to get the girl to like you.
Every girl is different, and there are as many different ways to attract a girl as there are girls.
That being said, there are some basic principles of attraction you can apply to most situations.
To get a girl to like you, you'll need to get noticed by being her friend while simultaneously
flirting and testing the waters of romance to avoid the friend zone. When the time is right and
you think your feelings might be mutual, you can ask her out to seal the deal.
Get Noticed
Have your own life. If you tend to fall into the "friend zone," this will be especially important. Real
girls (girls with a strong sense of purpose and self-worth) don't like guys who have no lives or
who cling to them like plastic wrap . Some girls do like that, but for all the wrong reasons—either
they're insecure and needy for attention, or they're control freaks who have a need for
dominating guys. Unless you want to sign up for one of those scenarios, focus filling your time
with your own friendships, interests, hobbies, and goals. This also gives her a chance to do
something with you without it becoming a date.
1. Have your own life. If you tend to fall into the "friend zone," this will be especially
important. Real girls (girls with a strong sense of purpose and self-worth) don't like guys
who have no lives or who cling to them like plastic wrap . Some girls do like that, but for
all the wrong reasons—either they're insecure and needy for attention, or they're control
freaks who have a need for dominating guys. Unless you want to sign up for one of
those scenarios, focus filling your time with your own friendships, interests, hobbies, and
goals. This also gives her a chance to do something with you without it becoming a date.
2. Look neat. Keep yourself well groomed and in shape. If you want to get a girl to like you,
basic cleanliness and appearance are extremely important. Girls notice things like bad

breath, flab, body odor and greasy hair before they notice that winning personality. Give
them a chance to see your good qualities by making a good first impression with your
appearance.
 Stay in shape. Work out regularly: run a mile or two, do some sit ups, get a six pack,
etc. Note that while fitness is important, you shouldn't overdo it; having too many
muscles can make it look like you care more about going to the gym than fostering
meaningful relationships. Also, some girls dislike having the Incredible Hulk as a
boyfriend, and it makes you look slightly stupid - thanks to the dumb jock cut-out. So
make it clear you're fit, but not thick. In other words, stay fit without being obsessive
or a pair of walking biceps.
 Have good personal hygiene. Brush your teeth, shave etc. If you can't have access
to a toothbrush, carry breath mints. When you take care of yourself, it makes you
more appealing to others and it will thus have a positive impact on your level of
confidence. Always be sure to smell and look nice, so shower regularly and nothing
is worse than the post-gym stink out, so use deodorant.
3. Speak to her. It's unlikely a girl will be at all interested in you if she doesn't know you
exist. Make an effort to talk to her, even if approaching her seems scary at first. Highlight
your compatibility as friends and more by talking about hobbies and interests that you
have in common. Become her friend; she can't get close to you unless you're friends.
Find a hobby you both like. It doesn't matter if it is anything from sports to school. If you
both like hockey, invite her to a game. If you both like video games, play one together, or
she could cheer you on if she doesn't usually play. Girls are all different in likes and
dislikes.
4. Make her laugh. Telling jokes or funny stories is a classic way to make a person laugh,
but not the only way. Be bold and think of some antics that will make her laugh, like
clowning around. Find out which are her favourite comedians, funny movies, or sitcoms.
Watch them with her. Tell her to dare you to do something, then do it (as long as it's not
illegal, of course). Laughter will come by itself if both of you are relaxed and enjoying
each others company. The more she laughs, the more she wants - and she will want

more.
5. Be her friend. Girls don't just fall for random strangers. (Well, some do, but the
relationship never goes very far!) Start being friendly to her in a non-invasive way. Get to
know her and begin hanging out as friends.
a. If you're in the same lecture or tutorial as her, find out her name. Every time she
walks into the room, smile and wave at her. Sometimes this is all it takes for a
young woman to notice you. At the same time though, don't do this too often; It
will just end up looking like you're obsessed with her. If you're worried, greet
some of your girl friends as they enter, too. If she doesn't seem to see you, when
she walks by, just say "Hi _______," in a friendly way, but don't interrupt the
class or any conversation she's holding.
b. If she's shy, she might just smile back, so don't take this as a sign that she
doesn't like you.
c. If you want your relationship to move ahead faster, don't get stuck in the
quicksand - that is, the 'Friend Zone'. Sometimes, a girl won't go out with you
because she's afraid if the relationship will end badly, but that she'll lose your
friendship! To start moving things along, be a little flirty; a woman will only be
intimate with a man she knows, trusts and cares about, and this can only be
achieved with taking the time to get to know her through friendly chat. However,
don't come on too quickly - part of the fun of the relationship is the chase - and
have patience. Girls HATE being forced into something, especially on the
relationship front.

Stay out of the Friend Zone
1. Flirt. Being flirty will help keep you out of the friend zone because it will remind the girl
that you're attractive as well as a good friend. When you see or meet a girl you like,
make brief eye contact and smile. Strike up a casual, flirty conversation and see how
she reacts. If you avoid her eyes and act nervous, she's going to go into overdrive
working out what on earth you mean. Girls react mainly on body language and emotions.
If you make them feel happy, they'll see you as fun and caring. If you creep them out,
they will get nervous - in the options between fight or flight, flight is the most preferable.
a. Relax. Chill. Don't put pressure on yourself or her by thinking of her as the girl of
your dreams. Try not to stress about what will happen if you make a bad joke or
say the wrong thing. She may be just as nervous, and small mistakes will likely
go unnoticed or will simply be ignored. Don't worry if flirting seems difficult at first.
The more you talk to girls, the more relaxed you'll become. Girls often are the
most jumpy because of the thousands of different responses their brain puts
together at every word. They stress over picking the right one, and that sets them
so flustered that they'll barely notice the bad joke from trying to relieve your
awkwardness.
b. Enjoy interacting with this attractive, friendly girl whose path crossed yours. While
you don't want to stress yourself out, remember that the final goal is to get her to
like you. Don't say things that will seem too forward or offensive. Mostly, the
same girl is getting to like YOU.
2. Compliment her. If you really like someone, you probably appreciate a lot of things about
her. Why not let her know? If anything is different or new (her hairstyle, nail polish
colour, shirt, etc.), make note of it. The more unique the compliment, the better received
it will be.
a. Most girls like being complimented on something that makes them distinct, not
something that plenty of other girls have. If you compliment her appearance, try
to be original, perhaps by specifying a particular feature. Better yet, compliment
her personality or skills. If you're not sure what's good or bad complimenting,

read How to Compliment Girls.
b. Don't tell her she's beautiful too often. If she's very pretty, it's likely that several
other guys have already mentioned it to her; it may sound trite after a while. If
you're going to compliment her, stand out by making comments about her
personality, how good she is at something, how she does things, etc.
Complimenting her appearance too much may make her think you're shallow and
maybe that you just want to have sex with her, and you don't want to give that
impression.
3. Impress her. There's no one-size-fits-all solution here. What impresses one girl might
make another roll her eyes. Your best bet is to be yourself. Demonstrate a unique skill,
talent or something difficult to do that you're proud of, something that sets you apart from
the crowd. Not only will this make her feel good about you, but it can boost your
confidence, too.
a. Be careful not to be cocky. Impress her, but do not boast too much about your
great achievements and plans. While self confidence is an attractive quality,
extreme cockiness is a huge turnoff for most girls.
4. Break the touch barrier. There are several ways to touch a girl without being sleazy.
Hold her coat while she puts it on. Offer her your hand when she's stepping on an
uneven surface. Hold out your hand so you can lead her through a crowd, catch her if
she stumbles, and hug and high-five her when she's euphoric. If she's worried, put your
hand lightly on her shoulder to comfort her. These are all polite ways to get a little closer
to someone without being creepy.
a. Girls feel touch more sensitively than most men, even if they put up a tough front,
so make sure the touching is light; for example, don't slap her on the back, but
pat her on the shoulder. If you see any signs of discomfort, stop!
5. Test the water. After there's a bit of mutual attraction, start throwing out low-level "bait"—
little jokes that hint at interest—to see if she bites. A good baiting statement should be
light and playful, and usually ambiguous. "Baiting" is how women flirt too, so be on the

lookout for things she might be "joking" about or things that could have a double
meaning.
a. There's a certain look a woman will give you if you get that right (and if she's the
right girl to begin with). It's like you gave her the secret handshake. She'll look
back at you for a couple of seconds, wondering if you "get it" or if you just
accidentally stumbled on the right words. When she does this, hold eye contact,
half-smile, and don't react otherwise. This is like being one point of the world's
high score: it's probably the most fragile moment in the history of both of you.
Wait for her to say the next thing, and cross your fingers it'll be yes.
6. Take your time. Don't be pushy or needy. Nice girls normally need longer time than boys
to develop deep feelings. Continue courting her by following the steps above, but don't
rush things. If you end up in a relationship with this girl, she'll always remember how you
made her feel when you were just getting to know each other.
a. Make her feel appreciated, not invisible or smothered. Do the chase slowly and
gently (but steadily) to reduce fear of sexual advances (if any), avoid looking
desperate, and to allow her to get accustomed to a new man in her life. Do not
force the relationship; carefully look for clues on where and when you can see
her again.

Ask Her Out
1. Ask her out. Once you feel comfortable, invite her to go somewhere or to do something
with you. Make sure it's something that you're both interested in. If you want, show her
your world. Bring her somewhere that you feel comfortable and preferably, where you
have or do something you're proud of.
a. Alternatively, you can express interest in seeing her world. Is she a musician?
Ask if you can see her perform. Is she a mathematician? Ask to read her report
or thesis.
b. If you aren't yet ready or comfortable with the idea of sharing your personal lives
to that extent, just go out for lunch or do something simple together where you
can get to know her better.
2. Make her feel important. Chivalry is not dead. Keep it up by opening doors, holding an
umbrella over her, carrying stuff when she has her hands full, lending her your jumper,
and basically caring for her. The mark of a true gentleman is to a lady feel like a lady.
Girls want to feel important and valued. When communicating with her, make an effort to
say more rather than less and to keep things personal rather than generic. When you
want to ask her out or to do something with you, ask in person, preferably at her home.
She needs to know that you're prepared to go the extra mile and not wuss out on her.
3. Be romantic. The stereotypical icons of romance (roses, candles, chocolate and teddy
bears) can only go so far. Think about what really gets that special someone excited.
Recognize what makes her unique; find and do things that only she would appreciate.
Being romantic means acknowledging how special a person is, and that means
demonstrating that you know––better than anyone else in the world—–what makes her
unique.
a. Pay attention when she's talking! Keep a mental list of things that she loves and
that make her unique. What are her quirky (perhaps secret) interests, obsessions
and fantasies? What makes her eyes light up? Girls are quick to notice if you

remember things they told you a long while ago.
4. Confide in each other. Tell her what you really enjoy in life, what gets you excited and
find out what gets her excited. Be positive. If you had a bad day, still greet her pleasantly
with a big smile. Most importantly, listen to everything she says. Whether she talks about
herself, her family, or her hobbies, pay attention. Some things could be useful or
important to know later in the relationship. Nod to show that you're listening, and also
respond to what she says so she knows that you really are listening. Women are very
appreciative of guys who demonstrate sincere interest in what they say.
5. Be yourself. You are unique. Be the authentic you. Bring out your best. Let her know you
as who you truly are. Use your talents, gifts, and strengths and let yourself be known. If
you have great sense of humor, share that with her. If you love science, music, poetry,
politics, or sports, let her know what you love. The right woman will fall for you and love
you just the way you are.

Make a Girl Like You Without Asking Her Out
You like a girl. And you want her to like you back. All you need to do is follow ten little steps.
Find out how to make a girl like you without even asking her out.
When a regular guy likes a girl, he wears his heart on his sleeves and asks her out.
But he really doesn't know if she's going to accept his proposal or walk all over him.
Being straight forward is a nice way to ask a girl out, but it's not perfect.
If you want to know how to make a girl like you, you need to know how to do just that without
really ever telling her that you like her in the first place.
By asking a girl out, you're putting her in a spot, probably because she's never looked at you as
a dating potential or because she likes someone else.
But by warming her up and making her want you first, you'd be able to make her like you without
ever telling her that you want to go out with her.
How to make a girl like you?
When a girl feels comfortable around you, you're a nice guy.
When she has a great time with you, you're definitely a great guy.

If she has a great time with you and feels a flutter in her heart when she's around you, well,
you're definitely on the right track to making her like you.
Most guys try to be nice guys, and there's really nothing wrong in that. If you want to get a girl to
like you, you definitely have to play nice. But as the friendship progresses, you have to learn to
subtly move away from the friend zone and let her notice you as a dating potential. [Read: How
to charm a girl]
Many guys get this part wrong. They want to go out with a girl, but they never really make any
move towards letting the girl know what's on their mind. And eventually, all that happens is that
she gets swept away by some other guy, while they whine about how unfair life is to them. Don't
be that loser of a guy.
Attractive friends and dating potentials
If you have an attractive friend, never let her see you as just a friend, unless you have no
intentions of ever dating her or making out with her. But can any guy ever not fall for an
attractive cutie, friend or otherwise? I think not.
Girls may find it easier to stay friends with an attractive guy, but guys just can't. It's in a man's
competitive nature to woo anyone he finds attractive. But there are exceptions here, like when
the girl is already dating another guy, or if she's so way out of your league that you can't even
think of asking her out.
If you really do like a girl and want to make her like you, you can always overcome the
exceptions if you want to. If she's dating another guy, learn how to steal a girlfriend. And if you
think she's way out of your league, let me tell you something, no girl is ever way out of league
for any guy. If you believe in yourself and truly realize that you're worthy of her, you'll find a way
to leave a lasting impression on her.
Don't smooth talk all girls you meet
If you want to know how to make a girl like you, you need to stop trying to be a serial flirter. Do
you have a friend who flirts with every single girl he meets, even if there are two or more girls at
the same time?

Now his flirting abilities may be a gift to die for, but when you publicly flirt with every single friend
or girl you meet, you're not treating one girl any different from the other. All the girls may end up
assuming you're just a serial flirter who just flirts with all his friends.
Making a girl like you the sneaky way
If you want to make a girl like you, she has to believe that you're treating her differently. By
treating her in a special manner, you'll make her wonder if you've got something more than
friends on your mind. Really, why else would you treat one friend differently from the others?
And once you get her thinking, you've already set the ball in motion. Both of you may be friends,
but the doubt of whether both of you are more than friends would create a tingle of sexual
excitement and curiosity that can score you big points while pursuing her sneakily.
Don't flirt and tell
A bit of casual flirting is fun, even among friends. You can flirt and tease all your girl friends, but
don't overdo it. Let all your women friends see you as a cheerful guy who's a lot of fun to spend
time with.
But save your wooing and flirting when you're alone with a girl. Flirt with her using the sneaky
flirting steps I've mentioned below and get touchy feely when it's just the both of you. By
keeping it discreet, you get to make an impression on the girl, and no one else even knows
about it. The secret flirting can excite the girl you like, and you're not really asking her out
anyways, are you? You're just indulging in a bit of "friendly flirting"•.
If this girl speaks about your flirting with another girl friend, everyone knows you as a cheerful
guy who flirts now and then, so no one's going to believe she's getting any special treatment
from you, and this would only make her get drawn to you even if it's just to confirm her doubts!
[Read: 10 signs of a good boyfriend]
On the other hand, if she keeps the flirting a secret too, it'll make her feel all the more excited to
share a special connection with you.
Either ways, you win!

What's the next move?
If you want to understand the real secret behind knowing how to make a girl like you, you
always need to remember to keep your real intentions of wanting to go out with her a secret until
you know she really likes you back.
Asking a girl out straight is easy, but once you do that, you have no control on her decision. And
if you do like a girl and want to go out with her, why would you want to leave your hopes to
chance?
As chauvinistic as I may sound, girls like a bit of drama and confusion in their life. Create a
friend-or-more-than-a-friend drama and watch the pretty picture unfold while having the ball in
your court the whole way. And if you play your cards right and take it slow, you'll know how to
make a girl like you back without even expressing your feelings to her!

How to Be a Much Better Man Using the Right Role Model
Do you dream of becoming a chick magnet who can get any woman he wants no matter where
he goes? Find out how to be a better man using a role model. By Kevin Smith
Knowing how to be a better man can be the difference between a chick magnet and a guy who's
always overlooked.
But becoming a better man, especially when it comes to wooing women isn't easy.
You try hard, work your social skills and women still seem to pick someone else over you.
Ever been there?
Join the club.
Poets and writers through the ages have tried understanding women, so have people like you
and me, but to no avail.
And coming to think of it, perhaps that's why we love women so much.
Add complicated to the list, along with a pretty face, good assets, a cheerful voice, a flirty laugh
and a bit more and you get the idea of the perfect woman.
How to be a better man
Here's the confusion that most men face. You may think you have a great personality and a lot
of humor and pizzazz, but yet there's obviously something lacking there. Or why wouldn't you be
swarmed by women all the time?
Thomas Jefferson had mentioned something along the lines of "…all men are created
equal…"• along with other intellectually accentuated over-the-top lines, which are great and all
that, but is that really the case? Are we all ever equal, at least when it comes to dating women?
We may have come a long way since the declaration of independence, but these days all men
are not equal. They are merely a part of a food chain, minus the chomping.
Men at every level want to be one up, in everything they do. But how do we know where's the
top? The biggie, the Alpha dawg!

The alpha male of relationships
All men want to be the alpha male who gets all the women, but to get there without having to
experiment is hard. So the next best thing most men do is trying to fit into the mould of the idea
of the perfect man. A guy with a sense of humor, pretty decent looks for an average looking guy,
sex god looks for the good looking ones, a good job, a flashy car and all the works. But then,
there are so many of them in this league that women just want more!
So, for you to get straight to the top of the food chain of men, you need to become someone
else who's even better than you. For starters, women don't necessarily like one stereotype when
it comes to men. Women like different types of men, who stand out of the crowd like a shiny
penny.
Becoming a better man with a role model
What's a role model? Well, blatantly put, he's that guy who can do things that you can't ever
dream of doing in all your nine lives! I remember one time years ago when I was at a movie
theater watching Jerry Maguire. And then there came this part that I would never forget for the
rest of my life. The part where Tom Cruise walks up to Renée Zellweger, and tells her with his
big watery eyes that she… completes…. him!
Aah! In one instant, the hall was engulfed by a watery salty sea breeze and all I could hear
around me was sniffs and snorts. Tissue wipes were pulled out of dainty lady bags all around
me and mascara stained faces were being rubbed pink. And there I was in the midst of an
emotional crisis. And that's when I imagined myself running to the movie screen with my pants
unzipped, yelling "what's he got that I ain't got?!"•
But I didn't. Let's face it, any guy who can get women all around the world welling up and
creating new salt lakes has got to be some super dude. I wanted to be him. At that moment, I
just knew. Jerry Maguire was a freakin' role model!
Jerry Maguire may have had his flaws, but he was a man who knew how to charm women and
every else around him. If I could pick a few pointers from him, I could become someone like
him.

Picking your role model
Picking a role model isn't easy business. It isn't like watching a pretty girl and falling for her.
Your role model has to lead your life, or at least something along the same lines. You can't
really be a corporate geek and have Kurt Cobain as your role model. Then you'd just be creepy.
If you want to know how to be a better man by using a role model, pick someone who you can
look up to, and make sure they live the life you aspire to have, at least in some way or the other.
Donald Trump, Richard Branson, and the late Steve Jobs are really cool guys in the corporate
world. When it comes to wooing women and looking smooth at the same time, we have great
guys like George Clooney, Hugh Jackman, Will Smith and a lot more. See anyone you like?
You'd know someone is your role model when you watch a movie or an interview and instantly,
without actually realizing it, find yourself saying "I wish I was this guy!"
The more the role models, the better you can become
Now you really don't have to be picky. Get greedy and hoard up as many role models as you
want. To each his own. I have several role models too.
Each character in the world or in the movies has something that's nice and something that may
be not-so-nice. Make that perfect character that you'd want to be, and try and be that person.
Want to be a cool player like Daniel Ocean in the Ocean series, a hard ball like Edward Lewis in
Pretty Woman, and a smooth tough guy like Detective Mike Lowrey in Bad Boys II?
Well, you can be all of that. That's the best part of having role models.
Why should you use role models?
Let's face it, you can read a lot of self improvement books, but can they all really help you? The
facts may be informative, but your ego may never let you admit that you suck when it comes to
impressing women. If you want to know how to be a better man, you need to take chances and
learn from others. And what better way than to learn from someone who inspires you, be it a
fictional character or a real life hero.
It's easier to watch and learn from an inspiration, and be a better man yourself. It's never easy
to pick flaws in yourself. And it's frustrating each time you hear a girl say something like, "I'm
sorry, I just can't feel that spark with you!"•

It feels even worse because you'd never be able to find the flaws yourself, either because you
think you're already perfect or because you're too thick to see that you're not that perfect after
all. So instead, just refine yourself to become someone you know all women would kill to have.

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