Creating the Love You Want Now
To have the love you want right now in your life, stop waiting for the right loved one to come to
you and become active with your focus on love. Focus on your best, most positive beliefs about
love and to look for signs that reinforce those beliefs.
I offered these examples of activities that will help you create the love you want: Acknowledge
couples you know or know of who are creating great relationships, tear photos out of
magazines that inspire you to great love, read, listen and write poetry or music about great
love, and become aware of how people in your life are expressing love to you every single day.
This process I call, "Opening our mind to the love we truly want." We are always creating a
reality for ourselves based on our thoughts and beliefs. This is quantum physics, that we are
creating a field of experience based on the energy we are sending out. In large part this is
through our mind's projections. When love is not adding up to as great as we want it to be,
then more of our focus is on the negative belief system and can bring us great discouragement.
The more positive our thoughts, the more positive the field of experiences that we are creating.
As we increase our positive thoughts and beliefs, we begin to see more love show up in our
lives. We enjoy more loving people coming into our field, more potential partners, more
receptivity in our intimate relationships and more loving actions towards us.
Focusing our attention on the reinforcements of love that begin presenting themselves in our
lives is an act of gratitude. Acknowledging love is an act of honoring how love is taking shape
in our lives, and that simple act of thankfulness creates more of the love that we truly want.
Creating Perfect Love Challenge:
Throughout your week, I suggest that you write a list of the love that is presenting itself daily
in your life. Name from the smallest to the largest: a beautiful day, a hug, a compliment of
something done well, a friends call, a great date, or a deeper, passionate connection with your
partner. Let this Creating Perfect Love challenge bring forth your bounty of love.
Karinna Kittles-Karsten, The Love Educator, is the founder of SacredLove.com an online
dating, love school and fun couples membership site. She is also an internationally recognized
relationship expert, speaker, author of the best-selling book, Intimate Wisdom, The Sacred Art
of Love, and the creator/host of the popular DVD Sacred Love-Making. Visit