11. WOMEN REPRESENT ONLY 20% OF SENIOR POSITIONS
IN COMPANIES ON A GLOBAL BASIS.
20 .
DESPITE THERE BEING AN ALMOST 50:50 SPLIT
BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN WORKING IN ADVERTISING,
= ONLY 22.4% OF WOMEN HOLD SENIOR POSITIONS IN
ADVERTISING AGENCIES.
50:50, 22.4%
.
OF ALL THE CREATIVE DIRECTORS IN THE WORLD,
APPROX 3% ARE WOMEN.
3 .
GRANT THORNTON INTERNATIONAL BUSINESS
REPORT 2011 & THE IPA INDUSTRY REPORT 2011
15. #1 CLIENTS VALUE QUANTITY MORE THAN QUALITY.
#1 .
#2 CLIENTS ARE EMPOWERED TO SAY NO MORE THAN YES.
#2 .
#3 CLIENTS DON’T LIKE BEING CHALLENGED.
#3 .
18. SCENARIO #1 #1
YOU ARE IN A MEETING WITH A BUNCH OF PEOPLE YOU
REGARD AS VERY CLEVER. .
WHEN YOU EVALUATE YOUR CAPABILITIES [OR KNOWLEDGE]
AGAINST THERE’S, YOU DECIDE YOU ARE ‘VERY POOR’. “ ”.
BECAUSE OF THIS, YOU SPEND THE WHOLE MEETING AS QUIET
AS A CHURCH MOUSE IN ORDER TO PROTECT YOURSELF FROM .
LOOKING FOOLISH.
19. SCENARIO #2 #2
YOU ARE IN A MEETING WITH A BUNCH OF PEOPLE YOU .
REGARD AS VERY CLEVER.
YOU HAVE A QUESTION BUT YOU ARE SO NERVOUS YOU .
SPEND AGES GOING OVER IT IN YOUR HEAD TRYING TO
SECOND-GUESS WHETHER IT IS A STUPID THING TO ASK.
.
BY THE TIME YOU COME TO THE DECISION IT IS VALID,
THE OPPORTUNITY HAS EITHER GONE OR SOMEONE
ELSE HAS ASKED THE QUESTION.
20. SCENARIO #3 #3
YOU FIND YOURSELF SURROUNDED BY A BUNCH OF
PEOPLE WHO ALL SEEM TO KNOW EACH OTHER VERY, .
VERY WELL.
EVERYONE EXCEPT YOU, SEEMS TO SHARE THE SAME
VIEWPOINT BUT YOU KEEP QUIET BECAUSE YOU DON’T
WANT TO LOOK FOOLISH AND THINK YOU MUST BE .
WRONG BECAUSE OTHERWISE SOMEONE ELSE WOULD
HAVE SAID SOMETHING.
21. SCENARIO #4 #4
YOU HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO PRESENT .
TO A BUNCH OF PEOPLE WHO ARE
RENOWNED FOR BEING ‘TOUGH’.
.
YOU THINK OF HOW THEY COULD REACT TO
WHAT YOU SAY AND DECIDE ITS BETTER TO
LET SOMEONE ELSE TAKE OVER.
22. SCENARIO #5 #5
YOU ARE IN A MEETING WHERE EVERYONE IS .
SPEAKING IN A LANGUAGE THAT ISN’T YOUR
PREFERRED CHOICE. .
BECAUSE OF THIS, YOU FIND IT HARD TO KEEP UP
WITH WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING.
.
AFTER A WHILE, YOU REALISE THE PEOPLE HAVE
MADE A DECISION YOU DON’T AGREE WITH BUT FEEL
IT’S TOO LATE TO BRING IT UP BECAUSE YOU DON’T
WANT TO LOOK LIKE YOU’RE SLOW TO GRASP WHAT
HAS BEEN HAPPENING IN THE MEETING.
23. Five Ways To
Take Control:
[ ]
1. THE “EGO MASSAGE” QUESTION
“
2. THE “NUDGE IT ALONG” QUESTION
“
3. THE “PERSONAL EXPERIENCE” QUESTION
“
4. THE “INNOCENT CURIOSITY” QUESTION
“
5. THE “SELF DEPRECIATION” QUESTION
“
24. 1. The “Ego Massage” Question
PEOPLE LIKE TALKING ABOUT THEMSELVES.
PEOPLE LIKE TO FEEL KNOWLEDGABLE AND IMPORTANT.
SO WHEN YOU WANT TO CHALLENGE A CLIENT ON SOMETHING THEY’VE SAID, START OFF YOUR QUESTION WITH …
“IN YOUR EXPERIENCE” OR “WITH YOUR KNOWLEDGE IN THIS FIELD” OR “IN YOUR OPINION”
… AND THEN ASK THE QUESTION YOU REALLY WANT TO ASK.
DOING THIS NOT ONLY HELPS THEM FEEL YOU ARE INTERESTED IN THEIR OPINION, BUT BECAUSE THE QUESTION IS
INQUISITIVE IN NATURE – RATHER THAN CHALLENGING – IT COMES OVER AS MORE CONVERSATIONAL AND NOT
CONFRONTATIONAL.
26. 2. The “Nudge It Along” Question
NO ONE WANTS TO BE TOLD THEY’RE WRONG SO IF YOU FIND YOURSELF IN A MEETING AND SOMEONE HAS MADE A
STATEMENT YOU DISAGREE WITH, PRE-PHRASE YOUR RESPONSE WITH …
“THAT’S REALLY INTERESTING, I HAVE A SLIGHTLY DIFFERENT EXPERIENCE/VIEW … ”
IT MIGHT NOT SEEM MUCH, BUT BY DOING THIS, YOU ARE NOT SEEN AS CHALLENGING THEIR VIEW, SIMPLY BUILDING
ON IT – KEEPING THE WHOLE MEETING CALM, COOL AND FREE-FLOWING.
OBVIOUSLY YOU SHOULD TALK FROM A POSITION OF KNOWLEDGE OR REFERENCE WHICH IS WHY IT’S ALWAYS GOOD TO
PRE-PREPARE FOR ANY MEETING.
THE BEST WAY TO DO THIS IS THINK ABOUT THE PURPOSE OF THE MEETING [IS IT TO SELL AN IDEA, PRESENT SOME FINDINGS, TAKE
A BRIEF?] AND SPEND 20 MINUTES THE DAY BEFORE THINKING ABOUT CASE STUDIES OR EXPERIENCES THAT MIGHT BE
RELEVANT.
YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN IT MIGHT COME IN HANDY.
28. 3. The “Personal Experience” Question
WHEN PEOPLE TALK ABOUT PERSONAL EXPERIENCES OR CIRCUMSTANCES,
PEOPLE LISTEN IN A DIFFERENT WAY SO WHEN YOU ARE IN A SITUATION
WHERE YOU ‘FEEL’ SOMETHING IS WRONG BUT YOU DON’T HAVE ANY CASE
STUDIES OR EXAMPLES TO BACK YOUR VIEW UP, RELATE YOUR QUESTION
TO SOMETHING YOU ARE DEEPLY FAMILIAR WITH.
I OFTEN TALK ABOUT STORIES INVOLVING MY PARENTS TO EXPLAIN A
PARTICULAR FEELING/ATTITUDE OR OPINION.
DOING THIS NOT ONLY HELP OTHERS UNDERSTAND/RELATE TO THE
QUESTION YOU ARE RAISING, BUT YOU CAN SPEAK WITH CONFIDENCE AND
WARMTH BECAUSE IT IS SOMETHING YOU KNOW IS ABSOLUTELY RIGHT.
30. 4. The “Innocent Curiosity” Question
PEOPLE OFTEN GIVE OPINIONS WITHOUT REALLY THINKNG ABOUT THEM.
WHEN SOMEONE SENIOR DISAGREES WITH SOMETHING YOU FEEL VERY PASSIONATE ABOUT, SAY…
“SO I CAN LEARN, CAN YOU PLEASE TELL ME WHERE MY IDEA DOESN’T WORK AS WELL AS YOURS”
BY DOING THIS, YOU ARE FORCING THEM TO THINK ABOUT WHAT THEY’VE SAID IN MORE DETAIL AND THIS
OFTEN RESULTS IN THEM DISCOVERING YOUR IDEA IS JUST AS GOOD AS THEIRS AND SUDDENLY THE
SITUATION HAS GONE FROM OBSTACLES TO ENCOURAGEMENT.
[A VERY NAUGHTY WAY TO MAKE PEOPLE BACK DOWN – OR CHANGE THEIR VIEW – IS TO LITERALLY REPEAT BACK THE QUESTION THEY’VE
SAID, BUT IN A SLOW, QUESTIONING VOICE AND THEN KEEP QUIET. 99% OF THE TIME, THEY WILL REPHRASE WHAT THEY HAVE SAID AND PUT
YOU IN A POSITION OF CONTROL]
32. 5. The “Self Depreciation” Question
SOMETIMES YOU WANT TO ASK A QUESTION BUT AREN’T SURE IF YOU’LL LOOK GOOD OR SILLY.
RATHER THAN KEEP QUIET, CELEBRATE YOUR CONCERN BY STARTING OFF YOUR QUESTION WITH SOMETHING LIKE…
“THIS MIGHT BE A SILLY QUESTION BUT …”
BY DOING THIS, YOU AUTOMATICALLY DISARM ANY POSSIBLE NEGATIVE COMMENT BECAUSE YOU’VE IMPLIED YOUR REASON
FOR ASKING A QUESTION IS MORE OUT OF CURIOSITY THAN JUDGEMENT.
THIS METHOD IS ESPECIALLY USEFUL FOR PEOPLE WHO ATTEND MEETINGS WHERE CONVERSATIONS ARE NOT IN THEIR
NATIVE LANGUAGE AND MAY WORRY THEY HAVE MISSED OUT ON IMPORTANT INFORMATION.
BY STARTING YOUR QUESTION WITH “BECAUSE ENGLISH ISN’T MY NATIVE LANGUAGE, CAN I JUST MAKE SURE I HAVE
UNDERSTOOD WHAT YOU’VE SAID” YOU CAN GET CLARIFICATION OF WHAT HAS BEEN DISCUSSED ANY NEGATIVE IMPLICATION.
35. SCENARIO #1 #1
A BUNCH OF SENIOR PEOPLE ARE SAYING .
“WOMEN ONLY BUY PINK COMPUTERS”.
.
YOU DISAGREE.
?
HOW WOULD YOU TELL THEM THEY’RE WRONG?
36. SCENARIO #2 #2
A BUNCH OF CLIENTS WANT TO INCREASE SALES BY 100
100% BUT ONLY WANT TO SPEND 50% OF THEIR .
NORMAL BUDGET.
HOW WOULD YOU MAKE THEM UNDERSTAND
THEY’RE MAD?
37. SCENARIO #3 #3
YOU WANT TO EXPLAIN HOW PATRIOTIC CHINESE
YOUTH ARE TOWARDS THEIR COUNTRY BUT HAVE .
NO FACTS, PICTURES OR FIGURES.
HOW WOULD YOU LET PEOPLE UNDERSTAND YOUR
POINT OF VIEW?
38. SCENARIO #4 #4
YOU THINK THE CLIENT WANTS SOME SCRIPTS 24
PRESENTED IN 24 HOURS, HOW DO YOU:
1/ CONFIRM THAT INFORMATION. 1/ .
2/ TELL THEM THEY’RE WRONG. 2/ .
39. Three Things To Give You
The Confidence To Try:
IF YOU ARE WANT TO ASK A QUESTION BUT YOU AREN’T SURE IF IT’S
RELEVANT OR NOT – YOU HAVE 3 CHOICES …
[A] ASK THE QUESTION AND ACCEPT YOU’LL FIND OUT WHETHER IT IS
RIGHT OR WRONG ALMOST IMMEDIATELY.
[B] ASK YOURSELF IF THERE IS COMMON SENSE BEHIND YOUR
QUESTION: DOES IT RELATE TO THE CONVERSATION / THE CATEGORY /
THE BUSINESS / THE TASK? IF IT DOES, ASK IT BECAUSE YOU CAN'T BE
WRONG IF THERE IS REASON BEHIND WHAT YOU’RE ASKING.
[C] WRITE DOWN WHAT YOU WANT TO SAY, RELOOK AT IT LATER, MAKE
SURE IT ASKS/SAY’S WHAT YOU WANT IT TO SAY AND THEN ASK IT AT A
LATER MEETING OR VIA EMAIL.
41. Check List /
Confidence Boost:
IT IS VERY, VERY, VERY HARD TO BE TOTALLY WRONG IN .
ADVERTISING.
THERE ARE LITERALLY TONS AND TONS AND TONS OF
RIGHT WAYS TO APPROACH A TASK AND FOR EVERY .
EXAMPLE THAT SAYS IT’S THE ‘RIGHT WAY’, THERE WILL
BE ANOTHER EXAMPLE THAT ALSO WAS SUCCESSFUL
THAT FOLLOWED A TOTALLY DIFFERENT ROUTE. .
IT’S WORTH REMEMBERING PEOPLE WHO’VE BEEN DOING
IT FOR YEARS CAN - AND DO - CONTINUALLY FUCK-UP.
42. Some Other Tips:
• SMILE
• SPEAK FIRMLY
• SPEAK LOUDLY
• SIT UP STRAIGHT
• TRY AND LOOK RELAXED
• DO PRE-MEETING HOMEWORK
[BAIDU/GOOGLE TOPICS YOU THINK WILL BE COVERED]
• GET INVOLVED AS SOON AS POSSIBLE
• FIND OUT ABOUT THE PEOPLE YOU’RE MEETING
[BAIDU/GOOGLE THE PEOPLE YOU’RE MEETING & USE LINKED IN]
• WALK IN AND SAY HELLO TO EVERYONE IN THE ROOM
• REMEMBER NOTHING NEW HAPPENS IF YOU DON’T CHALLENGE THE USUAL
• REMEMBER, BEING INVOLVED IN THE DISCUSSION IS BETTER THAN JUST WATCHING THE DISCUSSION