25 Ways To Influence

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25 Ways To Influence

  1. WAYS TO INFLUENCE OTHERS
  2. Influence is at the core of everything. Employers influence employees to be productive. Parents influence children to do their chores. Children influence parents to get what they want! The power of influence can be learned and developed into an art form. Just promise to use it only for good! 2 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  3. 1. KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. What is your purpose in influencing others? In order to persuade others, you must have the end in mind. 3 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  4. 2. HYPNOTIZE. Not literally, but through your charm and speech patterns. Remember that people want to please someone they admire and respect. 4 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  5. 3. PAY THEM. Money is always a motivator, isn’t it? It may be the easiest and quickest way to get what you want, but it sure can get expensive. 5 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  6. 4. REASON WITH THEM. Explain your position. Focus on the answer to their burning question: “What’s in it for me?” 6 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  7. 5. COMPROMISE. Getting someone to do what you want often involves communication and negotiation. This is where you can take the “I’ll scratch your back and you scratch mine” approach. 7 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  8. 6. COMMUNICATE. Communication is the key to influence. Clear and effective communication will lead others to your view point. 8 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  9. 7. BE PASSIONATE! Passion, alone, can persuade others. You can be just the flame they need to light their fire. 9 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  10. 8. REMAIN CONSISTENT. Stay the course regardless of the direction of the wind. If you flip-flop, it’s a sure way to destroy any influence you might develop. 10 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  11. 9. BE THE EXPERT. Whether you like it or not, people respect authority figures. When you become the expert, you have the power of influence on your side. 11 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  12. 10. LISTEN. If you want to be able to influence people then you have to be able to listen. Active listening is part of effective communication, which is essential to influencing those around you. 12 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  13. 11. BE LIKABLE. If you want to influence others, they have to like you. If you show a genuine interest in others and care about them, they usually will. 13 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  14. 12. SHOW CONFIDENCE. If you speak with confidence, people will trust your advice. This makes it easier to influence others to see things your way. 14 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  15. 13. BE AUTHORITATIVE. Speak using powerful, emotionally charged words to persuade others. 15 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  16. 14. RESPECT. You’re more likely to be heard if you're respectful of others. 16 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  17. 15. USE SCARCITY. People assign more value to objects and opportunities that come in limited quantities. So don't try to influence others too often. If you do, it won’t seem genuine. 17 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  18. 16. BRAND YOURSELF. People love brand power. If you can brand yourself as the go-to guy or gal, others will spread the word about you. That's influence! 18 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  19. 17. UNDERSTAND THE OTHER POINT OF VIEW. Demonstrate that your point of view also reflects their beliefs, too. 19 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  20. 18. BE PATIENT. It may take several tries to convince others, so be patient, yet persistent. 20 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  21. 19. ADMIT YOUR MISTAKES. If you're wrong, admit it. People will remember you as being fair and honest. 21 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  22. 20. HIGHLIGHT WHAT YOU HAVE IN COMMON. Find a thread of common interest and build from there. 22 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  23. 21. PRACTICE. Any chance you get, practice the technique of persuasion. Practice really does make perfect! 23 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  24. 22. RESEARCH. Research facts and arguments that prove your point of view. 24 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  25. 23. BE POSITIVE. Influence others with a sunny disposition and bring them hope. 25 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  26. 24. GET ENDORSEMENTS. People love to follow the trends set by others. Get someone notable to endorse you and you’re sure to influence masses. 26 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  27. 25. ASK. It may seem silly, but sometimes just asking someone to do what you want can get them to do it. Just make sure you say “please” and “thank you.” 27 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  28. Respecting others and communicating with honesty, integrity, and passion will help you become a master of influence. Just vow to only use this power for good! 28 © Richard Butler 2010 http://www.FocusAndMotivation.com
  29. More About Richard Richard Butler is a trained Life and Business Coach and Practitioner of Neuro Linguistic Programming. He runs a number of coaching and business related sites including: http://www.RichardButlerTheSuccessCoach.com http://www.RichardButler.ie http://www.FreeNLPEbook.info He can be contacted in the following countries: 01 442 9769 Ireland (561) 623-9569 USA 020 3287 1972 UK 29

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