Describe and evaluate 2 or more theories of the formation of romantic
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The second theory is the reward/need satisfaction explanation. This states that for a
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  1. 1. Describe and evaluate 2 or more theories of the formation of romantic relationships (8+16) A relationship is either formed through genetic reasons in the evolutionary response, or through the direct reinforcement of others. The socio biological explanation explains the formation of relationships through genetics, and that is an evolutionary response to form a relationship for our own survival e.g. Darwin’s idea of survival of the fittest and natural selection etc. Male’s best strategy to provide maximum gene spreading is to have multiple partners. This theory takes the approach that men are always looking for signs to spread their genes, for example men in women look for an hour glass figure and signs of fertility like smooth skin. Men also looks for sexual faithfulness, showing the women wouldn’t want to bring up another man’s child (cuckoldry). Whereas, females look for kindness; indicating willingness to share resources. The more then man invests the more likely he will offer resources to the woman and children. Davis (90) did a content analysis personal ad and found that men look for health and attractiveness where as women look for status, wealth and resources. However, this could have used a biased method as it is qualitative data. Courtship serves as a period during which competition and selection occur and to get males to invest resources-increasing chances of them not deserting and investing more. A study that supports the socio biological explanation is a study done by Packer in 1983, he reports that male lions, on defeating dominant males, kill existing cubs and the lionesses then become sexually receptive. This behaviour is adaptive, eliminating competition for the cubs and allowing faster genetic reproduction which supports the idea that males seek to spread their own genes and get rid of competition. However due to this study being done on lions, it means we cannot extrapolate the data and apply it to humans as we cannot assume our cognitive and behavioural systems are the same as lions or any other animals for that matter. However a contradicting study was done by Harris in 2005, he did a cultural study on different cultures dominated by different religious systems. He found that relationship behavioural patterns either contradicted socio biological strategies of relationship formation or placed emphasis on cooperative restraint rather than survival through selfish propagation, as predicted by the theory. This indicates that many societies have developed systems going against the socio biological predictions. It can be argued that the theory is very deterministic, as the relationships are seen as having a lack of free will-that is determined by factors beyond personal control, which is not true. As well as deterministic, the theory is also reductionist, seeing relationships as merely a means of reproduction, which therefore disregards any other reasons for wanting to be in a romantic relationship e.g. companionship. Although the theory is relevant to the EEA (Environment of Evolutionary Adaptiveness), the model doesn’t suit modern environment. Many women how have resources of their own and do not need to rely on the resources of men (this is an outdated view). This casts doubt on the suitability of this explanation in modern days as its applicability, has over the years gradually decreased.
  2. 2. The second theory is the reward/need satisfaction explanation. This states that for a relationship to form and progress from just attraction, people need to be motivated to want to continue getting to know each other. Long term relationships formed if it meets needs of the partners and provides rewards. Biological based social needs, e.g. sexual and emotional need, giving and receiving support. Mills in 1979 came up with the idea of the ‘tit for tat’ basic- an exchanging relationship. As the relationship progresses, rewards may become less reciprocal. The move from giving rewards on an exchange to a communal basis may be an important aspect of forming a close relationship. The theory is supported by the study of May and Hamilton in 1980, they asked female to rate photos of males, while either pleasant or unpleasant music was played. Those with the pleasant music rated males as more attractive which support the theory. A weakness of the theory is that it is seen to have a fundamentally selfish view of people only trying to satisfy their own needs. Many people have genuine concerns for the needs of others. Lott in 1994 found that the reward/need satisfaction theory does not account for cultural and gender differences in the formation of relationships. Lott suggested that in many cultures women are more focused on the needs of others rather than receiving reinforcement. This suggests that this theory is not a universal explanation of relationship formation, therefore culturally biased. The theory proposes that we like some individuals because they provide direct reinforcement. Griffitt and Guay in 1969 supported this claim. Participants were evaluated on a creative task by an experimenter and then asked to rate how much they liked the experimenter. This rating was highest when the experimenter had positively evaluated (e.g. reward) the participant’s performance on the task.