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“Father Forgets”
dashed of in a moment of sincere feeling
strikes an echoing chord in so many readers
1Presented by Raja W...
Sometimes a little piece seems mysteriously
to ‘click.’ This one certainly did.”
2Presented by Raja Wajahat
“Father Forgets”
3Presented by Raja Wajahat
4Presented by Raja Wajahat
Listen, son: I am saying this as you lie asleep
one little paw crumpled under your
cheek
and the blond curls stickily wet on your damp forehead
I have stolen into your room
alone
Just a few minutes ago, as I sat
reading my paper in the library
a stifling wave of remorse
swept over me
6Presented by Ra...
Guiltily I came to your bedside
There are the things I was thinking,
son: I had been cross to you.
7Presented by Raja Waja...
I scolded you as you were
dressing for school
because you gave your face
merely a dab with a towel
8Presented by Raja Waja...
You spilled things.
You gulped down your food.
You put your elbows on the table.
9Presented by Raja Wajahat
10Presented by Raja Wajahat
You spread butter too thick on your bread. And as
you started off to play and I made for my tr...
Then it began all over again in the late
afternoon
As I came up the road I spied you,
down on your knees, playing marbles
There were holes in your stockings
I humiliated you before your
boyfriends by marching you
ahead of me to the house.
12Pre...
Stockings were expensive - and if you had to buy them you
would be more careful!
Imagine that, son,
from a father!
13Prese...
Do you remember
I was reading in the library, how you came
in timidly, with a sort of hurt look in your
eyes?
14Presented ...
When I glanced up over my
paper
15Presented by Raja Wajahat
impatient at the interruption, you
hesitated at the door
16Presented by Raja Wajahat
17Presented by Raja Wajahat
“What is it you want?”
I snapped.
You said nothing, but ran across in one
tempestuous plunge,
and threw your arms around my neck and kissed me,
and your small arms tightened with an affection
that God had set bloomin...
And then you were gone, pattering up the stairs.
Well, son, it was shortly afterwards that my
paper slipped from my hands ...
But, being human, I resented it
The habit of finding fault, of
reprimanding - this was my reward to you
for being a boy
20...
It was not that I did not love you; it was that
I expected too much of youth.
I was measuring you by the
yardstick of my o...
And there was so much that was good and
fine and true in your character.
22Presented by Raja Wajahat
The little heart of you was as big as the dawn itself
over the wide hills.
23Presented by Raja Wajahat
24Presented by Raja Wajahat
This was shown by your spontaneous impulse
to rush in and kiss me good night.
Nothing else mat...
I have come to your bedside in the darkness, and I
have knelt there, ashamed!
It is a feeble atonement; I know you would
n...
But tomorrow I will be a real daddy!
I will chum with you, and suffer when you
suffer, and laugh when you laugh.
26Present...
I will bite my tongue when impatient words
come.
I will keep saying as if it were a
ritual: “He is nothing but a boy a
lit...
Yet as I see you now, son, crumpled and weary in
your cot, I see that you are still a baby.
28Presented by Raja Wajahat
29Presented by Raja Wajahat
Yesterday you were in your mother’s arms,
your head on her shoulder.
I have asked too much, to...
“FATHER FORGETS”
Instead of condemning people,
let’s try to understand them
Let’s try to figure out why they do what they
do
That’s a lot more profitable and intriguing than criticism; and
it breeds...
As Dr. Johnson said:
“God himself, sir, does not propose to
judge man until the end of his days.”
33Presented by Raja Waja...
Why should you and I?
34Presented by Raja Wajahat
PRINCIPLE 1:
Don’t criticize,
condemn or complain
How to Win Friends and
Influence People - 11
By Dale Carnegie
Presented by Raja Wajahat
36Presented by Raja Wajahat
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How to win friends and influence people by dale carnegie 11

  1. 1. “Father Forgets” dashed of in a moment of sincere feeling strikes an echoing chord in so many readers 1Presented by Raja Wajahat
  2. 2. Sometimes a little piece seems mysteriously to ‘click.’ This one certainly did.” 2Presented by Raja Wajahat
  3. 3. “Father Forgets” 3Presented by Raja Wajahat
  4. 4. 4Presented by Raja Wajahat Listen, son: I am saying this as you lie asleep one little paw crumpled under your cheek
  5. 5. and the blond curls stickily wet on your damp forehead I have stolen into your room alone
  6. 6. Just a few minutes ago, as I sat reading my paper in the library a stifling wave of remorse swept over me 6Presented by Raja Wajahat
  7. 7. Guiltily I came to your bedside There are the things I was thinking, son: I had been cross to you. 7Presented by Raja Wajahat
  8. 8. I scolded you as you were dressing for school because you gave your face merely a dab with a towel 8Presented by Raja Wajahat
  9. 9. You spilled things. You gulped down your food. You put your elbows on the table. 9Presented by Raja Wajahat
  10. 10. 10Presented by Raja Wajahat You spread butter too thick on your bread. And as you started off to play and I made for my train, you turned and waved a hand and called, “Goodbye, Daddy!” and I frowned, and said in reply, “Hold your shoulders back!”
  11. 11. Then it began all over again in the late afternoon As I came up the road I spied you, down on your knees, playing marbles
  12. 12. There were holes in your stockings I humiliated you before your boyfriends by marching you ahead of me to the house. 12Presented by Raja Wajahat
  13. 13. Stockings were expensive - and if you had to buy them you would be more careful! Imagine that, son, from a father! 13Presented by Raja Wajahat
  14. 14. Do you remember I was reading in the library, how you came in timidly, with a sort of hurt look in your eyes? 14Presented by Raja Wajahat
  15. 15. When I glanced up over my paper 15Presented by Raja Wajahat
  16. 16. impatient at the interruption, you hesitated at the door 16Presented by Raja Wajahat
  17. 17. 17Presented by Raja Wajahat “What is it you want?” I snapped. You said nothing, but ran across in one tempestuous plunge,
  18. 18. and threw your arms around my neck and kissed me, and your small arms tightened with an affection that God had set blooming in your heart and which even neglect could not wither.
  19. 19. And then you were gone, pattering up the stairs. Well, son, it was shortly afterwards that my paper slipped from my hands and a terrible sickening fear came over me. 19Presented by Raja Wajahat
  20. 20. But, being human, I resented it The habit of finding fault, of reprimanding - this was my reward to you for being a boy 20Presented by Raja Wajahat
  21. 21. It was not that I did not love you; it was that I expected too much of youth. I was measuring you by the yardstick of my own years. 21Presented by Raja Wajahat
  22. 22. And there was so much that was good and fine and true in your character. 22Presented by Raja Wajahat
  23. 23. The little heart of you was as big as the dawn itself over the wide hills. 23Presented by Raja Wajahat
  24. 24. 24Presented by Raja Wajahat This was shown by your spontaneous impulse to rush in and kiss me good night. Nothing else matters tonight, son.
  25. 25. I have come to your bedside in the darkness, and I have knelt there, ashamed! It is a feeble atonement; I know you would not understand these things if I told them to you during your waking hours. 25Presented by Raja Wajahat
  26. 26. But tomorrow I will be a real daddy! I will chum with you, and suffer when you suffer, and laugh when you laugh. 26Presented by Raja Wajahat
  27. 27. I will bite my tongue when impatient words come. I will keep saying as if it were a ritual: “He is nothing but a boy a little boy!” 27Presented by Raja Wajahat
  28. 28. Yet as I see you now, son, crumpled and weary in your cot, I see that you are still a baby. 28Presented by Raja Wajahat
  29. 29. 29Presented by Raja Wajahat Yesterday you were in your mother’s arms, your head on her shoulder. I have asked too much, too much.
  30. 30. “FATHER FORGETS”
  31. 31. Instead of condemning people, let’s try to understand them
  32. 32. Let’s try to figure out why they do what they do That’s a lot more profitable and intriguing than criticism; and it breeds sympathy, tolerance and kindness. “To know all is to forgive all.” 32Presented by Raja Wajahat
  33. 33. As Dr. Johnson said: “God himself, sir, does not propose to judge man until the end of his days.” 33Presented by Raja Wajahat
  34. 34. Why should you and I? 34Presented by Raja Wajahat
  35. 35. PRINCIPLE 1: Don’t criticize, condemn or complain
  36. 36. How to Win Friends and Influence People - 11 By Dale Carnegie Presented by Raja Wajahat 36Presented by Raja Wajahat Read Every Day!

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