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MY LIFE METAPHORS THE RIGHT METAPHOR DECIDES YOUR DESTINY Dr. PEEYUSH VERMA
<ul><li>I AM REALLY UNLUCKY. </li></ul><ul><li>I HATE TO BE HERE. </li></ul><ul><li>EVERYBODY ELSE IS SO SELFISH & MEAN. <...
THESE WORDS EMINATE FROM YOUR HEART WHAT YOU SEE IS  WHAT YOU BELIEVE. WHAT YOU BELIEVE IS  WHAT YOU SEE. Event 1 Event 2 ...
Higher the emotional intensity  ~  higher the degree/ toughness of word/s expressing emotion   LANGUAGE PATTERN  ~   EMOTI...
EXPERIENCE THE WORDS <ul><li>FAILURE </li></ul><ul><li>BORED </li></ul><ul><li>EXHAUSTED </li></ul><ul><li>LOST </li></ul>...
LOW CHARGE MODERATE CHARGE TURBO CHARGED Higher the emotional intensity  ~  higher the charge of word/s expressing emotion...
EXPERIENCE THE WORDS <ul><li>CONFIDENT </li></ul><ul><li>ENERGETIC </li></ul><ul><li>HOPE </li></ul><ul><li>COMMITTED </li...
HIGHLY CHARGED  EMOTIONAL  WORDS CREATE HIGH PRESSURE ON THE TOTAL SYSTEM. EMOTIONS Vs PRESSURE FRUSTRATION IRRITATION HAT...
<ul><li>EACH THOUGHT COMING TO YOUR MIND OR EACH WORD SPOKEN BY YOU REVERBERATES IN THE SYSTEM AND PRODUCE ELECTRICAL IMPU...
<ul><li>NEGATIVELY POISED WORDS CREATE NEGATIVE INTERNAL EMOTIONS & EXPRESSIONS, WHICH GUIDE OUR ACTIONS NEGATIVELY.  </li...
<ul><li>YOUR PHYSICAL, MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL LIFE IS GUIDED BY THE VOCABULARY YOU CHOOSE FOR YOURSELF. </li></ul><ul><li>EA...
<ul><li>WORDS CAN INJURE OUR EGOS OR INFLAME OUR HEARTS- WE CAN INSTANTLY CHANGE ANY EMOTIONAL EXPERIENCE SIMPLY BY CHOOSI...
<ul><li>OUR HABITUAL VOCABULARY IS EXTREMELY LIMITED. </li></ul><ul><li>IF WE WANT TO CHANGE OUR LIVES AND SHAPE OUR DESTI...
“ REALISE THAT YOUR WORDS COMMAND IF YOU SIMPLY CHOOSE THEM WISELY. THE RIGHT WORD IS ONE OF THE MOST POWERFUL AGENT. WHEN...
LIFE METAPHORS <ul><li>METAPHORS ARE </li></ul><ul><li>THOUGHTS INITIATORS </li></ul><ul><li>CATALYSTS </li></ul><ul><li>C...
WHAT ARE  METAPHORS? <ul><li>All of our earlier experiences and assumptions are stored in the mind box. The key of this mi...
WHAT METAPHORS DO YOU USE? <ul><li>NEGATIVE METAPHORS </li></ul><ul><li>AGGRESSIVE = I can kill someone. </li></ul><ul><li...
WHY WE SWITCH OVER TO NEGATIVE METAPHORS? <ul><li>OVERESTIMATING ONESELF </li></ul><ul><li>LOSING CONTROL OVER ONESELF </l...
WORDS WITH NEGATIVE EMOTIONS/ EXPRESSIONS <ul><li>I FEEL DISGUSTED AS EVERYTHING HERE STINKS. </li></ul><ul><li>TRUST IN T...
TRANSFORMED VOCABULARY COMES FROM POSITIVE METAPHORS <ul><li>I FEEL DISGUSTED AS EVERYTHING HERE STINKS. </li></ul><ul><li...
WAYS TO OVERCOME? <ul><li>BECOME KNOWLEDGETERIAN </li></ul><ul><li>THINK DEEPER & WIDER </li></ul><ul><li>KEEP FORESIGHTED...
CHANGE YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW… <ul><li>CHANGING ONE GLOBAL METAPHOR CAN INSTANTLY TRANSFORM THE WAY YOU LOOK AT YOUR ENTIRE L...
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Your words have ample power to change your life.

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Words you use indicate your inner state. You can win trust of others by choosing right words. Rightly chosen words make your life happy and others' comfortable. Wrong choice of words create misunderstandings and discomfort. Each word has its own intensity which ignites, boils and burn our chemistry. Wrong choices of words negatively poise the chemistry and you ruin your own life without even knowing this.

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Your words have ample power to change your life.

  1. 1. MY LIFE METAPHORS THE RIGHT METAPHOR DECIDES YOUR DESTINY Dr. PEEYUSH VERMA
  2. 2. <ul><li>I AM REALLY UNLUCKY. </li></ul><ul><li>I HATE TO BE HERE. </li></ul><ul><li>EVERYBODY ELSE IS SO SELFISH & MEAN. </li></ul><ul><li>LET THE WORLD DOOM, WHY SHOULD I BOTHER. </li></ul><ul><li>THE WHOLE SYSTEM IS ROTTEN NOW. </li></ul><ul><li>YOU HAVE NO SENSE OF COMMUNICATION. </li></ul><ul><li>ALL THE FOOLS ARE AROUND. </li></ul><ul><li>YOU CAN NOT DO ANYTHING TO THIS SYSTEM. </li></ul><ul><li>LIFE IS A HELL THESE DAYS. </li></ul>HOW DO YOU FEEL, WHEN YOU USE THESE WORDS….
  3. 3. THESE WORDS EMINATE FROM YOUR HEART WHAT YOU SEE IS WHAT YOU BELIEVE. WHAT YOU BELIEVE IS WHAT YOU SEE. Event 1 Event 2 Event 3 Event 4 Event 5 experiences BELIEF SYSTEM assumptions
  4. 4. Higher the emotional intensity ~ higher the degree/ toughness of word/s expressing emotion LANGUAGE PATTERN ~ EMOTIONAL INTENSITY FURIOUS ANGERED ANNOYED UPSET RAGED
  5. 5. EXPERIENCE THE WORDS <ul><li>FAILURE </li></ul><ul><li>BORED </li></ul><ul><li>EXHAUSTED </li></ul><ul><li>LOST </li></ul><ul><li>DIFFICULTIES </li></ul><ul><li>WEAK </li></ul><ul><li>FEEL SORRY FOR MYSELF </li></ul>
  6. 6. LOW CHARGE MODERATE CHARGE TURBO CHARGED Higher the emotional intensity ~ higher the charge of word/s expressing emotion LANGUAGE PATTERN ~ EMOTIONAL INTENSITY ECSTATIC FINE DELIGHTED GOOD CHARGED
  7. 7. EXPERIENCE THE WORDS <ul><li>CONFIDENT </li></ul><ul><li>ENERGETIC </li></ul><ul><li>HOPE </li></ul><ul><li>COMMITTED </li></ul><ul><li>LOVE </li></ul><ul><li>BLISS </li></ul><ul><li>BLESSED </li></ul>
  8. 8. HIGHLY CHARGED EMOTIONAL WORDS CREATE HIGH PRESSURE ON THE TOTAL SYSTEM. EMOTIONS Vs PRESSURE FRUSTRATION IRRITATION HATERED VENOMOUS
  9. 9. <ul><li>EACH THOUGHT COMING TO YOUR MIND OR EACH WORD SPOKEN BY YOU REVERBERATES IN THE SYSTEM AND PRODUCE ELECTRICAL IMPULSES. </li></ul><ul><li>EACH ELECTRICAL IMPULSE AFFECT SOME SPECIFIC PART OF NERVOUS AND LYMPHATIC SYSTEM OF OUR BODY THROUGH THE BRAIN. </li></ul><ul><li>YOUR BRAIN RECEIVES & PROCESS MORE THAN ONE MILLION SUCH SIGNALS PER SECOND, WHICH SENDS DIFFERENT RESPONSES TO DIFFERENT ORGANS OF THE BODY. </li></ul><ul><li>AS A RESULT OF EFFECT OF ELECTRICAL IMPULSES SEVERAL THOUSANDS HORMONES ARE PRODUCED IN THE SYSTEM. </li></ul><ul><li>EACH HORMONES HAS ITS OWN EFFECT ON THE BODY METABOLISM. </li></ul>YOUR WORDS & YOUR BODY CHEMISTRY…
  10. 10. <ul><li>NEGATIVELY POISED WORDS CREATE NEGATIVE INTERNAL EMOTIONS & EXPRESSIONS, WHICH GUIDE OUR ACTIONS NEGATIVELY. </li></ul><ul><li>NEGATIVE EMOTIONS & EXPRESSIONS PRODUCE HARMFUL INTERNAL CHEMICALS THROUGH OUR BODY CHEMISTRY. </li></ul><ul><li>THE TYPE & FREQUENCY OF PRODUCTION OF SUCH CHEMICALS DEPEND UPON YOUR METABOLISM. </li></ul><ul><li>NEGATIVELY ORIENTED METABOLISM CREATE DISEASE STATE IN THE BODY. </li></ul>YOUR METABOLISM & YOU……….
  11. 11. <ul><li>YOUR PHYSICAL, MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL LIFE IS GUIDED BY THE VOCABULARY YOU CHOOSE FOR YOURSELF. </li></ul><ul><li>EACH WORD CHOSEN BY YOU HAS DEEP IMPACT ON YOUR EMOTIONS, THOUGHTS AND ACTIONS. </li></ul><ul><li>THE WORDS YOU CHOOSE TO COMMUNICATE ARE THE INDICATORS OF YOUR INTERNAL REPRESENTATIONS AND THAT IS HOW YOU EXPERIENCE THE WORDS SPOKEN BY OTHERS. </li></ul>HOW VOCABULARY DECIDES YOUR LIFE………..
  12. 12. <ul><li>WORDS CAN INJURE OUR EGOS OR INFLAME OUR HEARTS- WE CAN INSTANTLY CHANGE ANY EMOTIONAL EXPERIENCE SIMPLY BY CHOOSING NEW WORDS. </li></ul><ul><li>IF YOU FAIL TO MASTER WORDS, THEIR SELECTION IS THEN GUIDED BY SUBCONSCIOUS HABIT. </li></ul><ul><li>USING EMOTIONALLY CHARGED TRANSFORMED VOCABULARY CAN METAMORPHOSE YOUR OWN STATE & THE STATE AROUND YOU. </li></ul>YOUR WORDS DECIDE YOUR LIFE………..
  13. 13. <ul><li>OUR HABITUAL VOCABULARY IS EXTREMELY LIMITED. </li></ul><ul><li>IF WE WANT TO CHANGE OUR LIVES AND SHAPE OUR DESTINY, WE NEED TO CONSCIOUSLY SELECT THE WORDS WE ARE GOING TO USE, AND WE NEED TO CONSTANTLY STRIVE TO EXPAND OUR LEVEL OF CHOICE. </li></ul><ul><li>ONE HAS TO CHOOSE THE WORDS WHICH DESCRIBE POSITIVE EMOTIONS RATHER THAN THOSE DESCRIBING NEGATIVE EMOTIONS. </li></ul>THE TRANSFORMATIONAL VOCABULARY………..
  14. 14. “ REALISE THAT YOUR WORDS COMMAND IF YOU SIMPLY CHOOSE THEM WISELY. THE RIGHT WORD IS ONE OF THE MOST POWERFUL AGENT. WHENEVER WE COME UPON ONE OF THESE RIGHT WORDS…THE RESULTING EFFECT IS PHYSICAL AS WELL AS SPIRITUAL, & ELECTRICALLY PROMPT.” -Mark Twain
  15. 15. LIFE METAPHORS <ul><li>METAPHORS ARE </li></ul><ul><li>THOUGHTS INITIATORS </li></ul><ul><li>CATALYSTS </li></ul><ul><li>CHARGERS </li></ul><ul><li>KEY TO LIFE </li></ul><ul><li>INTERNAL MANAGER </li></ul>
  16. 16. WHAT ARE METAPHORS? <ul><li>All of our earlier experiences and assumptions are stored in the mind box. The key of this mind box is a ‘global metaphor’. </li></ul><ul><li>Our thoughts are constantly guided by these metaphors. </li></ul><ul><li>One metaphor attracts another of similar nature. Metaphors acts as scaffold for anchoring new learning whether GOOD or BAD. </li></ul>
  17. 17. WHAT METAPHORS DO YOU USE? <ul><li>NEGATIVE METAPHORS </li></ul><ul><li>AGGRESSIVE = I can kill someone. </li></ul><ul><li>CRITICAL = Things will always go wrong. </li></ul><ul><li>PESSIMISTIC = Nothing can improve. </li></ul><ul><li>DISEMPOWERING = I am loosing heart. </li></ul><ul><li>AGITATING = Everybody is selfish. </li></ul><ul><li>POSITIVE METAPHORS </li></ul><ul><li>CHARGED = Let me prove others wrong. </li></ul><ul><li>ENERGISING = Yes, I can do it. </li></ul><ul><li>OPTIMISTIC = I can see a ray of hope. </li></ul><ul><li>EMPOWERING = Life is beautiful. </li></ul><ul><li>LIVELY = GOD is always there to help me. </li></ul>
  18. 18. WHY WE SWITCH OVER TO NEGATIVE METAPHORS? <ul><li>OVERESTIMATING ONESELF </li></ul><ul><li>LOSING CONTROL OVER ONESELF </li></ul><ul><li>DWINDLING MIND </li></ul><ul><li>IRRITATION, ANGER, DISTRESS </li></ul><ul><li>DOUBT, FEAR, ANXIETY </li></ul><ul><li>NEGATIVE ANTICIPATIONS </li></ul><ul><li>SELFISH MOTIVES </li></ul>NEGATIVE METAPHORS
  19. 19. WORDS WITH NEGATIVE EMOTIONS/ EXPRESSIONS <ul><li>I FEEL DISGUSTED AS EVERYTHING HERE STINKS. </li></ul><ul><li>TRUST IN THE GOVERNANCE IS GETTING LOST DAY-BY-DAY. </li></ul><ul><li>FAMILIES ARE DISINTEGRATING FAST. </li></ul><ul><li>WHY OTHERS SHOULD GET IT, IF THEY DO NOT DESERVE. </li></ul><ul><li>I AM TOO LONELY TO FIGHT IN THIS WORLD OF ANARCHY. </li></ul><ul><li>I FEAR WHEN I GO OUT. </li></ul><ul><li>I HATE TO BE HERE. </li></ul><ul><li>I AM SERIOUSLY DISAPPOINTED BY YOUR ACTIONS. </li></ul><ul><li>I AM TOO CONFUSED TO DECIDE ANYTHING. </li></ul><ul><li>I FEEL TOO DEPRESSED NOW A DAYS. </li></ul><ul><li>THE HUMILIATION WAS TOO PAINFUL FOR ME. </li></ul><ul><li>FRUSTRATION HAS TAKEN EVERYTHING FROM OUR YOUTHS. </li></ul><ul><li>I FEEL IRRITATED WHEN I TALK TO SOMEONE. </li></ul><ul><li>I AM EXHAUSTED IN CONVINCING YOU. </li></ul><ul><li>OH!!!SHIT…THINGS ARE GETTING WORSE. </li></ul>
  20. 20. TRANSFORMED VOCABULARY COMES FROM POSITIVE METAPHORS <ul><li>I FEEL DISGUSTED AS EVERYTHING HERE STINKS. </li></ul><ul><li>I WILL BE SURPRISED IF EVERYTHING STARTS CHANGING HERE. </li></ul><ul><li>TRUST IN THE GOVERNANCE IS GETTING LOST DAY-BY-DAY. </li></ul><ul><li>WE HAVE TO SEARCH INDICATORS OF IMPROVEMENTS IN THE GOVERNANCE. </li></ul><ul><li>FAMILIES ARE DISINTEGRATING FAST. </li></ul><ul><li>FAMILIES LIVE VERY DIFFERENTLY TODAY. </li></ul><ul><li>WHY OTHERS SHOULD GET IT, IF THEY DO NOT DESERVE. </li></ul><ul><li>ONE WHO DESERVES, DEFINITELY GETS THE RETURN AT ONE POINT OF TIME. </li></ul><ul><li>I AM TOO LONELY TO FIGHT IN THIS WORLD OF ANARCHY. </li></ul><ul><li>YOU HAVE TO FIND SIMILAR MINDED PEOPLE TO MAKES CHANGES IN THIS WORLD. </li></ul><ul><li>I FEAR WHEN I GO OUT. </li></ul><ul><li>ONE MUST REMAIN CONCERNED ABOUT SAFETY WHEN YOU GO OUT. </li></ul><ul><li>I HATE TO BE HERE. </li></ul><ul><li>I PREFER A CONSTRUCTIVE CHANGE HERE. </li></ul><ul><li>I AM SERIOUSLY DISAPPOINTED BY YOUR ACTIONS. </li></ul><ul><li>YOUR ACTIONS ARE BIT UNDERWHELMING. </li></ul><ul><li>I AM TOO CONFUSED TO DECIDE ANYTHING. </li></ul><ul><li>I REMAIN CURIOUS WHILE TAKING DECISION. </li></ul><ul><li>I FEEL TOO DEPRESSED NOW A DAYS. </li></ul><ul><li>I FEEL ON A ROAD TO A TURN-AROUND. </li></ul><ul><li>THE HUMILIATION WAS TOO PAINFUL FOR ME. </li></ul><ul><li>YOUR ACTIONS WERE UTTER SURPRISE TO ME. </li></ul><ul><li>FRUSTRATION HAS TAKEN EVERYTHING FROM OUR YOUTHS. </li></ul><ul><li>OUR YOUTHS ARE FASCINATED ABOUT FAST CHANGES IN THEIR LIVES. </li></ul><ul><li>I FEEL IRRITATED WHEN I TALK TO SOMEONE. </li></ul><ul><li>I FEEL CHALLENGED WHEN I TALK TO SOMEONE. </li></ul><ul><li>I AM EXHAUSTED IN CONVINCING YOU. </li></ul><ul><li>I NEED RECHARGING TO CONVINCE YOU. </li></ul><ul><li>OH!!!SHIT…THINGS ARE GETTING WORSE. </li></ul><ul><li>OH…GOD!!! I EXPECT SOME MIRACLE NOW. </li></ul>
  21. 21. WAYS TO OVERCOME? <ul><li>BECOME KNOWLEDGETERIAN </li></ul><ul><li>THINK DEEPER & WIDER </li></ul><ul><li>KEEP FORESIGHTEDNESS ALIVE </li></ul><ul><li>LEAVE A POSITIVE IMAGE </li></ul><ul><li>TAKE ADVANTAGE OF OTHERS EXPERIENCE </li></ul><ul><li>DEVELOP HABIT OF OBSERVATION </li></ul><ul><li>INNOVATE EARLIER EXPERIENCES </li></ul><ul><li>DEVELOP SUBCONSCIOUS STATE OF MIND </li></ul>
  22. 22. CHANGE YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW… <ul><li>CHANGING ONE GLOBAL METAPHOR CAN INSTANTLY TRANSFORM THE WAY YOU LOOK AT YOUR ENTIRE LIFE. </li></ul>TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR METAPHORS. CHOOSE METAPHORS THOSE EMPOWER YOU, CHARGE YOU & MAKE YOUR LIFE LIVELY.

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