MARRIAGE: HOW DO I CHOOSE RIGHT?DESIGNED & PRESENTEDBYSCOTT ODIGIE
OBJECTIVETo redefine the“concept” andprinciple ofmaking the rightchoice inmarriage.
INTRODUCTIONDecision determinesmarital destiny. Thechoice you make isnot theresponsibility byproxy, but privately.
PRINCIPLE1. Place priority on yourrelationship with God:“House and riches areinheritance from fathers,but a prudent wife i...
PRINCIPLE2. Conceptualizeyour communicationstyle with the HolySpirit: “…and thesheep hear Hisvoice…” Jn.10:4.
PRINCIPLE3. Understand your “sexualpsychological difference”: Malesand females are different in thefollowing:Emotional dif...
PRINCIPLE4. Take off youridols: “…andcovetousnesswhich isidolatry.” Col.3:5.
PRINCIPLE5. Redefine your definitionlove: until you realizewhat “love is not” youmay remain a victim. Loveis not sexual fe...
PRINCIPLE6. Define yourrelationship with theopposite sex: everyonecannot be yourhusband/wife. “…thisis now bone of mybones...
PRINCIPLE7. Associatestrategically: “Hethat walk withwise men shall bewise…” Pro.13:20.
PRINCIPLE8. Avoid beensuspicious anddefensive inrelationship: changeyour ideologies andeffects from failureexperiences.
PRINCIPLE9. Update andupgrade yourknowledge base aboutrelationships andmarriage. “…a man ofknowledge increasesstrength.” P...
PRINCIPLE10. Find amentor: Mordecaimentored Esther;Naomi mentoredRuth etc.
CONCLUSIONYour decisiondetermines yourdestiny inmarriage!
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Marriage: How to make the right choice

  1. 1. MARRIAGE: HOW DO I CHOOSE RIGHT?DESIGNED & PRESENTEDBYSCOTT ODIGIE
  2. 2. OBJECTIVETo redefine the“concept” andprinciple ofmaking the rightchoice inmarriage.
  3. 3. INTRODUCTIONDecision determinesmarital destiny. Thechoice you make isnot theresponsibility byproxy, but privately.
  4. 4. PRINCIPLE1. Place priority on yourrelationship with God:“House and riches areinheritance from fathers,but a prudent wife is fromthe Lord.” Pro.19:14. doyou give priority to yourrelationship with God than„your choice in marriage.?”
  5. 5. PRINCIPLE2. Conceptualizeyour communicationstyle with the HolySpirit: “…and thesheep hear Hisvoice…” Jn.10:4.
  6. 6. PRINCIPLE3. Understand your “sexualpsychological difference”: Malesand females are different in thefollowing:Emotional difference (menstrualcycle every month).Physical differences (muscle,breast).Hormonal difference (testosterone& estrogen).
  7. 7. PRINCIPLE4. Take off youridols: “…andcovetousnesswhich isidolatry.” Col.3:5.
  8. 8. PRINCIPLE5. Redefine your definitionlove: until you realizewhat “love is not” youmay remain a victim. Loveis not sexual feeling. Loveis not having sex beforemarriage.Love is not blind. detailsfrom 1 Cor.13:1-10
  9. 9. PRINCIPLE6. Define yourrelationship with theopposite sex: everyonecannot be yourhusband/wife. “…thisis now bone of mybones…” Gen.2:23.
  10. 10. PRINCIPLE7. Associatestrategically: “Hethat walk withwise men shall bewise…” Pro.13:20.
  11. 11. PRINCIPLE8. Avoid beensuspicious anddefensive inrelationship: changeyour ideologies andeffects from failureexperiences.
  12. 12. PRINCIPLE9. Update andupgrade yourknowledge base aboutrelationships andmarriage. “…a man ofknowledge increasesstrength.” Pro.24:5
  13. 13. PRINCIPLE10. Find amentor: Mordecaimentored Esther;Naomi mentoredRuth etc.
  14. 14. CONCLUSIONYour decisiondetermines yourdestiny inmarriage!

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