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FAMILY MATTERSWORKSHOP<br />Presented by<br />MV KOTU<br />
NEUTRALITY OR NEUTRAL MODE<br />
NEUTRALITY<br />the state or CHARACTER of being neutral, especially in a dispute, contest, etc.<br />the state or POLICY o...
REALITY:<br />IT IS NOT POSSIBLE TO HAVE 100% TROUBLE-FREE COMMUNICATION<br />
WE ALL HAVE SOMETHING TO GIVE AND TAKE IN LIVING TOGETHER<br />
AND THIS ALWAYS CAUSES US TO LOSE SOME OF THE STRENGTHS WE POSSESS<br />
    TRIANGULATION<br />
TRIANGULATION<br />It’s frightening to admit, but a couple in conflict instinctively behaves like two nations preparing fo...
TAKING SOMEONE FOR GRANTED<br />Think about this question for a moment. Are you as polite, kind and considerate to your pa...
WHAT REALLY MAKES SOMEONE TO DECIDE TO BECOME NON INVOLVED<br />
YOUR SPOUSES BRAIN IS FIRING ON ALL CYLINDERS<br />
MEET MY PARTNER……..<br />
POWER DIFFERENCES<br />THIS IS MY SPOUSE<br />AND THIS IS POOR ME<br />
WE ARE BOTH PROFESSIONALWRESTLERS<br />
CAN ANYONE OUT THERE PLEASE HELP ME!<br />
MY SPOUSE IS LIKE A JIGSAW<br />
MINE IS LIKE A MAZE<br />
AND THIS MAKES IT IMPOSSIBLE FOR BOTH OF US TO GET ALONG WELL <br />
END OF SESSION ONE<br />
QUESTION 2<br />
PART 2<br />
NEUTRALITY<br />the state or CHARACTER of being neutral, especially in a dispute, contest, etc.<br />the state or POLICY o...
WE NEED TO EXCERCISE THE GRACE TO REALIZE THAT WE WERE NEVER THE SAME<br />
THE SOCIABLE PARTNER<br />
HE/SHE LIKES CROWDSTHINKS AND FUNCTIONS BETTER IN A GROUPLIKES TO CONSULT ABOUT EVERYTHING<br />
THE SO WHAT PARTNER<br />
ALWAYS THINKS AND ACTS SUPERIOR AND TOO SPEACIALDOES NOT CARE MUCH ABOUT OTHERS’ OPINIONSRARELY CARES ABOUT HOW I FEEL<br />
THE JUST LEAVE ME ALONE KIND OF   PARTNER<br />
HE/SHE IS TOTALLY DIS-INTERESTED IN ALL I DO OR SAYNEVER VOICES OUT HIS/HER FEELINGS<br />
THE PATH TO NON-INVOLVEMENT<br />
AT FIRST ITS FRIGHTENING<br />
THEN SURPRISING<br />
THEN IT ENDS UP  FEELING GOOD TO IMITATE<br />
BE BLESSED<br />FOR MORE ARTICLES IN FAMILY MATTERS VISIT<br />http://montoedikotu.blogspot.com<br />
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Workshop feb 2011

  1. 1. FAMILY MATTERSWORKSHOP<br />Presented by<br />MV KOTU<br />
  2. 2. NEUTRALITY OR NEUTRAL MODE<br />
  3. 3.
  4. 4. NEUTRALITY<br />the state or CHARACTER of being neutral, especially in a dispute, contest, etc.<br />the state or POLICY of being neutral, especially nonparticipation in war.<br />
  5. 5. REALITY:<br />IT IS NOT POSSIBLE TO HAVE 100% TROUBLE-FREE COMMUNICATION<br />
  6. 6. WE ALL HAVE SOMETHING TO GIVE AND TAKE IN LIVING TOGETHER<br />
  7. 7. AND THIS ALWAYS CAUSES US TO LOSE SOME OF THE STRENGTHS WE POSSESS<br />
  8. 8. TRIANGULATION<br />
  9. 9. TRIANGULATION<br />It’s frightening to admit, but a couple in conflict instinctively behaves like two nations preparing for war. In each case, the warring parties create alliances in order to strengthen their respective hands. <br />
  10. 10. TAKING SOMEONE FOR GRANTED<br />Think about this question for a moment. Are you as polite, kind and considerate to your partner as you are to a casual acquaintance? For most of us, the answer is no. How come? How is it that this same person that you now hardly give a moment’s thought to, unless it’s negative, could be the same one to whom you once were so loving, giving and appreciative? <br />
  11. 11. WHAT REALLY MAKES SOMEONE TO DECIDE TO BECOME NON INVOLVED<br />
  12. 12. YOUR SPOUSES BRAIN IS FIRING ON ALL CYLINDERS<br />
  13. 13. MEET MY PARTNER……..<br />
  14. 14. POWER DIFFERENCES<br />THIS IS MY SPOUSE<br />AND THIS IS POOR ME<br />
  15. 15. WE ARE BOTH PROFESSIONALWRESTLERS<br />
  16. 16. CAN ANYONE OUT THERE PLEASE HELP ME!<br />
  17. 17. MY SPOUSE IS LIKE A JIGSAW<br />
  18. 18. MINE IS LIKE A MAZE<br />
  19. 19. AND THIS MAKES IT IMPOSSIBLE FOR BOTH OF US TO GET ALONG WELL <br />
  20. 20. END OF SESSION ONE<br />
  21. 21.
  22. 22. QUESTION 2<br />
  23. 23. PART 2<br />
  24. 24. NEUTRALITY<br />the state or CHARACTER of being neutral, especially in a dispute, contest, etc.<br />the state or POLICY of being neutral, especially nonparticipation in war.<br />
  25. 25. WE NEED TO EXCERCISE THE GRACE TO REALIZE THAT WE WERE NEVER THE SAME<br />
  26. 26. THE SOCIABLE PARTNER<br />
  27. 27. HE/SHE LIKES CROWDSTHINKS AND FUNCTIONS BETTER IN A GROUPLIKES TO CONSULT ABOUT EVERYTHING<br />
  28. 28. THE SO WHAT PARTNER<br />
  29. 29. ALWAYS THINKS AND ACTS SUPERIOR AND TOO SPEACIALDOES NOT CARE MUCH ABOUT OTHERS’ OPINIONSRARELY CARES ABOUT HOW I FEEL<br />
  30. 30. THE JUST LEAVE ME ALONE KIND OF PARTNER<br />
  31. 31. HE/SHE IS TOTALLY DIS-INTERESTED IN ALL I DO OR SAYNEVER VOICES OUT HIS/HER FEELINGS<br />
  32. 32. THE PATH TO NON-INVOLVEMENT<br />
  33. 33. AT FIRST ITS FRIGHTENING<br />
  34. 34. THEN SURPRISING<br />
  35. 35. THEN IT ENDS UP FEELING GOOD TO IMITATE<br />
  36. 36. BE BLESSED<br />FOR MORE ARTICLES IN FAMILY MATTERS VISIT<br />http://montoedikotu.blogspot.com<br />

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