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  • A brochure how this procedure would look like and support from professionals instead of immobility and surprise would have made us feel more at ease.
  • Needs

    1. 1. Forgotten Families?<br />understanding the needs of kinship carers and the children in their care<br />
    2. 2. “I am desperate for my granddaughter to grow up and become a beautiful, bright young woman with so many opportunities at her fingertips; she deserves it following the life she has had so far.”<br />Carer - UK<br />
    3. 3. The EU Kinship Carers Project<br />Aim<br />to improve the quality of prevention programmes targeting children and young people living with kinship carers, thus preventing vulnerable children and young people from experiencing harm as a consequence of alcohol or drug use.<br />
    4. 4. Project Outline<br />Interviews with carers to assess needs<br />Literature review to assess promising approaches<br />Develop and pilot national resources to support carers and children<br />Create training materials to support professional practice<br />Disseminate and evaluate<br />
    5. 5. Findings<br />Carers Needs<br />
    6. 6. Carers Needs<br /><ul><li>Becoming a Carer
    7. 7. Duty
    8. 8. Guilt
    9. 9. Stress
    10. 10. Confusion</li></li></ul><li>“It is a heavy and long procedure to take the child from the parents to the care of the grandparents. Now taking such steps sucks our energy and it is emotionally very heavy.”<br />Carer – Belgium<br />
    11. 11. Carers Needs<br /><ul><li>Material Needs
    12. 12. Not everyone, but majority
    13. 13. Financial
    14. 14. Returning to work
    15. 15. Stopping work
    16. 16. Housing
    17. 17. Food
    18. 18. Making children feel normal
    19. 19. Unintended consequences</li></li></ul><li>“We do not have a washing machine - it’s so hard to wash the children’s clothes by hand; the children need a computer as all the other children from the community have.”<br />Carer – Romania<br />“As the house is bigger I need to use more gas and electricity to heat it so my bills rocket through the roof each month.”<br />Carer – UK <br />
    20. 20. Carers Needs<br /><ul><li>Social Needs
    21. 21. Isolation – loss of adult friends
    22. 22. Social stigma
    23. 23. Feeling unprepared
    24. 24. Relationships with family
    25. 25. Sometimes positive
    26. 26. Sometimes negative</li></li></ul><li>"It has been a long time since I have been out. I am alone... my grandchildren are my friends.”<br />Carer – Lithuania <br />“We have received support from both families. The experience has been very rewarding”.<br />Carer – Spain <br />
    27. 27. Carers Needs<br /><ul><li>Health Needs
    28. 28. Exhaustion
    29. 29. Depression
    30. 30. Physical health
    31. 31. Put needs of children ahead of their own</li></li></ul><li>"Very tired, and sometimes do not even want to live”<br />Carer – Lithuania <br />
    32. 32. Carers Needs<br /><ul><li>Relationships with Professionals
    33. 33. Lack of consistency
    34. 34. Lack of empathy
    35. 35. Fear of authorities
    36. 36. Feelings of humiliation</li></li></ul><li>“They make you feel so stupid and so sometimes I just agreed to what they were saying in order to get the meeting over and done with.”<br />Carer – UK <br />They feel scrutinized in every inch of their being. This creates inferiority complex and a feeling that you have to beg, for money or help. It is an unhealthy structure.<br />Mentor Sweden<br />
    37. 37. Findings<br />Children’s Needs<br />
    38. 38. “I would never say to her that she is different ‘cause I have tried to bring her up in a normal and loving environment as much as possible. But the truth is, she is different; she doesn’t live in a happy home with her mum and dad, she lives with Gran. Her mum’s a junkie and her dad is a good for nothing loser who doesn’t care for her.”<br /> Carer - UK<br />
    39. 39. Children’s Needs<br /><ul><li>Education
    40. 40. Carers feel ill-equipped to support children’s education
    41. 41. Concerns about behaviour in school</li></li></ul><li>“We never had the subjects at primary school as they are taught now. This makes it difficult to support our grandchild with homework.”<br />Carer – Belgium<br />"The problems started after 11-12 years. Already at the age of 12 she began run from the school and is in bad company.”<br />Carer – Lithuania<br />
    42. 42. Children’s Needs<br /><ul><li>Drug and Alcohol Information
    43. 43. Carers worried about children being vulnerable
    44. 44. Carers feel under-informed
    45. 45. Expect schools to deliver</li></li></ul><li>“We would need support in talking about drug abuse without blaming the parents.”<br />Carer – Belgium <br />"Maybe the school would help to show videos, interviews and lectures about the injury.”<br />Carer – Lithuania<br />
    46. 46. Children’s Needs<br /><ul><li>Behaviour
    47. 47. Recognise the children have been damaged by parents
    48. 48. Children exhibiting risky behaviour
    49. 49. Forms of parenting not successful
    50. 50. But support needs to be couched in terms carers can accept</li></li></ul><li>“His sister comes to visit every holidays but his behaviour changes about 2 days before she is to leave, he hits her and shouts at her but when she goes he grabs her and cries because he doesn’t want to see her go, it breaks my heart.”<br />Carer – UK <br />
    51. 51. "I cut her hair because I was so angry, maybe I was wrong. (....) But punishment does not work, she is not afraid of anything.“<br />Carer – Lithuania <br />
    52. 52. Findings from the Needs Assement<br /><ul><li>Becoming a carer is stressful
    53. 53. Carers are often financially worse off as a result of the decision to become a carer
    54. 54. There often doesn't seem to be a choice in becoming a carer
    55. 55. Carers put their own health and wellbeing behind the needs of the children.
    56. 56. Professionals were sometimes seen as officious and uncaring
    57. 57. Children had deep emotional needs as a result of what they had experienced
    58. 58. Many carers were worried about the role that drugs and alcohol might play in the children's lives
    59. 59. As the children grew older behaviour became a concern</li></li></ul><li>“I came here today feeling that I just wanted to give up and now that I have met these people here I have hope that things will change around for me.”<br />Carer - UK<br />
    60. 60. The EU Kinship Carers Project has received funding from the European Union in the framework of the Public Health Programme. <br /><br />