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  1. 1. How to attend an interview? | What are steps to prepare for an interview? The interview process will start when we think to attend an interview in a company. This process will be until the resume is selected or rejected. To succeed in the interview, one should combine the personal professionalism and skills and present it before the interviewer. We should make the interview believe that we can perform the duties well. Then only we will get the job. Preparation: We should know the complete details of the company and its history. We should practice the common questions asked in the interview. We should tell about ourselves and about the achievements we achieved. We should tell the reason to do job and our weakness and strong points. Mock interviews: Mock interviews help a lot in to overcome the stress facing in the first interview. We should able to answer the questions which are tuff for us. We should ask the friends to conduct mock interviews and we should be able to answer all the questions. We check our standards and we should try to improve when we do mistakes. Interview: We should speak in a good communicative way so that the interviewer gets impressed. We should tell our eligibility and skills. We should listen to the questions carefully asked by the interviewer. We should check the time and give the answers only related to them. When we don’t know the answer, we should agree that we don’t know. We should not be irritated or impatient when more questions are asked. They ask more questions to test the behavior during stressed and we should be patient to answer all the questions. We should the interview place before 15 minutes. Then we get the time to relax and so we can be stress free. The way of dressing also matters and we should dress in a professional manner to impress the interviewer. Confidence: As we enter the room of interviewer, we should wish them with smile and present confidence while standing. We should take the seat only when the interviewer offers us and we should listen to the questions asked by the interviewer by bending keeping our head close to him. We should answer the questions by looking straight into their eyes and this tells our energy and confidence levels. After the completion of the interview, we should thank the interviewer.
  2. 2. • e experiences and skills which recognize you • The clear cut thoughts on the company and successful points. Knowledge: The company will give importance to the people who travel towards the goals and so they should prove themselves before the interviewer. It will be helpful to know the details of the company like products, present and future projects, goals and working process. They should explain the interviewer about the skills in them which are helpful to the company. Self confidence: They should be self confident during the interview and then they can get good marks. The body language also exhibits the confidence levels and they can attract the interviewer by sitting straight, looking into the eyes of the interviewer and changing the face expressions accordingly. Tips to follow while attending an Interview / walkin : 1. Prepare a fine resume . Never keep any false information in it. 2. Keep copies of all your certificates. Also keep supporting documents if you mention any experience. 3. Search in the internet about the company and get some information about them. Especially the new projects of that company. So you could answer them if you are asked to explain about their company 4. Home work is a must. 5. It is important to wear a formal dress and a tie. Better to wear a blazer too. Never forget to polish your shoes. Let the color of your shoes and belt matching. Make sure that your perfumes will not irritate others. 6. Always show up sooner than scheduled. This will show your possible employer that you have ambition. 7. The first question you might face is to tell about yourself. This is to give an idea about you and about the communication skills that you have. Keep a tone and flow in your language. 8. Answer to the right question. Your sentences should be open ended. Try to create a friendly atmosphere. 9. Hear the question first and answer to that. Don’t interfere while they are talking. 10. Keep an Eye contact with a pleasing smile and confidence in your words. 11. Ask them about the salary and facilities that you will get if you are hired. 12. Before conclusion you should make sure that you succeed in convincing them about the contributions that you could give them if you are hired.For professional
  3. 3. jobs, you must be prepared with the technical side as there will be minimum three or four round interview or there will be more than 1 interviewer. Special tip: Let me tell you one thing. The person who interviews you will be having same tension that you have. And just think that the interviewer has no good communication skills like you have. This will minimize your stress. Never start the conversation with “Well”. And avoid “fillers” like “you know”, “ummm”. But maintain a body language. This is upon my experience. Wish you all the very best. Interview / Walkins DO’S : 1. Know the exact time and location of your interview; know how long it takes to get there, park, find a rest room to freshen up, etc. 2. Arrive early; 10 minutes prior to the interview start time. 3. Treat other people you encounter with courtesy and respect. Their opinions of you might be solicited during hiring decisions. 4. Offer a firm handshake, make eye contact, and have a friendly expression when you are greeted by your interviewer. 5. Listen to be sure you understand your interviewer’s name and the correct pronunciation.( 6. Even when your interviewer gives you a first and last name, address your interviewer by title (Ms., Mr., Dr.) and last name, until invited to do otherwise. 7. Maintain good eye contact during the interview. 8. Sit still in your seat; avoid fidgeting and slouching. 9. Ask for clarification if you don’t understand a question. Interview / Walkins DON’Ts : 1. Don’t make excuses. Take responsibility for your decisions and your actions. 2. Don’t make negative comments about previous employers or professors (or others). 3. Don’t falsify application materials or answers to interview questions. 4. Don’t treat the interview casually, as if you are just shopping around or doing the interview for practice. This is an insult to the interviewer and to the organization. 5. Don’t give the impression that you are only interested in an organization because of its geographic location:n. How to improve self confidence  Recognize your insecurities. What does that voice in the back of your mind say? What makes you ashamed of yourself? This could be anything from acne, to regrets, or friends at school. Whatever is making you feel unworthy, ashamed, or inferior, identify it, give it a name, and write it down. You can also tear these written pieces to start feeling positive on those points. Ads by Google
  4. 4. Brain Test™ Developed by Neuroscientists Improve Memory and Attention  2 Talk about it with friends and loved ones. Wear it on your sleeve. Each day you should chip away at it; wear it down. There's no quick fix. Get to the root of the problem; focus on it and understand that you need to resolve each issue before you can move on. And that doesn't mean you have to get rid of whatever makes you feel bad (many times, you simply can't). You need to learn to accept yourself, your past, your circumstances as they are, without necessarily thinking of them as "bad".  3 Remember that no one is perfect. Even the most confident people have insecurities. At some point in any of our lives, we may feel we lack something. That is reality. Learn that life is full of bumps down the road.  4 Identify your successes. Everyone is good at something, so discover the things at which you excel, then focus on your talents. Give yourself permission to take pride in them. Give yourself credit for your successes. Inferiority is a state of mind in which you've declared yourself a victim. Do not allow yourself to be victimized. Express yourself, whether it's through art, music, writing, etc. Find something you enjoy. Everyone is born with talents and strengths. You can develop and excel in yours. If it's difficult to name two or three things you have some ability in or just plain love to do, think about things others do that you would like to do too and take some lessons or join an enthusiasts club. When you're following your passion, not only will it have a therapeutic effect, but you'll feel unique and accomplished, all of which can help build your self confidence. Plus, adding a variety of interests to your life will not only make you more confident, but it will increase your chances of meeting compatible friends!  5 Be thankful for what you have. A lot of the times, at the root of insecurity and lack of confidence is a feeling of not having enough of something, whether it's emotional validation, good luck, money, etc. By acknowledging and appreciating what you do have, you can combat the feeling of being incomplete and unsatisfied. Finding that inner peace will do wonders for your confidence.  6 Be Positive, even if you don't feel the same way. Avoid self-pity, or the pity and sympathy of others. Never allow others to make you feel inferior--they can only do so if you let them. If you continue to loathe and belittle yourself, others are going to do and believe likewise. Instead, speak positively about yourself, about your future, and about your progress. Do not be afraid to project your strengths and qualities to others. By doing so, you reinforce those ideas in your mind and encourage your growth in a positive direction.  7 Accept compliments gracefully. Don't roll your eyes and say, "Yeah, right," or shrug it off. Take it to heart and respond positively ("Thank you" and a smile works well).  8
  5. 5. Look in the mirror and smile. Studies surrounding what's called the "facial feedback theory" suggest that the expressions on your face can actually encourage your brain to register certain emotions. So by looking in the mirror and smiling every day, you might feel happier with yourself and more confident in the long run.  9 I am gorgeous, huh? Fake it. Along the same lines of smiling to make yourself feel happy, acting confident might actually make you believe it. Pretend you're a completely confident version of you; go through the motions and see how you feel!  10 Stick to your principles. It might be tough, but if you don't have something you can believe in, you don't have anything. If you don't stand for something, you will fall for anything. No matter what's happened in your life, you can always lay claim to the fact that from this day forward, you've followed your principles to the best of your ability.  11 Help others. When you know you're kind to the people around you, and are making a positive difference in other people's lives (even if it's just being kinder to the person who serves you coffee in the morning), you'll know that you are a positive force in the world-- which will boost your self confidence. Just recognizing who or what you're like inside will help you become that on the outside. Exercise helps you build strength and confidence, increases libido, and has many other positive effects.  12 Always keep smile on your face, that will build a lot of self-confidence  13 How to Build Self Confidence 15 Minutes Before an Interview By admiller, eHow Member self-confidence User-Submitted Article Congratulations, you have an interview. You want to make a good first impression and you want to land the job. Taking the advice of friends, books, and internet resources, you have arrived 15 minutes early. Sitting in the car collecting your thoughts before an
  6. 6. interview is valuable time that should not be wasted. What is the best way to use it? Follow the steps below to use the15 minutes before an interview to build self confidence and go into the meeting fully prepared. Difficulty: Moderate Instructions 1. 1 play music Sensory Check. It's time to get mentally prepared. Find a good radio station or have a power song selected ahead of time and turn up the volume. You want to get the blood flowing and the adrenaline charged. Try blasting the air conditioner. Cold, crisp air will awaken the senses. 2. 2 review documents Document Check. Make sure you have everything you need before the interview. If you forgot something, don't sweat it. It's better to know before going into the building than to look ill-prepared inside. Check your folder for resumes, your list of questions to ask, applications, notepad, pens, references, and transcripts. Be able to easily access these things without fumbling through your briefcase or portfolio. Use them only as needed. Look over the job description one last time so that the specific job qualifications are fresh in your mind. Now is also a good time to turn off that cell phone. 3. 3
  7. 7. prepare mentally Self Check. This is no time for self-doubt. All thoughts should be positive. Have a list of your successes ready to glance over to remind you of how great you really are. Quickly counteract any negative self-talk with positive statements. Don't feel bad about the negative thoughts, just think of some positive ones instead. This is a time to feel good about yourself so that you will project confidence in the interview. If you are plagued by chronic self-doubt, fake it till you make it. Act the part of confidence and you will soon find it is no longer an act. 4. 4 practice sales pitch Sales Pitch Check. Practice your 25 second sales pitch one last time. You are going into the job interview to sell yourself. Be ready to present a positive professional attitude. Companies are looking for: a willingness to learn, an ability to be an active team member, knowledge of the relevant job skills, an organized thought process, and the ability to communicate well. Review this list and find ways to communicate each of these points during the interview. 5. 5 visualize success
  8. 8. Mental Check. Great athletes visualize their accomplishments before actually performing them. Use this tactic before the interview. Visualize yourself shaking hands, making eye contact, remembering names, smiling, being comfortable and professional. If you think it, it will happen. 6. 6 restroom stop Restroom Check. Head into the building and stop in the restroom for one last appearance check. Make sure buttons are buttoned correctly and you don't have food stuck in your teeth. Don't forget to smile! Wash your hands and use a lot of soap. All employees in the building use this restroom and this soap. By using the same soap, you will smell like you belong. It's a subconscious thing, but it works. 7. 7 interview time Time to Perform. It's interview time. If you have followed the steps above, you will feel fully prepared and confident. Go to the reception area and introduce yourself. Remember the receptionist's name and use it on the way out. You've done everything you can to prepare, and now it is time to perform. Have fun, be confident, and be the best you possible.