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Conceived , preapred for children at the age band of 12-16 years to do some self analysis , self understanding , assess what do they intend to do in their life and how to go about it . An effort combining spiritual awakening and also maangement principles developed over years , simple and undestandable by children .

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  1. 1. TODAY FOR “MY” BETTER TOMORROW SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  2. 2. 5/18/2012 Sri Suprabatha Sabha, Chennai -33Self awareness improvement Workshop for ‘Leaders’ of tomorrow Title : Today for “MY” better tomorrow •Venue : SSS , Baroda street , Chennai -33 •Time : 6.30 pm – 9 pm – 3 days ( 14 /15/16th May 2012) •Recommended age group : > 12 years •All should participate with open mind •English , Tamil – both language acceptable for discussion •Interested parents are also invited for witnessing the workshop •40 page note book , pen , pencil and eraser should be carried •Chart paper (big sheet ) + sketch pens ( all colors ) to be brought •LCD projector is required •Laptop would be brought by Mr.Anand •If some extra time is taken , children /parents to be patient •Children should be fed sufficiently by 6 pm •There will be two 5 min brake in between for children to relax •Home work shall be given Hare Rama Hare Rama Rama Rama Hare Hare ! Hare Krishna Hare Krishna Krishna Krishna Hare Hare ! SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  3. 3. 5/18/2012 Agenda for 3 days workshopDay 1 Day 2 Day 3Self awareness Self Leadership Goal setting•Values •Faith •Time management•Character •Self Motivation •Theory of Karma•Behavior •Balance of life •How to shape future•Attitudes •Success and Failures •SWOT analysis•Perception •6 Enemies •Goal setting exercise•Personality •Need for change • Peace and Happiness•Communication •Ownership•Purpose of Life •Responsibility • Self contentment Hare Rama Hare Rama Rama Rama Hare Hare ! Hare Krishna Hare Krishna Krishna Krishna Hare Hare ! SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  4. 4. 5/18/2012VANDE MAHA PURUSHATE CHARANARAVINDAM! 1. Values 2. Character & Behavior 3. Attitude and Perception 4. Personality 5. Communication 6. Goal(s )for our life 7. Self leadership 8. Goal setting 9. Time management 10. Faith and self motivation 11. Theory of KARMA 12. Success and Failures 13. 6 Enemies of our life 14. Change ! 15. Accept Life ‘as it comes “ 16. Future 17. Duty 18. Which is True happiness for our life ? SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  5. 5. 5/18/2012 What is ‘VALUE s“ in life ?Strong belief , principle of lifeIt really drives our every activityIf we do not have values … our life is waste !List some great men and the values they stood for ? –Discussions for 10 minutes ! SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
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  8. 8. 5/18/2012 Value SystemCan we make a Values Chart for ourselves ?Ramayana gives us the ‘Collective Values for a Society”Values have no caste , creed , nation , language , religion , race –no barriers at all SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  9. 9. SSS/Anand_Self leadership program 5/18/20121.2. Truthfulness God Loving For Discussions with Children3. Kindness4. Unconditional love5. Balanced mind6. Treat all same ( equanimity)7. Courage and Fortitude of Mind8. Health both body and mind9. Never quit friendship10. Never mind others mistakes11. Treat a small help ‘ great “12. Gratitude13. Forgiving nature14. Empathy15. Self Confidence16. Humility17. Responsibility and ownership18. ProactiveAdd on if you think right•WHO IS THE ‘ MAN “ WITH BEST CHARACTER IN THIS WORLDVALUE BASED CONSISTENT BEHAVIOR FORMS A CHARACTERA CHARACTER SHAPES A LIFE
  10. 10. 5/18/2012 Some thoughts ….- treat others the same way as u expect to be treated- be aware that we are constantly watched"SOW THINKING REAP ACTION, SOW ACTION REAP HABIT, SOWHABIT REAP CHARACTER,SOW CHARACTER REAP DESTINY" SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
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  13. 13. 5/18/2012 How to Do you motivateknow U have own self ?a magicaltree in U ? Positive Key to attitude ! Super happiness ! power ! SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
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  15. 15. 5/18/2012ATTITUDE SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  16. 16. 5/18/2012Discussions on1. Perception2. Perception barriers SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  17. 17. 5/18/2012 PERCEPTIONMiracles happen in someone’s life occasionally …If you chant ‘ MAHAMANTRA “ i.e RAMA’s divine nameLife itself is a Miracle …..!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Pl experience SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  18. 18. 5/18/2012Discussion on attitudes /PERCEPTION of1. Sugriva2. Duriyodhana3. Devas4. Asuras5. Prahladha6. Bhisma7. Vibhisana SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
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  20. 20. 5/18/2012BHISMA’S STRORY •Knowledge •Valor •Attitude •Perception •His end SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  21. 21. 5/18/2012 • Demography How a person reacts to a Social • Race situation in lifeEnvironment is called personality PERSONALITY Character • Values Behavior Values Family/Culture • Wealth • Religion • Status ATTITUDE PerceptionJob /Friends • Training • Education •Thoughts •Actions •Words Communication SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  22. 22. 5/18/2012 COMMUNICATION – THE PROCESS Coding Sender Barriers Receiver•Visual medium – maximum reach•Listening process•Asking questions Ex: Saying Yes by Nodding ! SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  23. 23. 5/18/2012 COMMUNICATION – BARRIERS PriorVoice experiencemodulations Ugly Attitude gesturesCulture Perceptions/language SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  24. 24. 5/18/2012COMMUNICATION – LIFE LINE ! Verbal /Oral • Language /Sounds /AV • Voice modulation / Softness • Choice of Words Non verbal Audio Video aids • Written • Body language • Gestures • Video Listening is communication SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  25. 25. FAITHFULNESS !!!!Sincerity Patience SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  26. 26. FAITHFULNESS !!!! Prayer can Make Impossible Possible•Chanting Lord’s Holy name with Sincerity & Patience •Mahamantra is God’s Cell Phone No. Hare Rama Hare Rama Rama Rama Hare Hare !Hare Krishna Hare Krishna Krishna Krishna Hare Hare SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  27. 27. Purpose of Human Life To ask this questions1. What is Self Awareness ?2.3. Who Am I ? Why did I get this human body ? Purpose of4. From where do I come from ? Life ?5. Where do I go to ?6. Why people suffer or be happy ?7. Why I was not born as an animal or else?8. In which way I am different ?9. Can I enjoy permanent happiness ?10. Can I see God ? & Find answers also SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  28. 28. ONE ness !!!! ONE Living (GOD) World Non LIVING Wisdom 5 basic elements Artificial Natural 1. Sky /space 2. Air 3. Water 4. Fire 5. EarthIntelligence 1. Sound/Ears Emotional Feelings Human 2. 3. Sense /Skin Vision /eyes 5 senses Mind beings 4. Taste / tongue 5. Smell /Nose SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
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  31. 31. 5/18/2012 SELF DEVELOPMENT / LEADERSHIP Environment Econo Profe my ssion alG G EnvironmentO Personality Values / Social OA A Menta Awareness / l will to achieve goalsL LS S Physic Spiritu al al SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  32. 32. 5/18/2012 6 Enemies I fight every day ! Anger Desire A tree with 2 seeds and 6 big fruits ?Pride Miserlines s I , My Discrimination Possessiveness SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  33. 33. “ ACCEPT LIFE AS IT IS “ 5/18/2012 Story of well frogs !!!!! And snakes‘Constant’ Inevitablefor all in this /unavoidableworld anduniverseAccept it / Painfuldon’t resist as If we do notit is natural accept it , will be forced to ---------- SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  34. 34. 5/18/2012 Thoughts Words ActionExcellence in Thoughts , Words and Action SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  35. 35. 5/18/2012 6 Enemies I fight every day ! Anger Desire A tree with 2 seeds and 6 big fruits ?Pride Miserlines s I , My Discretion Possessiveness SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  36. 36. SSS/Anand_Self leadership program 5/18/2012 Theory of Karma• Speak NO Evil• See NO Evil• Hear NO Evil THREE WISE MONKEYS Purpose of mouth is say only good things , eyes are see only good , hear only good …
  37. 37. 5/18/2012 Remember ‘GIGO’ alwaysGarbage IN Garbage Good IN Good SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  38. 38. 5/18/2012 TIME MANAGEMENT 50 to60% of your life spent in sleeping•Life is short …. 20% life goes in childhood•Can I waste Time ? Noooooo! 10% is only available for•I think I can fix my priority growth•I can carry a list – things to do ? 20% illness , old age , family•I make lot of plans but never follow it?? No ??!!• What is an ‘early bird” ? SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  39. 39. 5/18/2012Time management Hey … I want to manage my time effectively from this sofa … in front of TV SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  40. 40. 5/18/2012TIME MANAGEMENT - ARTDECISION MAKING • Decide quickly • Take plunge Hey ! I have decided • All decisions have + and – • Good or bad decision depends on to jump ! result • Hindsight , all are intelligent •Success has lot of fathers ! But failure is an orphan ! •Experience is a comb given when I am bald ! SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  41. 41. 5/18/2012Time management Give your comments ? SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  42. 42. 5/18/2012Time management U want to do or don’t want to do …? 24 hours is too short ! Can I get more hours / day ?!!!! Napoleon SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  43. 43. 5/18/2012 Time lost cannot be regainedAll of us walk towards ‘death “ only “ Never say tomorrow … do it right nowDon’t worry about past .. As u do not live there anymore …. Giving excuses is an habit …. SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  44. 44. 5/18/2012Time management Time is circular for European Time is linear for Asians SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  45. 45. 5/18/2012 Time management Some thoughts for time management •Casual approach to time •TV •Chats •Extended play hours •Being aware of waste of time •Time sense is a habit •Be careful of time wasters •Excellent time is morning •Physical exercise •Eating time •Observe the world •Walking or cycling Balance of •Time to Talk to parents ( 10 time mins) •Temple time •Prayer time • Plan •Prioritize • Schedule • Follow up • Write down your time•Exercise : Own time chart schedule•Prepare •Follow •Monitor utilization   SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  46. 46. 5/18/2012Nothing is sweeter than success !NOTHING FAILS LIKE SUCCESS !Longest and shortest journey startswith the ‘FIRST “ little step SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  47. 47. 5/18/20121. Success and Failure – two sides of the same coin2. No failure …. No success3. A success cal always be succeeded by a failure4. Success without failure has no taste5. One’s success is another’s failure6. Being always No.1 is a tough situation7. We can do our best … but we cannot stop others doing better !8. Always ask , did I give my 100% SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  48. 48. 5/18/2012Past is only Present is in Future is an your hand and hiddenexperience is real ..ACT SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  49. 49. 5/18/2012Short term Medium termLong term Dream Goals SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
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  51. 51. 5/18/2012SWOT analysis .. Let us do for ourselves Let’s do our individual SWOT SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
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  53. 53. SSS/Anand_Self leadership program 5/18/2012 REMEMBER … ALWAYS DUTY Duty is the Motivator • Kick start1. Always have FAITH in GOD • Smooth start2. Develop a positive attitude3. Do not appreciate others mistakes4. Learn to forgive5. Neither live in past /nor fear future/ Live NOW Duty is our energizer6. If you commit a mistake , apologize • Gives energy7. Appreciate others lavishly for their good • Refills8. Carry a ‘smile’ always !9. Do not worry about failure !10. Ensure that you give your best always11. Remember we will become ‘Old “ one day Duty is happiness & peace12. Remember GOD is always watching • God likes those who is dutiful13. Be assured that GOD is impartial • Ultimate reward14. Be patient and never stop praying and working hard15. Say to yourself ‘I make my life” THE PURPOSE OF LIFE IS LIFE OF PURPOSE!!!
  54. 54. WE HAVE DUTY TOWARDS1. Our ancestors who are no more2. Living parents3. Teacher /Saints4. Mother earth /Nature5. Animals , birds , poor and needy6. A supreme power which shapes our life (GOD) SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  55. 55. 7 HABITS OF EFFECTIVE PEOPLE -SUMMARY SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  56. 56. FIVE SECRETS BEFORE U DIE ! SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  57. 57. 5/18/2012 HANUMAN STORY – MESSAGE Self Confidence Knowledge Power Team player Becoming Self Realization Self Leadership a ROLE MODEL Obedience•Values •Faith •Self Realized soul Self motivation •Peaceful and contented•Discipline •Self Motivation •Unconditional Love•Character •Value of our life •Motivate others by deeds•Attitude & Perception •Control over 6 enemies•Education /senses •Create leaders •No one can repay to him Selflessness•Purpose of Life •Goal orientation •Effective communicator SSS/Anand_Self leadership program
  58. 58. THANK U MY DEAR FRIENDS …. SSS/Anand_Self leadership program