1. Coaching Children
with ADHD
Dr. Caroline White
Incredible Years Trainer
Consultant Clinical Psychologist
Head of CAPS Early Intervention
Manchester, UK
5. WHY DO COACHING?
• In studies of young children with conduct problems
more than 30% were also comorbid for internalising
problems
• Aggression and inadequate impulse control lead to
problems in relationships and developing friendships
8. HOW DO CHILDREN LEARN ABOUT
REGULATION?
• Early social-emotional development occurs in the
context of parenting.
• Maternal emotion and parent–child interactions
are key.
9. PARENTS ARE THE KEY!
• Evidence that maternal sensitivity is causally
related to positive child development, including:
•
• secure attachment
• self-regulation
• social functioning
• cognitive competence
10.
11. TYPES OF COACHING
• Academic coaching – focus comments on
academic skills
• Persistence coaching – comments on the child’s
cognitive and behavioural state
• Social coaching – model and label appropriate
social skills
• Emotion coaching – labelling children emotions –
both positive and negative
15. HOW SOON SHOULD WE
BE DOING IT?
• Toddlerhood reflects a period of rapid growth in
social-emotional competencies, including
• advancements in self-regulatory growth
• early pro-social development
16. THE EVIDENCE
• Expressions of positive affect in the home
predict kindergarteners’ peer social skills.
• Maternal expressions of positive affect
demonstrate social competence.
• Parental emotional expressivity and warmth
are related to school-aged children’s
expressions of empathy.
17. THE EVIDENCE
• High levels of paternal sadness and negativity is
associated with impaired abilities to identify
negative emotions and use emotion word labels.
• Low levels of acceptance of negative emotions has
a negative influence on children’s self-regulation
and on school-age children’s aggressive behaviours.
23. HOW DOES IT LINK?
• Parents who avoid, ignore, or minimize their
children’s emotions are more likely to have children
with:
• Poor self-regulation
• Behavioural problems
• Difficult peer relationships
24. WE NEED TO BE ABLE TO
REGULATE
• Children with social and emotional skill deficits
struggle to engage in the educational curriculum,
are uncooperative with teachers and likely to
behave antisocially
• They also receive less peer support
• Failure to acquire these skills results in long-term
emotional and behavioural problems, school
dropout, substance abuse and violent criminality
25. WE NEED TO BE ABLE TO
REGULATE
• These difficulties are precursors for
• later mental health problems
• antisocial behaviour
• problems with substance abuse and other risk-
taking behaviours during adolescence
26. WE NEED TO BE ABLE TO
REGULATE
• Emotional competence is associated with
• improvements in pro-social behaviour and
attentional skills
• reduces the risk of behaviour problems and
difficulties in the transition to school
27. HOW CAN PARENTS
HELP?
• Parents promote their children’s understanding of
emotions by
• talking about emotions
• using emotion words
• labelling emotions
• supporting children’s regulatory attempts in
emotionally charged situations
• generally using such situations as opportunities
to build their children’s awareness and skills in
managing emotions
28. EXAMPLES OF EMOTION
COACHING
• “You look frustrated about that but you are staying
clam and trying to solve the problem”
• “I could tell that you felt shy about asking her to
play; it was really brave of you to try it”
• Angry or shy feeling is validated without giving it too
much attention and also expresses faith that the
child will be able to cope and produce a positive
outcome
29. CONTRIBUTION FROM
SOCIAL LEARNING THEORY
• Children's behaviours are learned from their
interactions with significant people in their lives
• Behaviours are maintained by environmental
reinforcers
• Focus on changing maladaptive behaviours by
changing the environmental contingencies which
maintain them
31. HOW IS COACHING
DIFFERENT TO PRAISE?
“Well done for concentrating and trying again”
“You are concentrating and trying again”
“Now concentrate and try again”
34. WHERE DOES THE COACHING
WORK?
Child
anxious to
go to
school
Parents
remove
aversive
stimuli
and let
child stay
home
Childs
anxiety
remains
School
Refusal
35. WHERE DOES THE
COACHING WORK?
Child
directed play
Promotes
secure parent
child
relationship
Builds self
confidence
Emotion
coaching
Helps deal with
fear
Encourage and
give attention
to brave
behaviour
Social
coaching
Improve
positive peer
relationships
Improves
relationships
with school staff
36. THE OUTCOME
Child
anxious
to go to
school
Parent
success-
fully
coaches
the child
Childs
anxiety
dissipates
Child
attends
school
39. WHERE DOES THE COACHING
WORK?
Child
constantly
on the go
Parents
shout,
constantly
talk about
inability to
do things
Child
believes
they are
unable to
regulate
Aggression,
impulsivity
40. WHERE DOES THE COACHING
WORK?
Child
directed
play
Promotes
secure
parent child
relationship
Builds self
confidence
Persistence
coaching
Helps
believe can
stay on task
Helps
recognise
self
regulation
Emotion
coaching
Deals with
frustration
Deals with
anger
Social
coaching
Improve
positive
peer
relationships
Improves
likeability
factor!
41. THE OUTCOME
Child
constantly
on the go
Parent uses
successfully
coaches
Childs
internal self
talk helps
believe can
self
regulate
Increased
ability to
focus