Seminar
“ Children, obey your parents because you belong to the Lord, for this is the right thing to do. “Honor your father and mo...
<ul><li>Father’s Role </li></ul><ul><li>Mother’s Role </li></ul><ul><li>Children’s role </li></ul>
<ul><li>The heart of God is that of a father.  </li></ul><ul><li>We will become outstanding leaders when we first become e...
<ul><li>A Merciful Father:  Luke 15:20   “And he arose and came to his father. But when he was still a great way off, his ...
<ul><li>Father of Multitudes </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Genesis 17:5-6  “No longer shall your name be called Abram, but your na...
<ul><li>A Father Who Blesses His Children </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Genesis 27:27   “And he came near and kissed him; and he s...
<ul><li>An Exemplary Father </li></ul><ul><ul><li>1 Kings 9:4-5  “Now if you walk before Me as your father David walked, i...
<ul><li>Psalms 15  </li></ul><ul><ul><li>(vs. 1) He was committed to the House of God  </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>(vs. 2) ...
<ul><li>A Substitute Father </li></ul><ul><li>Esther 2:11   “And every day Mordecai paced in front of the court of the wom...
<ul><li>Virtuous  </li></ul><ul><ul><li>(Proverbs 31: 10-31) </li></ul></ul>
<ul><li>Galatians 6:7-9  “Don't be misled: No one makes a fool of God. What a person plants, he will harvest. The person w...
<ul><li>Motivate them to be positive people </li></ul><ul><ul><li>A positive person is someone that has learned to speak t...
<ul><li>Help Them to Have a Balance Self Image. </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Speak words of blessing to them each day. </li></ul>...
<ul><li>Help them to follow rules </li></ul><ul><ul><li>They need discipline as children. </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>If th...
<ul><li>Communication with your children </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Set aside time to talk </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Avoid rai...
<ul><li>Communication with your children (continued) </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Have recreational activities that involves all ...
<ul><li>Honor Your Parents:  Ephesians 6:1-3   “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your fa...
<ul><ul><li>It will be well with you in all that you do. </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Your life will be prolonged. </li></ul...
<ul><li>Bring joy to your parents lives. </li></ul><ul><li>Proverbs 10:1   “A wise son makes a glad father, but a foolish ...
<ul><li>God’s purpose is to establish priestly families and that each family member is to make the effort to evoke the pre...
 
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  • Do analogy of each role and God going up the steps.
  • How many of you are fathers? Not a father yet but want to be? This is for all men here to know. 
  • Mercy-not getting what we deserve
  • “ Who can find a virtuous wife. For her worth is far above rubies. The heart of her husband safely trusts her; so he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil all the days of her life. She seeks wool and flax, and willingly works with her hands. She is like the merchant ships, she brings her food from afar. She also rises while it is yet night, and provides food for her household, and a portion for her maidservants. She considers a field and buys it; from her profits she plants a vineyard. She girds herself with strength, and strengthens her arms. She perceives that her merchandise is good, and her lamp does not go out by night. She stretches out her hands to the distaff, and her hand holds the spindle. She extends her hand to the poor, yes, she reaches out her hands to the needy. SheShe is not afraid of snow for her household, for all her household is clothed with scarlet. She makes tapestry for herself; her clothing is fine linen and purple. Her husband is known in the gates, when he sits among the elders of the land. She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies sashes for the merchants. Strength and honor are her clothing; she shall rejoice in time to come. She opens her mouth with wisdom, and on her tongue is the law of kindness. She watches over the ways of her household, and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: “Many daughters have done well, but you excel them all.” Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, but a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands, and let her own works praise her in the gates.
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  • 1 family members and their proper roles

    1. 2. Seminar
    2. 3. “ Children, obey your parents because you belong to the Lord, for this is the right thing to do. “Honor your father and mother.” This is the first commandment with a promise: If you honor your father and mother, “things will go well for you, and you will have a long life on the earth. Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord.”
    3. 4. <ul><li>Father’s Role </li></ul><ul><li>Mother’s Role </li></ul><ul><li>Children’s role </li></ul>
    4. 5. <ul><li>The heart of God is that of a father. </li></ul><ul><li>We will become outstanding leaders when we first become excellent fathers. </li></ul><ul><li>God wants to restore true paternity in the family through the men, by having them take back their authority as fathers, who build relationships with their children which establishes their family’s destiny. </li></ul><ul><li>A father led by God shows character qualities different from those learned in the world. </li></ul>
    5. 6. <ul><li>A Merciful Father: Luke 15:20 “And he arose and came to his father. But when he was still a great way off, his father saw him and had compassion, and ran and fell on his neck and kissed him.” </li></ul><ul><ul><li>The father was waiting for you to come home and take the place as His son. </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Mercy-compassion/forgiveness shown toward someone whom it is within one’s power to punish/harm </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>A person wanting to love others must first receive love from the Father. </li></ul></ul>
    6. 7. <ul><li>Father of Multitudes </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Genesis 17:5-6 “No longer shall your name be called Abram, but your name shall be Abraham; for I have made you a father of many nations. I will make you exceedingly fruitful; and I will make nations of you, and kings shall come from you.” </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>God was pleased by the faith of Abraham and knew that he would raise his children in the fear of God. </li></ul></ul>
    7. 8. <ul><li>A Father Who Blesses His Children </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Genesis 27:27 “And he came near and kissed him; and he smelled the smell of his clothing, and blessed him and said: “Surely, the smell of my son Is like the smell of a field which the LORD has blessed.” </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Father’s speak daily blessings over your children. </li></ul></ul>
    8. 9. <ul><li>An Exemplary Father </li></ul><ul><ul><li>1 Kings 9:4-5 “Now if you walk before Me as your father David walked, in integrity of heart and in uprightness, to do according to all that I have commanded you, and if you keep My statutes and My judgments, then I will establish the throne of your kingdom over Israel forever, as I promised David your father, saying, ‘You shall not fail to have a man on the throne of Israel.’” </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>David was known as a man after God’s own heart. </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Psalm 15 is a great description of an exemplary father. </li></ul></ul>
    9. 10. <ul><li>Psalms 15 </li></ul><ul><ul><li>(vs. 1) He was committed to the House of God </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>(vs. 2) He led a life of permanent integrity </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>(vs. 3) He never spoke evil about anyone nor accepted gossip about others </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>(vs. 4) He kept his word and never took it back </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>(vs. 5) He was transparent concerning his finances </li></ul></ul>
    10. 11. <ul><li>A Substitute Father </li></ul><ul><li>Esther 2:11 “And every day Mordecai paced in front of the court of the women’s quarters, to learn of Esther’s welfare and what was happening to her.” </li></ul><ul><ul><li>When Esther became an orphan, Mordecai, her uncle, cared for her and trained her up as his own daughter. </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Like Mordecai, you can be a substitute father to the fatherless. </li></ul></ul>
    11. 12. <ul><li>Virtuous </li></ul><ul><ul><li>(Proverbs 31: 10-31) </li></ul></ul>
    12. 13. <ul><li>Galatians 6:7-9 “Don't be misled: No one makes a fool of God. What a person plants, he will harvest. The person who plants selfishness, ignoring the needs of others—ignoring God!—harvests a crop of weeds. All he'll have to show for his life is weeds! But the one who plants in response to God, letting God's Spirit do the growth work in him, harvests a crop of real life, eternal life. So let's not allow ourselves to get fatigued doing good. At the right time we will harvest a good crop if we don't give up, or quit. ” </li></ul><ul><li>What you plant today will bring its fruit tomorrow. </li></ul>
    13. 14. <ul><li>Motivate them to be positive people </li></ul><ul><ul><li>A positive person is someone that has learned to speak the Word of God only. </li></ul></ul><ul><li>Teach them integrity </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Titus 2: 7b “ Let everything you do reflect the integrity and seriousness of your teaching.” </li></ul></ul><ul><li>Help them spiritually </li></ul><ul><li>Motivate them to have a conquering spirit </li></ul>
    14. 15. <ul><li>Help Them to Have a Balance Self Image. </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Speak words of blessing to them each day. </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Honor them for their accomplishments. </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Do not embarrass them when things don’t go as planned. </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Help them to see adversity as small steps toward making them better people. </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Help them to see that they are God’s special treasures. </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Help each one of your children to have a proper self-image. </li></ul></ul>
    15. 16. <ul><li>Help them to follow rules </li></ul><ul><ul><li>They need discipline as children. </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>If they learn structure as a child it will follow them in their adult life. </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Proverbs 22:6 “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.” </li></ul></ul><ul><li>Teach them how to relate to others </li></ul><ul><ul><li>They must learn at a young age to be able to interact with others correctly. </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Be courteous, respect elders, and communicate properly. Manners. </li></ul></ul>
    16. 17. <ul><li>Communication with your children </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Set aside time to talk </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Avoid raising your voice, blaming, making fun, or complaining </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><ul><li>Be positive, conveying faith and motivation for them. </li></ul></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Create a good atmosphere for communication </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><ul><li>Don’t allow past hurts and open wounds hinder communication. </li></ul></ul></ul>
    17. 18. <ul><li>Communication with your children (continued) </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Have recreational activities that involves all of your children together and individually. </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Keep them involved in important family decisions. (This must be done within reason.) </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Treat them like you treat your own friends. </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Make them feel like they are the most important people in your life. </li></ul></ul>
    18. 19. <ul><li>Honor Your Parents: Ephesians 6:1-3 “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother,” which is the first commandment with promise: “that it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth.” </li></ul><ul><ul><li>A person’s success depends upon how they treat their own parents; if they despise, hurt/curse them, their days will be shortened. If they bless & honor them, their days will be prolonged. </li></ul></ul>
    19. 20. <ul><ul><li>It will be well with you in all that you do. </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Your life will be prolonged. </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><ul><li>Be obedient to them (Eph. 6:1) </li></ul></ul></ul><ul><ul><ul><li>Listen to their counsel & teaching </li></ul></ul></ul><ul><ul><ul><ul><li>Proverbs 1:8 “My son, hear the instruction of your father, and do not forsake the law of your mother.” </li></ul></ul></ul></ul>
    20. 21. <ul><li>Bring joy to your parents lives. </li></ul><ul><li>Proverbs 10:1 “A wise son makes a glad father, but a foolish son is the grief of his mother.” </li></ul><ul><li>Care for them when they are old. </li></ul><ul><li>Proverbs 23:22 “Listen to your father who begot you, and do not despise your mother when she is old.” </li></ul><ul><li>Declare blessings over your parents, that their understanding will be clear and their lives will shine. </li></ul><ul><li>Proverbs 20:20 “Whoever curses his father or mother, his lamp will be put out in deep darkness. </li></ul>
    21. 22. <ul><li>God’s purpose is to establish priestly families and that each family member is to make the effort to evoke the presence of God in their homes so that God’s Spirit can keep our families in harmony. </li></ul>

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