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Effective listening

  1. 1. EFFECTIVE LISTENING
  2. 2. INTRODUCTION
  3. 3. Communication - Theory• Communication – between speaker and listener.• Speaker communicates thoughts, feelings, opinions to listener – using various media – can be verbal or non verbal messages.• Effective communication – receiver interprets and understands sender’s message as intended by the sender.
  4. 4. Sources of difficulty by Speaker.• Voice volume too low• Message complex – too many unnecessary details.• Forgetting point/ purpose of interaction.• Non verbal elements contradicting with verbal message.
  5. 5. Con’t• Paying too much attention to how the person might react .• Using unique code or unconventional method to deliver.
  6. 6. Sources of difficulty by Listener• Being preoccupied and not listening.• So interested in what you have to say – listen to find opening to get the floor.• Formulating and listening to your own rebuttal to what the speaker is saying.
  7. 7. • Listening to your own personal beliefs about what is being said.• Evaluating and making judgements about the speaker or the message.• Not asking for clarification when do not understand.
  8. 8. Basic Listening Modesa) Competitive or Combative listening. More interested in promoting our own point of view. Listen for openings to take floor, for flaws to attack. Pretend to pay attention – waiting for opening or internally formulating rebuttal.
  9. 9. Con’tb) Passive or attentive listening.Genuinely interested in hearing and understanding the other’s point of view.We are attentive and passively listen.We assume that we heard and understand correctly but stay passive and do not verify.
  10. 10. Con’tc) Active or Reflective Listening.Most useful and important listening skill.Genuinely interested in understanding what the other person is thinking and also active in checking our understandingRestate or rephrase understanding of their message and reflect it back to sender for verification.Verification process – distinguishes active listening.
  11. 11. Benefits of Active Listening1.Forces people to attentively listen to others.
  12. 12. 2. It avoids misunderstandings, as people have to confirm that they do really understand what another person has said.
  13. 13. 3. It tends to open people up, to get them to say more. Once they feel like someone is really listening to them, they are more willing to share their true feelings.
  14. 14. 4. When you listen actively, you are honoring the other person. This builds trust with them.
  15. 15. 5. We can fully understand the other persons point of view. Just knowing what a person is really thinking and where the ideas are coming from helps to better understand them.
  16. 16. LISTENING TIPS1. Usually it is important to paraphrase and use your own words in verbalizing your understanding of the message
  17. 17. 2. Depending on the purpose of the interaction and your understanding of what is relevant, you could reflect back the other persons:• Account of the facts.• Thoughts and beliefs.• Feelings and emotions.• Wants, needs or motivation.• Hopes and expectations.
  18. 18. 3. Don’t respond to just the meaning of the words, look for the feelings or intent beyond the words.
  19. 19. 4. Inhibit your impulse to immediately answer questions. The code may be in the form of a question. Sometimes people ask questions when they really want to express themselves and are not open to hearing an answer.
  20. 20. 5. Know when to quit using active listening. Once you accurately understand the sender’s message, it may be appropriate to respond with your own message. Don’t use active listening to hide and avoid revealing your own position.
  21. 21. 6. If you are confused and know you do not understand, either tell the person you don’t understand and ask him/her to say it another way, or use your best guess.
  22. 22. 7. Active listening is a very effective first response when the other person is angry, hurt or expressing difficult feelings toward you, especially in relationships that are important to you.
  23. 23. 8. Use eye contact and listening body language. Avoid looking at your watch or at other people or activities around the room. Face and lean toward the speaker and nod your head, as it is appropriate. Be careful about crossing your arms and appearing closed or critical.
  24. 24. 9. Be empathic and nonjudgmental. You can be accepting and respectful of the person and their feelings and beliefs without invalidating or giving up your own position, or without agreeing with the accuracy and validity of their view.

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