Waxman & igor emails saying they have decided in violation of the court order of joint custody to put me on supervised visits
-----Original Message-----From: Mjwaxy [mailto:email@example.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 1:42 PMTo: firstname.lastname@example.orgCc: Igor-Malenko@idexx.com; email@example.comSubject: Court OrdersDr. Handrahan:I am in receipt of your email below. You seem to have difficulty understandingIgors position, so I thought I would step in and add my two cents.Igor is the Primary Residential parent AND has ultimate decision-making authoritywith regard to issues involving Milas well-being if the two of you cannot reachagreement. He is exercising that authority to deny you any unsupervisedvisitation at all. He is taking this step because you have doggedly demonstratedthat you have no capacity to understand or implement decisions which are inMilas best interest. Your repeated false claims of abuse, your repeatedattempts to poison Mila to believe that Igor is abusing her, and yourcontinuously bringing Mila in to the hospital and to medical providers forexaminations and drug testing (including taking and freezing urine samples forlater testing), illustrate clearly that in the guise of loving and protectingyour child, you are actually abusing her emotionally and otherwise. Mila is notsafe in your care at this point.Accordingly, Igor will refuse you ANY unsupervised time with Mila. If you wouldlike to have supervised time with Mila, then Igor will be happy to arrange it, atyour expense, at Connections for Kids. If you desire unsupervised time with yourchild, then either accept service of process of our Motions, or file one of yourown, and I shall be happy to accept service of process. You can then explainyourself to Judge Moskowitz.You only seem to cite and respect the Courts Orders when you are demandingsomething. You recently took your daughter to Washington and kept her there, indirect violation of the Court Orders.Please obtain an attorney.Michael J. Waxman, Esq.One Monument Way, 2nd FloorP.O. Box 375Portland, Maine 04112-0375(207) 772-9558 phone(207) 772-9567 faxwww.waxmanlaw.usFrom: Lori Handrahan [mailto:firstname.lastname@example.org<mailto:email@example.com?> ]
Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 12:04 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; igor malenkoSubject: RE:Igor,There is currently a court-ordered schedule in place. Mila is to be with hermother every weekend but one. She has upcoming summer vacation with me.Are you telling me you have made a decision to ignore this court orderedschedule?From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com <mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com?> ]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 9:12 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: firstname.lastname@example.orgSubject: RE:You need to accept service and show up in court so we can resolve the issuespending!Just because we are a week further doesn’t mean that all the important thingsdisappeared or anything changed.Stop hiding and accept service so we can move further and depending on that wecan see what the schedule will be, whether or not you can see Mila unsupervised,how often, etc. Then we can talk about vacations and other things.You need to pay child support so we can pay Mila’s school bills. You are notpaying for over two months now-it is almost 10 weeks that you are behind.You need to make your official address and employment status known in order toproceed transparently to resolve the issues that have arisen due to your latestactions. Do not expect that I will put all of this aside and expose Mila to moreof your emotional harassment and games. Enough of that!Mila is doing well, she is happy and healthy. She has no wish to hear more of thethings you have been forcing her to hear and say, together with your ex Patrickand the Sorrento friends. She loves you but you need to stop. A vacation in DCand bunch of toys are not going to make all of that disappear or make itacceptable for her. As I said - enough is enough!We have a doctor’s visit scheduled for tomorrow for her vaccination schedule. Shemight receive her first vaccine tomorrow if everything is ok – it will be theDtaP. Mila has no vaccines and no protection to any of the infectious diseasesshe might get exposed to, certainly with you frequently taking her on an airplaneand with her being at school. I am not taking any risks when it comes to herhealth and so far you were successful in pushing this very important issue away.Mila’s health is nr.1 priority. Her well being too. Either get on board and bethe parent she needs or play your games elsewhere.
If you have interest in more information either write about that in an e-mail orcall at our home to talk to her. Again, accept service and show up in court sowe can move forward. Pay child support instead of private investigators. Showsome responsibility and stop pretending everything is ok.You are not making her life easier this way, but we will make it anyway and dowell-I will do anything for her to have a normal life. Just because you choose tobe destructive doesn’t mean we will follow you or let you pull us with you.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:email@example.com<mailto:firstname.lastname@example.org?> ]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 8:29 AMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:Igor,I see Mila’s school will be closed the 4th Week of June until 3rd Week of August.What are your plans for Mila during this summer holiday?I plan to pick Mila up this Friday at school, as per the court judgment for myweekend visit with Mila. Will you attempt to block this again?________________________________No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1890 / Virus Database: 2108/4686 - Release Date: 12/17/11-----Original Message-----From: Mjwaxy [mailto:email@example.com]Sent: Wednesday, May 11, 2011 4:24 PMTo: firstname.lastname@example.orgCc: email@example.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.com; firstname.lastname@example.org;email@example.com; firstname.lastname@example.org; Dean.Staffieri@maine.gov;email@example.comSubject: Day Care ReleaseKathy:I am Igors attorney. I need to be clear with you and Dr. Handrahan (and heradvisors) and DHHS about your ability to release Mila to Dr. Handrahan. The mostrecent Order from the Court (see attached at p. 5) indicates that Igor hasultimate decision-making authority if the parties cannot come to agreement on any"important decisions that are made involving Mila." In light of Dr. Handrahansrecent false reports to DHHS of abuse, her coaching Mila to parrot false, badthings about her father, her bringing her in for frequent, unnecessary medicalevaluations and drug testing on her urine and feces, her taking Mila out of state
and refusing to return her in violation of the Order and of state and federallaw, and refusing to disclose her location or make contact between Mila and Igorpossible, Igor firmly believes that ANY unsupervised contact between Dr.Handrahan and Mila is not only NOT in Milas best interest, but it would beharmful for Mila.Accordingly, Igor is making the decision -- as is his court-determined right --that you may not release Mila to Dr. Handrahan under any circumstances.Moreover, any contact between Mila and Dr. Handrahan at this time isunacceptable. If and when a Court Order requires it, you may turn over Mila toDr. Handrahan, but not before that time.I am sorry that you are not caught in an uncomfortable position right now. Igorfeels terrible about that. But he did not choose to be in this place, and mostimportantly, neither did Mila. I know that caring for and protecting children isyour lifes work. Will you please confirm that you received this email and thatyou will comply with Igors direction? Thank you.Michael J. Waxman, Esq.One Monument Way, 2nd FloorP.O. Box 375Portland, Maine 04112-0375(207) 772-9558 phone(207) 772-9567 faxwww.waxmanlaw.us________________________________No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1890 / Virus Database: 2108/4686 - Release Date: 12/17/11