BALANCING LIFE & CAREER By Deepak
QUESTIONNAIRE <ul><li>PUT THE FOLLOWING FIVE ANIMALS IN THE ORDER OF  YOUR  PREFERENCE </li></ul><ul><li>COW </li></ul><ul...
INTERPRETATIONS TO QUESTIONNAIRE <ul><li>COW </li></ul><ul><li>TIGER </li></ul><ul><li>SHEEP </li></ul><ul><li>HORSE </li>...
YOU HAVE TWO FORMS OF POWER <ul><li>THE FIRST FORM OF POWER </li></ul><ul><li>ACQUIRED EARLY IN CHILDHOOD </li></ul><ul><l...
TWO FORMS OF POWER <ul><li>THE SECOND FORM OF POWER </li></ul><ul><li>YOU USE SOMETIMES </li></ul><ul><li>BEEN YOURS SINCE...
FIRST:  POSITIONAL POWER <ul><li>IT IS … </li></ul><ul><li>CLOUT </li></ul><ul><li>CONTROL </li></ul><ul><li>PRESTIGE </li...
FIRST: POSITIONAL POWER <ul><li>IT IS … </li></ul><ul><li>JOB TITLE </li></ul><ul><li>RESUME </li></ul><ul><li>YOUR SPECIA...
FIRST: POSITIONAL POWER <ul><li>IT IS … </li></ul><ul><li>THE WAY OTHERS RESPECT YOU </li></ul><ul><li>YOUR SUCCESS AS A M...
FIRST: POSITIONAL POWER <ul><li>SHOWS UP CLEARLY IN YOUR WORLD. </li></ul>
FIRST: POSITIONAL POWER <ul><li>IN THE  BUSINESS  WORLD IT IS WHOM YOU KNOW, LUNCH WITH, WHERE YOU’VE BEEN, WHAT YOU DRIVE...
FIRST: POSITIONAL POWER <ul><li>POSITIONAL POWER CENTERS ON AN IMAGE … AND DOING WHATEVER IT TAKES, TO WHOMEVER, TO INCREA...
SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>IS THE ABILITY TO DEVELOP MEANINGFUL, FULFILLING RELATIONSHIPS </li></ul><ul><li>IT IS A WI...
SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>IT IS FINDING THE HELP WE NEED TO OVERCOME ANY STRAINS IN OUR MARRIAGES AND FAMILIES </li><...
SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>PERSONAL POWER IS DEVELOPED WHEN WE RECEIVE FROM OUR PARENTS AFFIRMATIONS AND DEMONSTRATION...
SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>THAT WE  BELONG  TO THEM </li></ul><ul><li>THAT AS OUR PARENTS THEY  BELIEVE  IN US </li></...
SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>C. PERSONAL POWER IS BUILT ON BONDING AND THEN ON THE DEVELOPMENT OF BOUNDARIES </li></ul><...
SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>WE CAN LEARN HOW TO MEET OUR OWN NEEDS </li></ul><ul><li>EXPRESS OUR FEELINGS ABOUT THREAT ...
SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>PERSONAL POWER COMES WHEN WE RESTORE OUR BROKEN RELATIONSHIPS TO … </li></ul><ul><li>OUR PA...
SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>AN IMPORTANT ASPECT OF PERSONAL POWER IS OUR INNER CHARACTER … </li></ul><ul><li>WHO WE ARE...
SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>WORDS WHICH REFLECT A PERSON’S STRENGTH AND VALUE </li></ul><ul><li>☺ WARMTH   ☺ SENSITIVIT...
SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>IN A MARRIAGE PERSONAL POWER IS MEETING OUR SPOUSE’S NEEDS </li></ul>
SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>A WIFE’S NEEDS </li></ul><ul><li>AFFECTION </li></ul><ul><li>CONVERSATION: </li></ul><ul><l...
SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>A HUSBAND’S NEEDS </li></ul><ul><li>SEXUAL FULFILMENT </li></ul><ul><li>COMPANIONSHIP </li>...
SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>AS A PARENT PERSONAL POWER IS GIVING OUR CHILDREN WHAT THEY NEED IN ORDER FOR THEM TO EXPER...
SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>AS PARENTS WE NEED TO GIVE OUR CHILDREN … </li></ul><ul><li>1. TIME & ATTENTION </li></ul><...
SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>AS PARENTS WE NEED TO GIVE OUR CHILDREN … </li></ul><ul><li>2. INTEGRITY </li></ul><ul><li>...
SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>AS PARENTS WE NEED TO GIVE OUR CHILDREN … </li></ul><ul><li>3. AFFIRMATION </li></ul><ul><l...
SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>AS PARENTS WE NEED TO GIVE OUR CHILDREN … </li></ul><ul><li>OPPORTUNITIES TO COMMUNICATE </...
SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>AS PARENTS WE NEED TO GIVE OUR CHILDREN … </li></ul><ul><li>A NETWORK </li></ul><ul><li>YOU...
SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>AS PARENTS WE NEED TO GIVE OUR CHILDREN … </li></ul><ul><li>A NETWORK </li></ul><ul><li>CHI...
SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>AS PARENTS WE NEED TO GIVE OUR CHILDREN … </li></ul><ul><li>A SPIRITUAL FOUNDATION </li></u...
SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>AS PARENTS WE NEED TO GIVE OUR CHILDREN … </li></ul><ul><li>A SPIRITUAL FOUNDATION </li></u...
SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>EMOTIONAL BONDING </li></ul><ul><li>EMOTIONAL BONDING TIMES ARE EXPERIENCES WE PROVIDE FOR ...
BALANCING LIFE AND CAREER <ul><li>IN PARENTING, EFFECTIVE PARENTS ARE MEN AND WOMEN WITH PERSONAL POWER, WHO BOND EMOTIONA...
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BALANCE LIFE WITH CAREER

  1. 1. BALANCING LIFE & CAREER By Deepak
  2. 2. QUESTIONNAIRE <ul><li>PUT THE FOLLOWING FIVE ANIMALS IN THE ORDER OF YOUR PREFERENCE </li></ul><ul><li>COW </li></ul><ul><li>TIGER </li></ul><ul><li>SHEEP </li></ul><ul><li>HORSE </li></ul><ul><li>PIG </li></ul>
  3. 3. INTERPRETATIONS TO QUESTIONNAIRE <ul><li>COW </li></ul><ul><li>TIGER </li></ul><ul><li>SHEEP </li></ul><ul><li>HORSE </li></ul><ul><li>PIG </li></ul><ul><li>signifies CAREER </li></ul><ul><li>signifies PRIDE </li></ul><ul><li>signifies LOVE </li></ul><ul><li>signifies FAMILY </li></ul><ul><li>signifies MONEY </li></ul>THIS WILL DEFINE YOUR PRIORITIES IN YOUR LIFE
  4. 4. YOU HAVE TWO FORMS OF POWER <ul><li>THE FIRST FORM OF POWER </li></ul><ul><li>ACQUIRED EARLY IN CHILDHOOD </li></ul><ul><li>USED FOR MOST OF YOUR LIVES </li></ul><ul><li>OBTAINED THROUGH HARD WORK </li></ul><ul><li>YOU USE IN YOUR JOBS </li></ul><ul><li>OFFERS YOU A SENSE OF SECURITY </li></ul>
  5. 5. TWO FORMS OF POWER <ul><li>THE SECOND FORM OF POWER </li></ul><ul><li>YOU USE SOMETIMES </li></ul><ul><li>BEEN YOURS SINCE BIRTH </li></ul><ul><li>PART OF YOUR INHERITANCE </li></ul><ul><li>YOUR BIRTHRIGHT </li></ul><ul><li>ROOTED IN RELATIONSHIPS - BONDING </li></ul>
  6. 6. FIRST: POSITIONAL POWER <ul><li>IT IS … </li></ul><ul><li>CLOUT </li></ul><ul><li>CONTROL </li></ul><ul><li>PRESTIGE </li></ul><ul><li>AUTHORITY </li></ul><ul><li>THAT COMES BECAUSE YOU ARE A MEDICAL DOCTOR </li></ul>
  7. 7. FIRST: POSITIONAL POWER <ul><li>IT IS … </li></ul><ul><li>JOB TITLE </li></ul><ul><li>RESUME </li></ul><ul><li>YOUR SPECIALTY </li></ul><ul><li>IT IS … </li></ul><ul><li>THE NUMBER OF ACADEMIC DEGREES YOU HAVE EARNED </li></ul>
  8. 8. FIRST: POSITIONAL POWER <ul><li>IT IS … </li></ul><ul><li>THE WAY OTHERS RESPECT YOU </li></ul><ul><li>YOUR SUCCESS AS A MEDICAL DOCTOR & THE GODLIKE WAY YOU ARE TREATED AT TIMES </li></ul>
  9. 9. FIRST: POSITIONAL POWER <ul><li>SHOWS UP CLEARLY IN YOUR WORLD. </li></ul>
  10. 10. FIRST: POSITIONAL POWER <ul><li>IN THE BUSINESS WORLD IT IS WHOM YOU KNOW, LUNCH WITH, WHERE YOU’VE BEEN, WHAT YOU DRIVE, WHERE YOU LIVE, JOB TITLE </li></ul><ul><li>AS PROFESSIONALS WE VALUE THIS POWER </li></ul>
  11. 11. FIRST: POSITIONAL POWER <ul><li>POSITIONAL POWER CENTERS ON AN IMAGE … AND DOING WHATEVER IT TAKES, TO WHOMEVER, TO INCREASE AND MAINTAIN THAT IMAGE OF EXCELLENCE OR PRESTIGE </li></ul>
  12. 12. SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>IS THE ABILITY TO DEVELOP MEANINGFUL, FULFILLING RELATIONSHIPS </li></ul><ul><li>IT IS A WILLINGNESS TO DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO STRENGTHEN OUR FAMILIES, OUR RELATIONSHIP WITH FRIENDS </li></ul>
  13. 13. SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>IT IS FINDING THE HELP WE NEED TO OVERCOME ANY STRAINS IN OUR MARRIAGES AND FAMILIES </li></ul>
  14. 14. SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>PERSONAL POWER IS DEVELOPED WHEN WE RECEIVE FROM OUR PARENTS AFFIRMATIONS AND DEMONSTRATIONS THAT WE ARE … </li></ul><ul><li>LOVABLE </li></ul><ul><li>VALUABLE </li></ul><ul><li>CAPABLE </li></ul><ul><li>FORGIVEABLE </li></ul>
  15. 15. SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>THAT WE BELONG TO THEM </li></ul><ul><li>THAT AS OUR PARENTS THEY BELIEVE IN US </li></ul><ul><li>THAT AS OUR PARENTS THEY PRAY FOR US </li></ul>
  16. 16. SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>C. PERSONAL POWER IS BUILT ON BONDING AND THEN ON THE DEVELOPMENT OF BOUNDARIES </li></ul><ul><li>GIVING US A SENSE OF SELF </li></ul><ul><li>WITH THIS SENSE OF SELF, WE ARE NO LONGER DEPENDENT ON OUR PARENT’S VIEW OF US OR THEIR REACTIONS TO US </li></ul>
  17. 17. SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>WE CAN LEARN HOW TO MEET OUR OWN NEEDS </li></ul><ul><li>EXPRESS OUR FEELINGS ABOUT THREAT OF ABANDONMENT, ABUSE OR REJECTION </li></ul><ul><li>WE DO NOT HAVE TO MANIPULATE, EXPLOIT OR POWER UP TO GET OUR NEEDS MET </li></ul>
  18. 18. SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>PERSONAL POWER COMES WHEN WE RESTORE OUR BROKEN RELATIONSHIPS TO … </li></ul><ul><li>OUR PARENTS </li></ul><ul><li>OUR GOD </li></ul><ul><li>OURSELVES </li></ul>
  19. 19. SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>AN IMPORTANT ASPECT OF PERSONAL POWER IS OUR INNER CHARACTER … </li></ul><ul><li>WHO WE ARE </li></ul>
  20. 20. SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>WORDS WHICH REFLECT A PERSON’S STRENGTH AND VALUE </li></ul><ul><li>☺ WARMTH ☺ SENSITIVITY </li></ul><ul><li>☺ DEPENDABILITY ☺ DETERMINATION </li></ul><ul><li>☺ GENUINE COMPASSION </li></ul><ul><li>☺ AFFECTION ☺ CARING </li></ul>
  21. 21. SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>IN A MARRIAGE PERSONAL POWER IS MEETING OUR SPOUSE’S NEEDS </li></ul>
  22. 22. SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>A WIFE’S NEEDS </li></ul><ul><li>AFFECTION </li></ul><ul><li>CONVERSATION: </li></ul><ul><li>(a) Information, (b) Investigation, (c) Understanding </li></ul><ul><li>TOTAL TRUST: Openness, Honesty </li></ul><ul><li>FINANCIAL SECURITY & FINANCIAL SUPPORT </li></ul><ul><li>GOOD FATHER TO THE CHILDREN </li></ul>
  23. 23. SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>A HUSBAND’S NEEDS </li></ul><ul><li>SEXUAL FULFILMENT </li></ul><ul><li>COMPANIONSHIP </li></ul><ul><li>DOMESTIC MANAGER </li></ul><ul><li>MAINTAIN HER ATTRACTIVENESS </li></ul><ul><li>AFFIRM HER HUSBAND </li></ul>
  24. 24. SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>AS A PARENT PERSONAL POWER IS GIVING OUR CHILDREN WHAT THEY NEED IN ORDER FOR THEM TO EXPERIENCE WHOLENESS AND BE EMOTIONALLY AND MENTALLY HEALTHY </li></ul>
  25. 25. SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>AS PARENTS WE NEED TO GIVE OUR CHILDREN … </li></ul><ul><li>1. TIME & ATTENTION </li></ul><ul><li>WHEN WE GIVE OUR CHILDREN TIME AND ATTENTION, IT MEANS WE ARE WILLING TO LISTEN TO THEM. </li></ul><ul><li>LISTENING IS THE LANGUAGE OF LOVE. </li></ul><ul><li>CHILDREN NEED TO FEEL IMPORTANT. </li></ul>
  26. 26. SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>AS PARENTS WE NEED TO GIVE OUR CHILDREN … </li></ul><ul><li>2. INTEGRITY </li></ul><ul><li>“ THE MAN OF INTEGRITY WALKS SECURELY” (PROVERBS 10:9) </li></ul><ul><li>CHILDREN NEED PARENTS WHO WILL BE OPEN & VULNERABLE & PROVIDE GOOD MODELS FOR LIVING </li></ul>
  27. 27. SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>AS PARENTS WE NEED TO GIVE OUR CHILDREN … </li></ul><ul><li>3. AFFIRMATION </li></ul><ul><li>“ IT TAKES 9 AFFIRMING COMMENTS TO MAKE UP FOR EACH CRITICAL COMMENT WE GIVE OUR CHILDREN” Abraham Maslow, Psychologist </li></ul><ul><li>LOOK FOR WAYS TO SHOWER OUR CHILDREN WITH PRAISE </li></ul>
  28. 28. SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>AS PARENTS WE NEED TO GIVE OUR CHILDREN … </li></ul><ul><li>OPPORTUNITIES TO COMMUNICATE </li></ul><ul><li>DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO KEEP THE COMMUNICATION LINES OPEN </li></ul><ul><li>PARENTS WHO KEEP THE COMMUNICATION LINES OPEN HELP PREVENT HEARTACHES LATER IN LIFE </li></ul>
  29. 29. SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>AS PARENTS WE NEED TO GIVE OUR CHILDREN … </li></ul><ul><li>A NETWORK </li></ul><ul><li>YOUNG PEOPLE NEED A NETWORK OF SIGNIFICANT ADULTS WHO LISTEN TO THEM, TAKE THEM SERIOUSLY & MAKE THEM FEEL THEY ARE A PART OF A CARING COMMUNITY </li></ul>
  30. 30. SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>AS PARENTS WE NEED TO GIVE OUR CHILDREN … </li></ul><ul><li>A NETWORK </li></ul><ul><li>CHILDREN SHOULD HAVE A NETWORK OF SIGNIFICANT OTHERS WHO CAN HELP THEM THROUGH THEIR, SOMETIMES, ROCKY PATH OF DEVELOPMENT </li></ul>
  31. 31. SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>AS PARENTS WE NEED TO GIVE OUR CHILDREN … </li></ul><ul><li>A SPIRITUAL FOUNDATION </li></ul><ul><li>THE MORE INVOLVED YOUNG PEOPLE ARE WITH THEIR CHRISTIAN FAITH, THE BETTER THE CHANCES THEY WOULD REFRAIN FROM DRUG ABUSE, CRIME, VIOLENCE, & SEXUAL IMMORALITY. </li></ul>
  32. 32. SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>AS PARENTS WE NEED TO GIVE OUR CHILDREN … </li></ul><ul><li>A SPIRITUAL FOUNDATION </li></ul><ul><li>PARENTS SHOULD TRY TO BUILD A SOLID SPIRITUAL FOUNDATION IN THEIR CHILDREN. NOTHING IS MORE SIGNIFICANT THAN MODELING THE DESIRED BEHAVIOUR IN OUR OWN LIFE. </li></ul>
  33. 33. SECOND: PERSONAL POWER <ul><li>EMOTIONAL BONDING </li></ul><ul><li>EMOTIONAL BONDING TIMES ARE EXPERIENCES WE PROVIDE FOR OUR SPOUSES AND CHILDREN THAT FORM THE BASIS OF POSITIVE MEMORIES. </li></ul><ul><li>SHARING MEANINGFUL EXPERIENCES IS A GREAT WAY TO INCREASE POSITIVE FAMILY FEELINGS </li></ul>
  34. 34. BALANCING LIFE AND CAREER <ul><li>IN PARENTING, EFFECTIVE PARENTS ARE MEN AND WOMEN WITH PERSONAL POWER, WHO BOND EMOTIONALLY WITH THEIR CHILDREN. </li></ul>
  35. 35. BALANCING LIFE & CAREER By Dipu

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