Listening skills

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  • happens when we are more interested in promoting our own point of view than in understanding or exploring someone else’s view. We either listen for openings to take the floor, or for flaws or weak points we can attack. As we pretend to pay attention we are impatiently waiting for an opening, or internally formulating our rebuttal and planning our devastating comeback that will destroy their argument and make us the victor.
  • we are genuinely interested in hearing and understanding the other person’s point of view. We are attentive and passively listen. We assume that we heard and understand correctly. but stay passive and do not verify it.
  • is the single most useful and important listening skill. In active listening we are also genuinely interested in understanding what the other person is thinking, feeling, wanting or what the message means, and we are active in checking out our understanding before we respond with our own new message. We restate or paraphrase our understanding of their message and reflect it back to the sender for verification. This verification or feedback process is what distinguishes active listening and makes it effective.
  • Listening skills

    1. 1. Listening and Note Taking Skills
    2. 2. <ul><li>&quot;We were given two ears but only one mouth, because listening is twice as hard as talking.&quot; </li></ul>
    3. 3. WHEN DO YOU LISTEN? Cite different situations when you listen.
    4. 4. WHEN DO YOU HEAR? Cite different situations when you hear.
    5. 5. Hearing vs Listening: What’s the Difference?
    6. 6. Hearing Listening Passive and happens even when sleeping Active and requires hearing, paying attention, and understanding
    7. 7. Listening Skills Activity <ul><li>http://fog.ccsf.edu/~lfried/activity/listeningquiz1.html </li></ul>
    8. 8. 1. Cite different difficulties you encountered while listening.
    9. 9. Three Basic Listening Modes <ul><li>1. Competitive or Combating Listening </li></ul>
    10. 10. Three Basic Listening Modes <ul><li>2. In Passive or Attentive Listening </li></ul>
    11. 11. Three Basic Listening Modes <ul><li>3. Active or Reflective Listening </li></ul>
    12. 14. Difficulties in Listening <ul><li>In Class </li></ul><ul><li>Family/Parents </li></ul><ul><li>Friends </li></ul><ul><li>Significant Others </li></ul>
    13. 15. Strategies/Tips in Listening <ul><li>In Class </li></ul><ul><li>Family/Parents </li></ul><ul><li>Friends </li></ul><ul><li>Significant Others </li></ul>
    14. 17. Be a good listener . Your ears will never get you in trouble.

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