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10 Online Dating Tips for Boomers

Online Dating Tips from author and "baby boomer honeymooner" Caryl Westmore's Amazon Kindle book "Online Dating Success Secrets for Women 40/50+ ...How to Find True Lasting Love - Attract your Love Hero - Dump the Love Villains - Like I did!

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10 Online Dating Tips for Boomers

  2. 2. Women over 40 - You can Change your Lonely Life with Online Dating Did you know…  1 in 3 Americans now meet their spouses online  Seniors 50+ are the fastest growing groups of subscribers for on-line dating (Lehman Brothers Equity Research, 2007)
  4. 4. Tip #1: Dump the Love Villains
  5. 5. How ?  Become a love detective and track back your worst dates and relationship nightmares … on a timeline  Write a most “Not-Wanted” online dating ad  Learn from your ad what you don’t want in a date or relationship
  6. 6. Love Villains – What you don’t want  You don’t want to repeat old patterns make the same choices you made in the past  or Do the inner clearing work (EFT-Matrix Reimprinting) to BREAK FREE from the negative beliefs and patterns learned in early childhood and your teens that are sabotaging you now Once you support and release that Younger You, the Adult You will miraculously heal.
  7. 7. Now compare familiar traits from these Love Villains to things you remember from …  Mother  Father  Important Care-givers  Child hood relationship models
  8. 8. Tip #2: Get Clear Forgive them – and yourself  BOOK A FREE SESSION with Goal Success Love Coach Caryl Westmore to learn how you are unconsciously attracting in Love Villains.  Resolve to get clear of resentment, anger, pain and self-sabotage keeping you lonely and victimised. 
  9. 9. You can heal your broken heart and BREAK-FREE Hint – Resentment keeps the ties alive Hint – Own the part you play in allowing Love Villains into your life!
  10. 10. AFFIRMATION I choose to treat myself with love and respect – and demand the same of Life and Love…. Love Villains be-gone!
  11. 11. Tip #3 Attract your Love Hero
  12. 12. Law of Attraction Love Secrets  Cosmic ordering – make your list of characteristics for your ideal romantic Love Hero  You will attract whatever you think about, feel and focus your attention on, whether consciously or unconsciously.  Work on yourself to become these ideal characteristics
  13. 13. Tip #4 Heal 6 Top Love Killer Beliefs These can ruin your chances of love: 1. I’m not good enough to be loved 2. I am not a success in life without the romantic love-of-my-life 3. Love is Scarce 4. Rejection is too painful and must be avoided at all costs 5. Failure means I wasted my love on him (and should give up) 6. I’m too old/fat/poor to attract love midlife
  14. 14. Tip #5 Pinpoint what you do want  Make a list of Wants and not-wants in a partner  Re-frame and raise your expectations  Create a great love future in your heart  Picture this future with him already in your life  Create your Love Treasure Map.
  15. 15. Tip #6 Build a Winning Profile Before writing your Profile…  Prepare by doing a round of EFT Tapping  Tap in positive empowering words and feelings to boost your self confidence and feelings of self-worth  Have a winning picture  Wow them in 20 seconds! Be brief enough to pique interest. It’s been proven that men look at photos first and then skim the information in your profile.
  16. 16. Tip #7 Choose a PAID Online Dating Site You may think it’s best to try a free online dating site first – after all, you’ve got nothing to lose, right? Wrong! Paid subscription sites are less likely to have creepy or dishonest users. Go with a tried-and-tested site and pay at least one months’ subscription. Later you can consider a 3 or 6 month investment, which will reduce your monthly subscription.
  17. 17. Tip #8 Expect a Downside but stay Focused  It’s a numbers game - Don’t expect to be successful 100% of the time. You win some…you lose some (or many)  Never give up - Your longing is there for a reason and you must keep going  Don’t take ‘No’ or rejection personally;  Move on - Don’t ask yourself what you did wrong or how you could have done it differently.
  18. 18. Tip #9 Commitment Experts say you need a minimum of three ingredients to make a relationship work in the long-term … 1. Chemistry, 2. Compatibility 3. Commitment So spot the warning signs of the man who is a “Commitment-Phobe” and stay far away! But make sure it’s not YOU who is scared to commit and thus putting out bad vibes!
  19. 19. Tip #10: Checklist for a serious relationship Look for…  Commitment to personal growth  Commitment to me, and our relationship  Emotional openness and communication  Integrity  Maturity and financial stability  High self esteem  Positive attitude towards life  Good sexual chemistry  Harmonious soul mate vibe
  20. 20. A Happy Ending Boomers Caryl & Nick Westmore met online and married in 2007 Let Caryl help you attract YOUR LOVE HERO Free Attract True Love and your Soul Mate coaching session (value $200) on Skype: