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Arvind Rai
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IntroductionIntroduction
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Importance of ListeningImportance of Listening
 We spend up to 80% of our conscious hoursWe spend up to 80% of our conscious hours
using four basic communication skills.using four basic communication skills.
 WritingWriting
 ReadingReading
 Speaking andSpeaking and
 ListeningListening
 Listening accounts for more than 50% of ourListening accounts for more than 50% of our
time !time !
 40% of our walking time is just listening !40% of our walking time is just listening !
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• We listen in spurts.
• We can’t concentrate for more than sixty seconds at a time. Our
attention lags, then we concentrate again.
• Ask yourself what speed of speech you’re capable of listening
to ?
• We can hear from 50 to 300 w.p.m.
• In reality, we are capable of listening at the phenomenal speed
of 750 to 1200 w.p.m. !
• Then why don’t we hear what people tell us ?
• Because we’re bored – that’s why ?
• There’s not enough to keep our brain occupied when people
speak at normal speeds.
• So what happens ?
Listening FactsListening Facts
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• We all go on side-trips where we may :
•Start finding examples of something the person’s discussing ;
• Wonder why our spouse was in such a bad mood that morning ;
• Admire something someone is wearing and wonder where they
bought it ;
• Wonder if it’s time for coffee break.
• Radio and Television have turned most of us into lazy listeners.
• It takes practice and concentration to stay ‘tuned in’ to what’s
being said.
• There are several ‘problem listeners’ that we all have to deal with.
Here are few.
Listening FactsListening Facts
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Handling Poor ListenersHandling Poor Listeners
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Listening skills

  • 3. 3 Importance of ListeningImportance of Listening  We spend up to 80% of our conscious hoursWe spend up to 80% of our conscious hours using four basic communication skills.using four basic communication skills.  WritingWriting  ReadingReading  Speaking andSpeaking and  ListeningListening  Listening accounts for more than 50% of ourListening accounts for more than 50% of our time !time !  40% of our walking time is just listening !40% of our walking time is just listening !
  • 4. 4 • We listen in spurts. • We can’t concentrate for more than sixty seconds at a time. Our attention lags, then we concentrate again. • Ask yourself what speed of speech you’re capable of listening to ? • We can hear from 50 to 300 w.p.m. • In reality, we are capable of listening at the phenomenal speed of 750 to 1200 w.p.m. ! • Then why don’t we hear what people tell us ? • Because we’re bored – that’s why ? • There’s not enough to keep our brain occupied when people speak at normal speeds. • So what happens ? Listening FactsListening Facts
  • 5. 5 • We all go on side-trips where we may : •Start finding examples of something the person’s discussing ; • Wonder why our spouse was in such a bad mood that morning ; • Admire something someone is wearing and wonder where they bought it ; • Wonder if it’s time for coffee break. • Radio and Television have turned most of us into lazy listeners. • It takes practice and concentration to stay ‘tuned in’ to what’s being said. • There are several ‘problem listeners’ that we all have to deal with. Here are few. Listening FactsListening Facts
  • 7. 7 Bashful People : Because shy people expect others to draw them out, they place emotional demands on everyone they’re with. If they don’t receive this attention, they tune out. Most shy people aren’t aware of this negative behaviour, nor of the demands it places on others around them. •Anxious People : Because they lack confidence, they are nervous chatterers. They worry about what they’re going to say next, which leaves little room for listening others. Types of Poor ListenersTypes of Poor Listeners
  • 8. 8 •Argumentative people : They’d argue with Einstein about his theory of relativity ! They nit-pick small details, which break conversational flow. • Opinionated people : They spend their energy formulating arguments, rather than listening to others. They interrupt and begin every other sentence with ‘but….’. These people may be overly anxious to impress others, but they often produce the opposite effect. People ‘tune them out.’. • Closed minded people : The most infuriating of bad listeners : they have rigid sets of values and find security in their prejudices. Any new ideas or changes leave them feeling threatened. Types of Poor ListenersTypes of Poor Listeners
  • 9. 9 • When faced with these poor listeners, use feedback to explain how you feel. Use of tact and empathy will assist you in helping them to become better listeners. • Explain to closed-minded people that they’ve literally shut you out that their unwillingness to listen to your ideas makes you feel rejected and unimportant. • If you explain this, and the person continues to behave the same way, you can : Put up with it or (b) Use feedback steps • Most poor listeners aren’t aware of their failing. Your feedback may be helpful in changing their attitude and behaviour. How to Combat Poor ListenersHow to Combat Poor Listeners
  • 10. 10 * Among the wide range of human types, there are always a few people who are more difficult to deal with than others. A very difficult person isn’t just someone who is having a bad day or with whom you have a personality conflict. A very difficult person is difficult often with most people. * You can use feedback effectively in dealing with such people. However, because the risks are greater that your attempt will backfire, you need to prepare extra carefully before you approach them. * Thorough advance preparation is especially valuable when you’re having problems with those in a position of power, such as your Supervisor, a boss, a parent or an older person. Then What is FeedbackThen What is Feedback
  • 11. 11 1. Determine the problem : Identify the specific behaviour that’s Unacceptable, who is affected by the behaviour, and how frequently it occurs. Concentrate on behaviour the person can do something about. If the problem occurs only with one person, it’s most likely a personality conflict rather than difficult behaviour. 2. Examine relationships : Clues to the possible causes of the negative behaviour will be found by examining how the difficult person interacts with others. Determining why the behaviour occurs and why it’s annoying you will help find solutions. Steps in FeedbackSteps in Feedback
  • 12. 12 3. Determine the cost of the problem behaviour : Whether it’s a lost productivity, general discomfort or lower morale, difficult behaviour always carries a cost. The behaviour should be ignored if you can’t determine any costs. 4. Prepare for the confrontation : Should you have determined the costs are too high, it’s now time to speak to the offender. What special concerns do you have about the problem ? What difficulties might you experience in the discussion ? How will you handle these problems ? Be ready for most situations you may face. Determine what you want to accomplish, then set up a meeting where you’ll have privacy and enough time to discuss the situation. Steps in FeedbackSteps in Feedback
  • 13. 13 5. Rehearse thoroughly : Rehearse the trying situation before hand with a friend. Your friend should have as much knowledge of the situation as possible. This way, he or she can formulate good arguments and be able to anticipate what the other person’s objec- tions or reactions might be. The adage that practice make perfect works here. Remember that the person you’re eventually going to deal with has not had the opportunity to practice. 6. Find a solution : In a non-accusatory manner, explain why it concerns you. Give specific facts. Try not to offer your opinion as understanding. Identify the change in behaviour you’re seeking. Be open to changing your solution, if it’s inappropriate. Listen to the person’s ideas about how he or she can solve the problem. Express confidence in the person’s ability to change. Steps in FeedbackSteps in Feedback
  • 14. 14 7. Agree on a plan of action : Work towards a solution acceptable to both parties. 8. Obtain a commitment : Get agreement on specific actions the person will take, and set a deadline for these actions. Ask the person to confirm that he or she will do what’s been agreed upon. 9. Follow up with the person : Recognise and comment on any progress you’ve observed. Re-evaluate the action plan and revise it if necessary. If there’s been no change, repeat the process. Steps in FeedbackSteps in Feedback
  • 15. 15 One solution may be to make the best of a bad situation. You can minimise the damage caused by the difficult behaviour by :  Remaining calm. Don’t argue with the person or make accusations.  Using your listening skills to check your understanding  Being firm – Decide in advance what behaviour you will or will not accept, and don’t let yourself be pushed beyond this limit.  Being persistent and consistent in your response, which conveys to the difficult person that you mean what you say.  Believing in yourself and your ability to deal with others.  Looking for ways to lessen your exposure to the behaviour, or to reduce the causes of the behaviour. Coping StrategyCoping Strategy
  • 17. 17 There are other things that can lead you astray when listening. Ask yourself which ones are problems for you. • You had trouble understanding the speaker’s words or lacked the knowledge to grasp the message. (The speaker was using unfamiliar language, jargon or technical terms.) • You were thinking of what you were going to say while the speaker was talking. • You were preoccupied with how strongly you disagreed with the speaker’s views. Blocks to Effective ListeningBlocks to Effective Listening
  • 18. 18 • You listened for what you wanted to hear. • You were too tired mentally to work at paying attention. • There were outside noises and distractions. • The speaker had poor delivery – slow, windy, irrelevant, rambling or repetitious. • Something the speaker said intrigued you, you thought about it, and when you tuned back in, you’d lost the thread. • The speaker had an accent that you found difficult to understand. • You tuned out because you thought you knew what the speaker’s conclusions were going to be. • You forgot to use paraphrasing and feedback in listening effectively. • You felt you were being given far too much information. Blocks to Effective ListeningBlocks to Effective Listening
  • 19. 19 1. You must care enough to want to improve. Without this motivation it’ll be too much effort. 2. Try to find an uninterrupted area in which to converse. Keeping your train of thought is difficult when there are obstructions to concentration. 3. Try not to anticipate what the other person will say. 4. Be mindful of your own biases and prejudices, so they don’t unduly influence your listening. 5. Pay careful attention to what’s being said. Don’t stop listening in in order to plan a rebuttal to a particular point. 6. Be aware of ‘red flag’ words that might trigger an over-reaction or a stereotyped reaction. Examples of this are ‘women’s libber’ or or ‘male chauvinist’ How to Improve YourHow to Improve Your Listening SkillsListening Skills
  • 20. 20 7. Don’t allow yourself to get too far ahead of the speaker by trying to understand things too soon. 8. At intervals, try to paraphrase what people have been saying. Give them the opportunity to learn what you think you’ve heard them say. 9. When you have difficulty determining the point of the speaker’s remarks, say, ‘Why are you telling me this?’ 10. Watch for key or buzz words if you find you’ve lost the train of the conversation. This happens particularly when the speaker is long-winded or has a tendency to ramble. 11. Don’t interrupt to demand clarification of insignificant or irrelevant details. How to Improve YourHow to Improve Your Listening SkillsListening Skills