The biggest reasons so many agile transformations fail have reported to be lack of management support and general resistance to change. In my talk I describe the 3 underlining beliefs that cause resistance to change and lack of management support for agile transformations. These paradigms are fundamentally incompatible with the agile way of working. Trying to transform or change an organization where these beliefs are prevalent will fail. How to change these beliefs? Answering that question is the second part of my talk. I will describe my experiments to help people unlearn these beliefs and share what I have found to work to support this kind of change in mindset and culture. My talk will help people in any knowledge work organisation who want to change their organisation into more agile mindset and ways of working.