Self Deception and Self Discipline by Depe

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Self Deception and Self Discipline by Depe

  1. 1. @agatestudio Self Discipline Depe Clerics Agate Studio
  2. 2. Self deception and self discipline TDS Mei 2014 Aditia Dwiperdana
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  4. 4. Self discipline The ability to do what you need to do when you need to do it.
  5. 5. Self-betrayal • An act contrary to what I feel I should do for another is called an act of “self betrayal”.
  6. 6. Self-betrayal • An act contrary to what I feel I should do for another is called an act of “self betrayal”. • When I betray myself, I begin to see the world in a way that justifies my self-betrayal.
  7. 7. Self-betrayal • An act contrary to what I feel I should do for another is called an act of “self betrayal”. • When I betray myself, I begin to see the world in a way that justifies my self-betrayal. • When I see a self-justifying world, my view of reality becomes distorted.
  8. 8. Self-betrayal • An act contrary to what I feel I should do for another is called an act of “self betrayal”. • When I betray myself, I begin to see the world in a way that justifies my self-betrayal. • When I see a self-justifying world, my view of reality becomes distorted. • When I betray myself, I enter ‘the box’.
  9. 9. In the box: Below the line Ownership Accountability Responsibility Blame Excuses Denial
  10. 10. Self betrayal • Over time, certain boxes become characteristic of me, and I carry them with me
  11. 11. Self betrayal • Over time, certain boxes become characteristic of me, and I carry them with me • By being in the box, I provoke others to be in the box
  12. 12. Self betrayal • Over time, certain boxes become characteristic of me, and I carry them with me • By being in the box, I provoke others to be in the box • In the box, we invite mutual mistreatment and obtain mutual justification. We collude in giving each other reason to stay in the box.
  13. 13. What doesn’t work in ‘the box’ • Trying to change others • Doing my best to ‘cope’ with others • Leaving • Communicating • Implementing new skills or techniques • Changing my behavior
  14. 14. To get out of the box We get out of the box when we cease to resist other, liberate our self-justifying thoughts and feelings.
  15. 15. Out of the box: Above the line Ownership Accountability Responsibility Blame Excuses Denial
  16. 16. Self discipline Stay true to yourself. Know what you want to do. Do it.

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