Time Tested Dating Secrets


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Time Tested Dating Secrets

  1. 1. "Now You Can Finally Learn The Truth And Time-Tested Secrets Behind Internet Dating That Helps Ordinary People Find Miss Or Mister Right...  The Primer  Honesty Really is the Best Policy  Ask the Right Questions First  Popular Online Dating Activities  More Popular Online Dating Activities  Growing Online Dating Relationships  Online Dating Safety 1 Copyright 2010 - M.J. Topper - All rights reserved
  2. 2. The Primer No matter what your age, height, weight or physical appearance, there are thousands of men/women out there eager to meet you and eager for your company…whether short-term or long-term relationships are what you want. If you have found yourself suddenly “on-the-market” again after a relationship has dissolved or are just too busy with your work to spend a lot of time looking for a lady to keep you company, online dating can open the door to the dating scene for you. Girls - Heres a foolproof plan on How to Find and Marry the Man of Your Dreams! The good news is that all you need is a computer and an Internet connection to get started. The first thing to do is find an online dating site that fits your needs. There are the large sites that offer many extras like live video chat and even match you up with people using your profiles and, also, a lot of sites that cater to special interests like religious preferences, outdoor enthusiasts, gays, etc. You need to choose one or two that will meet your needs. I don’t recommend the free sites. The paid sites have a money back guarantee if you aren’t satisfied and the investment is small. A whole month costs less than one dinner and movie date. Some of the more popular online dating services are:  eHarmony  FriendFinder  PerfectMatch The next thing you need to do is write a killer, but honest, profile and upload a recent but flattering picture of yourself. Now you are all set. Start contacting ladies/Gentlemen whose profiles sound interesting to you and answer anyone who contacts you…and do so promptly…not, however, on holidays or weekends. You don’t want to appear that desperate. Don’t give up after a month and think you will never find the right person for you. New people join online dating services daily and many will want to meet you. 2
  3. 3. Honesty Really is the Best Policy When you join an online dating service look for a person that you can like…even come to love. What you aren’t looking for is a personl who would like your best friend or your idea of what the perfect guy/girl looks like or talks like or thinks like. So, in order to find the right guy or girl for you…and he/she IS out there… you need to be completely honest with yourself about yourself when writing the online profile, during the dating process and beyond. Girls - Would you like to know How to Make Yourself Irresistible to Any Guy? The best way to begin writing your profile is to carefully analyze your past relationship (s). What was right? What was wrong? What things really made you like the last guy/girl? Which didn’t? Don’t assume that just because you hated that your last guy/girl was so totally self-involved that they couldn’t see anything else, you’ll be able to overlook that quality this time. You won’t. If you are a bartender, don’t claim to be a lawyer with a six-figure income. If you are 40 going on 50, don’t pretend to be 30 something. Guys - Would you like to knowThe Secret of How to Approach any Woman and know exactly what to say to get her go on a date with you? Remember that the idea here is to find a person who will like you exactly like you are. If you have lied in your profile, the first face-to-face meeting will remove all doubt that you are a liar…and probably a cheat, as well. Lastly, once you have found a person that you believe can be the one for you, for goodness sakes, cancel your membership to the online dating service. After all, you know and they know that online dating services are intended for those who are looking…not those who have found or been found. 3
  4. 4. Ask the Right Questions First OK. You have joined a couple of dating services and written a killer profile. You’ve uploaded a good picture and now you are going to chat with a contact. What now? How do you start separating those who have real potential and those who don’t have any potential at all? You need to find out who this strange person really is and not just whom they want you to believe they are. It would be nice if they wore labels like “Mama's Boy” or “Daddy’s girl”…. But they don’t so it’s up to you to find these things out and you can’t just ask direct questions. You need to know what mistakes you can avoid making and how to impress this lady or gent if you decide you want to do that. After you are past the initial small talk, ask them, “What are the biggest mistakes guys/girls make when dating online?” Listen carefully to the answers. They are going to tell you a lot about herself and her views on the opposite sex in general. Guys - Find out The Secrets of 'Magnetically' Attracting Women to You without ever chasing them down and without ever having to approach them! Next you should ask them, “What do you really think about online dating?” Now they will tell you if they had any bad experiences dating online and help you to avoid making the same things wrong. Now for the all-important one…..”What caused the break up in your last relationship?” If they put all the blame on the other person, you should probably move on to the next prospect. If they take all the blame themselves, you should probably do the same. If they say the breakup was by mutual consent or that the relationship just wasn’t right for either of them, you’ve heard the right answer. Move forward but always with caution. Asking the right questions will give you insight and make you more confident when you meet a person for the first time. Girls - Before you call your guy, Read This!!! 4
  5. 5. Popular Online Dating Activities All types of everyday activities are growing in popularity online these days like sharing photos and greeting cards. In fact, both of these even go hand in hand with online dating opportunities, one of the most popular online activities for singles today. Guys - Find out Amazing Secrets that Feminist Groups Want Banned!!! Before actually meeting in person, many dates get acquainted online first. Here’s how: Photos - As a wonderful keepsake of your budding romance, create an online photo album for your new cyber-mate. Include digital photos of favorite outdoor scenes, pets, flowers, cars, silly moments, your computer corner or laptop, etc. Then you’ll even have more to discuss during online dates via emails and chat rooms. Search for “photo albums” to find places that store your photos. Greeting Cards- Regardless of where the person lives, you can mail a greeting card. If privacy and security is an issue, check into renting an inexpensive P.O. Box (check the Yellow Pages). You do not have to be an artist to make something homemade and special for the new friend in your life. Even making a special, personalized greeting card would be appreciated and show your date that you care enough to take the time needed to make something by hand. Search your favorite search engine for online greeting cards to send, too. They range from free to low cost and can be sent in a click. So get online and get active! No need to risk meeting in person until you get more familiar with each other online first. So take the online plunge! Girls - Learn How to Captivate a Man, Make Him Fall in Love with You -- and Give You the World! 5
  6. 6. More Popular Online Dating Activities A couple of popular online activities are sharing recipes and bidding at auctions. And both of these easily fit well into online dating opportunities, one of the most popular online activities for singles today. To help many dates get better acquainted online, here’s what potential cyber-dates do:  Sharing Recipes – People get tired talking about the weather. So a popular subject to turn to is food. Sharing favorite foods and recipes helps break the ice and even forms friendships over culinary skills – or lack of – and tastes. Search your favorite search engine for “free recipes” to share. Take photos of your culinary creations and share them with your date, too.  Bidding at Auctions – Ebay auctions sell nearly anything and everything! So surf around and enter searches like the dates you were in middle school. Share cool memorabilia photos of old games and toys from when you were a child or when your parents or grandparents were little; The Dating Game, Oscar Mayer wiener whistles, The Partridge Family Album, Bobby Sherman’s Album, 45’s and more. Online dating can be an educational and fun experience. So learn more about each other and have fun while you’re at it. Take a cyber-stroll down memory lane together and see what’s cookin’. Guys/Girls - Can you name 300 of The World's Most Romantic, Unique and Fun Dating Ideas? 6
  7. 7. Online Dating Safety Online dating can be a fun and certainly a rewarding experience but maintaining your safety while doing it is simply a combination of using common sense and exercising good judgment. Online safety rules are the same as real world safety rules. Girls - Discover How To Flirt, and have the most “wicked” (but innocent) fun with any guy on the planet. You wouldn’t give your name, address and phone number to a strange person that you met in a bar or on the street so you should never do that online either. Play it safe. Get to know this person who could turn out to be Prince Charming or Miss Right before you give out any information that could make it possible for him or others to trace you. Don’t tell a stranger exactly where you work. Say that you work for a mid-sized law firm...not that you work for Brown, Smith and Jones Attorneys-at-law. It is safe to tell them what city you live in but you should wait to be any more specific than that until you have been chatting and exchanging emails for awhile. Use only the tools provided by the dating service you belong to. Most offer chat and private email on their site. Do not give out your isp email address. If you must give out an email address make it a free one such as Hotmail or Yahoo. Your isp address is traceable for anyone who wants to go to the trouble. When the time comes for you to have your first face-to-face, make that first meeting in a public place and during day light hours. Take a friend with you or arrange for one to call you on your cell soon after the arranged meeting. Remember…you ARE in control so do not let anyone pressure you into revealing more personal information than you are comfortable with revealing. Guys - Take the FREE Meet Women Crash Course And Discover the 7-Phase Formula For Dating Success! 7