“Harboring resentment wastes time and robs your energy.” Holding grudges against another takes a tremendous amount of energy and slowly erodes your happiness. If you think about it, it’s also a waste of time.You have so many better things to do with your life.
When you allow your negative emotions to affect your daily thoughts and actions, you become controlled by them.T a check of the resentment you hold against akeyour loved ones, your co-workers or even your neighbor.
Try to overcome your resentment by letting your considerate and loving nature dominate thoughts and actions. You can choose how to live your life. Freeyourself from resentment and you will regain allof your energy. Try it. You’ll feel great when you do!
Allahs Apostle said, "It is not lawful for a man todesert his brother Muslim for more than three nights.(It is unlawful for them that) when they meet, one of them turns his face away from the other, and theother turns his face from the former, and the betterof the two will be the one who greets the other ﬁrst." Narrated Abu Aiyub Al-Ansari Sahih Bukhari Volume 8, Book 73, Number 100