Tausogcourtship final

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Tausogcourtship final

  1. 2. >The ideal is that courtship ( pagmaya-maya , literally flirting or "fooling around") is improper, inevitably leading to premarital sex, and that only a total prohibition of any contact between unmarried persons of the opposite sex can prevent the normal human tendency to engage in sexual relations if given the opportunity.
  2. 3. <ul><li>Traditional </li></ul><ul><li>a guy must talk to his parents and tell them to whom he wants to marry. </li></ul><ul><li>Parents of the girl will decide who will be her husband whether she like it or not. </li></ul><ul><li>Modern </li></ul><ul><li>A tausug guy can court someone but be sure that the guy must not touch the girl. </li></ul><ul><li>It is prohibited to have a relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend unless it's a fixed marriage agreed by both parents. </li></ul>
  3. 4. <ul><li>Traditional </li></ul><ul><li>it must be an agreement of both parents. </li></ul><ul><li>They will ask for a down payment or sometimes they’ll asked for a diamond. </li></ul><ul><li>The family of the girl must decide the value of the dowry. </li></ul><ul><li>Modern </li></ul><ul><li>According to Qur’ an touching a girl is prohibited unless you are already married. </li></ul><ul><li>It is ashamed to see someone to have an affair but not yet married. </li></ul>
  4. 5. <ul><li>Traditional </li></ul><ul><li>Courtship is “haram” the guy must talk straight and ask the girl to marry in front of their parents. </li></ul><ul><li>Arranged marriage by parents. </li></ul><ul><li>Modern </li></ul><ul><li>It is okay to be together as long as the guy won't touch the girl. </li></ul><ul><li>It is prohibited to both of you to watch movie in the movie house or “cinehan” you must be in a group. </li></ul>
  5. 6. <ul><li>Traditional </li></ul><ul><li>there’s no such thing courting a girl before, the guy must go direct to the girl’s house and have an agreement with the family of the girl. </li></ul><ul><li>Courting must be accompanied by proposal. </li></ul><ul><li>There’s a three session the guy must do: </li></ul><ul><li>1 st session- the guy must visit the family of the girl and tell his purpose. The guy must bring with him an “ustads”- a representative, who is familiar with the Islam Law. </li></ul>
  6. 7. <ul><li>2 nd session - the representative of each clan will make an agreement about the value of the dowry and will set a date for their wedding. </li></ul><ul><li>3 rd session - will be the wedding. </li></ul>
  7. 8. <ul><li>Traditional </li></ul><ul><li>Fixed marriage. </li></ul><ul><li>Same as the others but the relationship will be secret and just keep it within themselves. </li></ul><ul><li>The guy must give the demands or requests by the girl's parents. </li></ul>
  8. 9. >There is no publicly recognized courtship between unamarried young people; ideally marriages are arranged by parents.
  9. 10. >it is SHAMEFUL for a young man and woman to be caught together; or for a girl merely to be touched by a man. >shame or “sipug” in tausug
  10. 11. A young man cannot- and in practice does not- publicly confront an unmarried girl. His knowledge of her must be indirect, based upon reputation parental background, and external appearance and demeanor.
  11. 12. PREPARED BY: FAMINDALAN, ZENEF MANDAC ,PATRICK JAY LIT 101- C

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