About No one needs anything. It's all about want
I'd try this :a mixture of inconsistency,passion,tenderness,confusion,curiosity,righteousness ,spontaneity,care,open-mindness(I don't think this is a word ,et alors ?)rationalism plus emotionalism.
Things turn me off:possessiveness, chauvinism,selfishness,show-offs ,arrogance, superficiality and people who stop learning.
What I appreciate :an intellectual partner who can keep a conversation, and with whom I can communicate;Dark chocolate,a cozy raining afternoon with Lays and tea reading books on bed,and hearing "I love you " said with real intent;a wake up call and good night kiss.