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    • How And Where To Meet Eligible MenSo youre a woman looking for a man... First off, you have to "know" what kindof man youre looking for, and then go wherever it is youll most likely find thatkind of man...What kind of man are you looking for? Its a new world we live in, and believeit or not, you can find whatever kind of man it is you want! If youre looking fora husband, a meal ticket, a sugar-daddy, a lover, a father, or a companion -theres a man out there for you. The problem is, of course, to find the man thathas enough of "all the things you want in a man" to satisfy you.There are lots of eligible men available, and with just a little bit of intelligence,theres no honest reason why any woman wanting a man cannot find the manof her choice. The thing is, as mentioned already - youve got to know whatkind of man you want, and where youll most likely find him - and then, reachfor him.Men are just like women - they want a woman they can belong to, and calltheir own. People have to interact with other people in order to maintain ahealthy equilibrium; and men have to interact with women on a personal basisin order to go on living. These are undeniable facts relative to the nature ofhuman beings.Most men have the same kind of shyness, inhibitions, and fears of rejectionthat women have - the only difference being that the male of our species hasbeen trying to cope with these feelings in regards to meeting women, a lotlonger than women have in regard to meeting men. But its a new world -theres a lot more women out looking for men - and a lot of men seem to becaught up in their own problems, and unaware of the eligible women aroundthat might like to become acquainted with them.Thus, its now necessary for a woman to make the first move whenshe spots a man that interests her and he doesnt make that first move.What were saying is simply this: Nowadays, whenever and wherever you spota man that youd like to get to know, and for whatever reasons, he doesntseem to notice you, for sure, you should make that first move towardsbecoming acquainted. Say youre at a dance and you spot a man thatinterests you, by all means dont be hesitant to walk over and ask him if hedlike to dance with you. Or should you be having coffee somewhere and youspot a special man, simply tell him that you dont like beingalone and would he like to join you.
    • Really, theres honestly nothing out-of-line or brazen about spotting a manthat interests you, walking up to him, and telling him you find him appealingenough that youd like to find out more about him. Most men will be flatteredby your attentions, and if they are the kind of man you "sized" them up to be,theyll appreciate your breaking the ice for them. Oneother thing to understand - women are almost always "looking for" men whilemost men are where they are, doing what they are doing, for any one of amillion different reasons.In essence, you meet eligible men by frequenting the places youre most-likelyto find the kind of man you want to meet. You have to make yourselfavailable. Then too, if you spot a man you think might be one that youd like toget to know better and he doesnt make the first move towards the two of youbecoming acquainted, you should make that first move.Its as simple as that. In most instances, the same fear and shyness - maybeeven embarrassment - youre feeling, is haunting the man, and unless one ofyou makes that first move, another opportunity will have slipped through yourfingers. Dont be afraid to walk right up to a man and tell him: You look asthough youre all alone - do you want to talk for a minute or two...We know of some women looking for men, perhaps because of aninability to just walk up to a man and start talking or maybe just because theyhave a flair for innovative approaches to the idea, have had business cardsprinted up, and hand them out to the men they see that look interesting tothem. The wording on the one that most appealed to us was as follows: Hellothere... Please forgive my intrusion, but you strike me as someone I shouldknow. My name is Mary Anderson, and if youve got a spare minute or two,you might give me a call at 123-4567...Youve got to have it firmly in your mind, the kind of man you want to meet.Then youve got to make yourself available in the kind of places that kind ofman is most-likely to frequent.Most assuredly, when you search for such a man, you should look,dress, and act according to what you feel will most appeal to that type of man.All men notice a woman who looks good, so you should do whatever isnecessary to bring out your best features - a little make-up in the right places,a new hairstyle, a few figure-flattering clothes - and the kind of conduct thatyou feel will appeal to your kind of man.
    • Now then, the easiest and surest way of meeting eligible men is through thesocial activities of your local "singles" club such as Parents Without Partners,Singles International, and Servetus. Most such groups sponsor regulardances, dinner parties, rap sessions, and any number of other activitiesdesigned to bring divorced and/or single people together.Lonely Hearts Correspondence Clubs are okay, but then.. meetingsomeone via correspondence, and learning to love them as resultof what they write in their letters to you, is sometimes disappointing and ahard situation to get out of when you finally do meet them face-to-face.Most of the Date-A-Mate services are okay, particularly those that employvideo tape interviews, but the prices you pay for their introductions are beyondreason. Generally, the success rate of these services - that of matching youwith a man that you end marrying, and staying married to him - is less than10-percent. Some of them are just glorified "dating or escort" services.Attending church in search of an eligible man sometimes worksout, especially if the church sponsors dances, parties and groupoutings. However, theres not as many eligible men going tochurch in search of eligible women these days as there used tobe.If you have an outgoing personality and enjoy the whole scene, you cangenerally find lots of eligible men in the bars and taverns. The thing is, youhave to "find" the bars or taverns that are frequented by the age group andkind of men that meet your needs.Youll find a lot of "more financially secure" men in the better "motor inn" andhotel bars. About all you have to do is drop by and join in all the action whentheres a convention or gathering of people from out of town in one of theseplaces. Its then that youll find many of the "local eligibles" out onthe town, plus of course a lot of men from out of town who are looking forwomen. In this kind of situation, most of the man will make the first move andonce you become acquainted, they wont be in any big hurry to make any realcommitments.To find the action - where theres sure to be lots of eligible men - look in yourlocal newspaper... Look for advertisements announcing square dances,neighborhood picnics, travel tours, and of course, festivals or similar specialevents. When you go to one of these activities, youve got to mingle with thepeople there, keep your eyes open for a man that may be the one youre
    • looking for, and then - do your thing to become acquainted with him. Onceyou spot a man youd like to become acquainted with,its basically all up to you whether you do or dont.Another one of the surest places of meeting eligible men is in the eveningclasses at your local colleges. If youre not familiar with their services, justgive the college office a call and ask them to put you on their mailing list forbulletins and notices of up-coming classes being offered.Most colleges are now offering any number of seminars, classes and evenshort courses designed to help people rebuilding their lives after a divorce.These classes are always well-attended, and those that attend are eligible.One of the best ways of meeting new friends while improving yourself.Finally, and by all means, enlist the help of your friend and co-workers inhelping you to meet new men. Tell them youll be happy to come to theirparties if theyll invite some of the eligible men they or their friends know. Andthen, you should have few parties, invite your friends and ask them to bringalong or invite some of their unattached male friends.Work is generally an easy place to become acquainted with eligible men, butthere are any number of risks involved – such as those that are alreadymarried. The important thing is to make your self available - know what kind ofman you want – and then do what is necessary to meet him.Source: www.DateGetLaid.info Real Dating, Real Fun!