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    1. INTPs in Relationship E.J. Walton [email_address]
    2. The INTP Alone
    3. INTP
    4. Question What happens when two INTPs go walking?
    5. Two INTPs Walking
    6. Answer – Part One Nothing very concrete…
    7. Answer – Part Two …until one gets frustrated and the shadow emerges
    8. Our EFSJ Shadow
    9. Two INTPs Walking After One Shadow Emerges
    10. The dynamic begins to shift One is attacking and the other is still unaware of what’s going on during this simple walk
    11. Now Two Shadows Battle
    12. The Cycle Y’s better Only if you’re insane I said X
    13. Answer – Part Three What happens next is anybody’s guess.
    14. Time and Stress
    15. INTP and Shadow ESFJ Stress
    16. INTP in Relationships
      • Positives:
      • using analytical and critical skills to solve problems
      • focusing attention on the central issue
      • providing intellectual insight
      • suggesting ideas that achieve long and short term aims
      • viewing information objectively
      • Blind Spots:
      • being too intellectual
      • finding too many flaws, and not accepting imperfect but 'good enough' solutions
      • not taking account of others' feelings
      • suggesting ideas and then appearing to change his/her mind
      • leave others to worry about implementation once the major problems have been solved
      • clinging to a principle at the expense of relationships and harmony
    17. Under Stress
      • Learned behavior gives way to natural style:
      • withdraw to think about the central issue that needs attention
      • suggest various ideas, and use the feedback received to support the intellectual analysis
      • debate the issue from an intellectual point of view, and leave it very late before making a decision
      • criticize others efforts and ignore their feelings
    18. Extreme Stress
      • The INTP's shadow may appear - a negative form of ESFJ:
      • expressing intense negative emotions towards others
      • being very sensitive to criticism
      • becoming preoccupied with details, without any logical basis
      • interpreting facts or events in a very subjective way
    19. Observations
      • What gets presented is limited
      • What gets thought about is huge, but not expressed
      • What is believed about the self is rarely confirmed by the other
      • The shadow emerges expressing big negatives
      • Linked together during stress, shadows do all the outer work, doing more damage (which may explain why talking rarely works)
    20. Finding Agreement Shared Beliefs Of 1 & 2 INTP – 2’s needs INTP -1’s needs
    21. Holding it Together Present Future Past Hopes
    22. Resources
      • Team Technology, UK
      • http://www.teamtechnology.co.uk/mb-types/intp.htm
      • Myers Briggs
      • Conversations with Dr. Roland Havis

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