Remedies for Cognitive Biases Part IV of Negotiating with Difficult People by  Victoria Pynchon of ADR Services, Inc.
Behind every accusation is a cry for help
Tit for Tat <ul><li>Cooperation in a world of distrust </li></ul><ul><li>Romeo and Juliet </li></ul><ul><li>The Prisoner’s...
 
<ul><li>Identify Value  = precedent, relationships, reputation,  fairness, profit,  opportunities, survival, praise, fulfi...
<ul><li>What are you attempting to achieve? </li></ul><ul><li>How might this deal help/hurt your opportunities to achieve ...
<ul><li>How can we address  _____________  </li></ul><ul><li>YOUR interests </li></ul><ul><li>While addressing  __________...
<ul><li>They’re not difficult, they are uninformed </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Educate them about their true interests, conseque...
<ul><li>They don’t understand the case law </li></ul><ul><li>They haven’t considered trading items of low value to them bu...
<ul><li>They are not irrational; they have hidden constraints </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Institutional </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><...
 
 
<ul><li>They’re not evil; they have hidden interests. </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Personal (unrelated to you or deal) </li></ul>...
Opposing Parties <ul><li>Need for upfront cash today </li></ul><ul><li>Fear of greater competition tomorrow </li></ul><ul>...
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    1. 1. Remedies for Cognitive Biases Part IV of Negotiating with Difficult People by Victoria Pynchon of ADR Services, Inc.
    2. 2. Behind every accusation is a cry for help
    3. 3. Tit for Tat <ul><li>Cooperation in a world of distrust </li></ul><ul><li>Romeo and Juliet </li></ul><ul><li>The Prisoner’s Dilemma </li></ul>
    4. 5. <ul><li>Identify Value = precedent, relationships, reputation, fairness, profit, opportunities, survival, praise, fulfillment </li></ul><ul><li>Create value locate & identify interests (preferences, priorities, needs, desires, fears) </li></ul><ul><li>Claim value make case for your entitlements, trade differences, enhance commonalities </li></ul><ul><li>Reap value craft durable agreements </li></ul>
    5. 6. <ul><li>What are you attempting to achieve? </li></ul><ul><li>How might this deal help/hurt your opportunities to achieve it? </li></ul><ul><li>In the best of all possible worlds, what would your preferences be? </li></ul><ul><li>Who/what else might be included in deal to maximize result for both of us? </li></ul><ul><li>Why is that desirable/not acceptable? </li></ul>
    6. 7. <ul><li>How can we address _____________ </li></ul><ul><li>YOUR interests </li></ul><ul><li>While addressing ______________ OUR interests </li></ul><ul><li>in a way that satisfies _________________? our common interests </li></ul>
    7. 8. <ul><li>They’re not difficult, they are uninformed </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Educate them about their true interests, consequences of their actions, our BATNA </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Help them understand what is in their best interest </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>May have misunderstood or ignored a crucial piece of information </li></ul></ul>
    8. 9. <ul><li>They don’t understand the case law </li></ul><ul><li>They haven’t considered trading items of low value to them but high value to you </li></ul><ul><li>They don’t foresee the bright economic future you do </li></ul><ul><li>They are too distracted by emotional considerations to make rational choices </li></ul><ul><li>You haven’t given them a way to accept your view without losing face </li></ul>
    9. 10. <ul><li>They are not irrational; they have hidden constraints </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Institutional </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Precedential </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Promises to others </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Deadlines </li></ul></ul>
    10. 13. <ul><li>They’re not evil; they have hidden interests. </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Personal (unrelated to you or deal) </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Relational (related to you but not to deal, i.e., “face”) </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Political, social, cultural </li></ul></ul>
    11. 14. Opposing Parties <ul><li>Need for upfront cash today </li></ul><ul><li>Fear of greater competition tomorrow </li></ul><ul><li>Concern about shelf-life of product, patent, market, distribution chain </li></ul><ul><li>Opposing counsel concerns (likely much like your own) </li></ul><ul><li>Concern of opposing party’s GC, CEO, executives, manager </li></ul><ul><li>Outside influences </li></ul>
    12. 15. Next, Gaining the Upper Hand
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