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This presentation was used in a seminar, attended by the staff of Electronic Process Instrumentation of Advanced Training Institute, situated at Ramanthpur, Hyderabad

This presentation was used in a seminar, attended by the staff of Electronic Process Instrumentation of Advanced Training Institute, situated at Ramanthpur, Hyderabad

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  • 1.  
  • 2. POSITIVE ATTITUDE & INTER-PERSONAL RELATIONS PROF. V. VISWANADHAM
  • 3. THINKING, WHILE THINKING, ABOUT THINKING, WILL IMPROVE THE QUALITY OF THINKING & THE QUALITY OF OUR LIFE ! [ WHICH DEPENDS ON THE QUALITY OF OUR INTER-PERSONAL RELATIONS ]
  • 4. Benefits of Positive Thinking and Positive Attitude Don’t underestimate the Power
  • 5.
    • Positive Thinking
    • will create a
    • Positive Attitude .
    • Your mindset
    • will become Positive.
    • You become more confident and inspire other people around you.
  • 6.
    • Positive Attitude
    • makes you stay motivated and achieve more in less time.
  • 7.
    • With Positive Attitude
    • you attract great relationships and people to your life.
  • 8.
    • Positive Attitude
    • helps you to Stay focussed
    • Determination, Discipline,
    • Perseverance and
    • Achievement Orientation
    • will further
    • improve continuously
  • 9.
    • You will feel
    • more confident,
    • more energetic,
    • more enthusiastic,
    • more motivated and
    • happy.
    • YOU will be
    • unstoppable.
  • 10. POSITIVE THINKING POSITIVE ATTITUDE POSITIVE ATTITUDE INCLUDES POSITIVE THOUGHTS POSITIVE WORDS & POSITIVE ACTIONS EXTENDS AND EXPANDS TO WHY POSITIVE THINKING ?
  • 11. HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF, OTHERS, THE WORLD, THE FUTURE & THE PAST POSITIVE THINKING AS A MEANS OF CHANGING SO THAT YOU CAN MAKE THE MOST OF YOUR PRESENT CHANGING FOR THE BETTER
  • 12. START THE DAY WITH L O V E SPEND THE DAY WITH L O V E FILL THE DAY WITH L O V E END THE DAY WITH L O V E ~ THAT IS THE WAY TO DEVELOP POSITIVE ATTITUDE
  • 13. POSITIVE THINKING HELPS YOU TO FIND SOLUTIONS TO THE PROBLEMS . . . AND NOT ADD TO THE ALREADY EXISTING PROBLEM SITUATIONS THUS, POSITIVE THINKING AWAKENS YOUR CREATIVE POWERS AND ENSURES MORE PURPOSEFUL AND SATISFYING LIFE FOR YOU AND FOR ALL AROUND YOU
  • 14. ALTITUDE ATTITUDE
  • 15. ATTITUDE
    • . Others
    • Work
    • Wealth
    • World
    • Worship
    • Winning
    • Wisdom
    • Worry
    • Service
    • Learning
    • Love
    • Self
    Towards Mother Motherland Women / Men ATTITUDE TOWARDS ?
  • 16. YOUR MIND IS LIKE A BANK ACCOUNT DEPOSIT IN IT GOOD IDEAS, POSITIVE THOUGHTS & PLEASANT EXPERIENCES.
  • 17. YOUR MIND IS A . . . " THOUGHTS FACTORY " YOU ARE THE PRODUCTION MANAGER YOU CAN PRODUCE EITHER POSITIVE THOUGHTS OR NEGATIVE THOUGHTS
  • 18. POSITIVE ATTITUDE . . . PRODUCES REASONS TO JUSTIFY HOW WE CAN, HOW WE ARE QUALIFIED, HOW TO THINK AND ACT TO SUCCEED WHAT IS THE POWER OF
  • 19. NEGATIVE ATTITUDE . . . PRODUCES REASONS WHY WE CAN'T, WHY WE ARE NOT QUALIFIED, WHY WE WILL NOT DO IT, WHY CIRCUMSTANCES DO NOT ALLOW US TO DO IT, WHY WE MAY NOT SUCCEED, AND SO ON . . . WHAT IS THE POWER OF AND THAT WE MAY ULTIMATELY F A I L . . .
  • 20. WHAT ARE YOUR EXISTING THOUGHT PATTERNS ? ARE THEY POSITIVE ? OR ARE THEY NEGATIVE ? WHAT DO YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT THEM ? PRACTICE FOR 40 DAYS
  • 21. ARE YOU INTERESTED IN CHANGING YOUR ATTITUDE FOR THE BETTER ? MEDITATION YOGA & PRANAYAMA BEING A LITTLE LESS SELFISH, A LITTLE MORE LOVING, CARING & SHARING . . .
  • 22. CONSCIOUS AND CONTINUOUS EFFORTS ARE REQUIRED TO I N C R E A S E D E C R E A S E THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE THE NEGATIVE ATTITUDE
  • 23. NEGATIVE THOUGHTS PREVENT US FROM REALIZING OUR POTENTIAL STOPPING THESE SELF-DESTRUCTIVE THOUGHTS IS LIKE STOPPING ANY OTHER BAD HABIT IT TAKES TIME AND EFFORT BELIEF IN ONESELF AND FAITH IN GOD HELP YOU
  • 24. WHAT IS THE POWER OF POSITIVE ATTITUDE WILL CLEAN THE COBWEBS OF BAD HABITS WILL CLEAR THE ENTRENCHED NEGATIVE EMOTIONS WILL CORRECT THE DEMOTIVATING WRONG ATTITUDES WILL LIFT YOU UP EMOTIONALLY ?
  • 25. UNDERSTANDABLY WE ARE ALL SELFISH INTRODUCE JUST A LITTLE BIT OF U N S E L F I S H N E S S & T H O U G H T F U L N E S S YOU WILL SUCCEED IN INVOKING GREATER POSITIVE ATTITUDE IN YOUR HEART
  • 26. IS NATURE POSITIVE ? WHAT IS YOUR NATURE ?
  • 27. DISCOVER YOURSELF DECIDE TO CHANGE FOR THE BETTER POSITIVE ATTITUDE HELPS YOU
  • 28. 3 QUESTIONS ?
  • 29. HOW POSITIVE YOUR ATTITUDE IS ? WHAT DO YOU THINK YOU CAN DO TO IMPROVE FURTHER YOUR PRESENT LEVEL OF POSITIVE ATTITUDE ? WHEN DO YOU WANT TO BEGIN ?
  • 30.
    • NEED FOR INTERPERSONAL SKILLS
    • Today’s work needs good networking skills.
        • Families stay as nuclear. Help is scarce.
        • Friends change faster than your toothpaste.
        • Colleagues change faster than friends.
        • Customers / all others - now call up and ask rather than wait for you to complete the work.
        • Hierarchy is flattened so your co-workers increase.
        • Your team interacts with other teams.
    • People work as a team.
        • Because teams achieve more.
        • Collective intellect is very effective for all types of problems.
    • To grow faster you will need all the help you can get.
  • 31.
    • Effectively translating and conveying information.
    • Being able to accurately interpret
    • other people's emotions .
    • Being sensitive to other people's feelings.
    • Calmly arriving at resolutions to conflict.
    • Avoiding gossip.
    • Being polite.
    INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS
  • 32. IMPROVE YOUR Inter-Personal SKILLS BY:
    • Self Promotion.
      • Promote yourself effectively.
      • Understand your features and benefits (your strengths and how to use them) and
      • learn how to express them. (SMILE and ASK)
    • Communications.
      • Communicate effectively.
      • Good communications are invaluable in any situation. Be articulate, concise, enthusiastic, honest, open. Use language with which you are comfortable but make sure it is powerful.
      • Don't forget the other side of communicating: listening. This is as important as speaking. Don't make the mistake so many people do. Rather than listening, they spend their time thinking of the next thing they are going to say, thus taking virtually nothing in at all.
    • Think Creatively.
      • Solve problems and maximize opportunities with innovative ideas. Rarely does an answer present itself in back and white. You have to assemble it, create it, and think it through .
      • … continued
  • 33.
    • Follow through.
      • Follow through on your commitments, both to yourself and others. A good referral or piece of advice only becomes activated into help when you follow it up.
    • Record keeping.
      • Take full and accurate notes. Otherwise, you will never remember what you've committed to do. Keep lists, schedules, cross-referenced files.
      • Write reminder notes about people you've met on the back of their business cards. Remember to keep your business cards in your right pocket and collected cards in your left pocket, this way you don't give out someone else's card.
    • Organization.
      • Organize yourself: your thoughts, your notes, your files, your time. This takes time in the short run, but will save you tenfold in the long run. Use a good database, organize by category and use codes for easy identification.
    • Teamwork.
      • Work hard for others and the rewards will come back to you ten times over.
  • 34.
    • INTER-PERSONAL RELATIONS CAN BE IMPROVED BY BEING T.A.C.T.F.U.L.
    • T = Think before you speak
    • A = Apologize quickly when you blunder
    • C = Converse, don’t compete
    • T = Time your comments
    • F = Focus on behavior – not personality
    • U = Uncover hidden feelings
    • L = Listen to feedback
  • 35.
    • Task:
    • Think of someone you would like to improve interpersonal communication with-in your work environment. It should be someone you interact with on a regular basis.
    • 1. What kind of work relationship
    • do you have with this person:
    • cooperation,
    • interdependence,
    • independence?
    • 2. Did/do you have the option of working with him/her?
  • 36.
    • 3. Has there been any conflict with this person?
    • 4. What’s the history behind this relationship?
    • 5. Do you feel any form of affection for him/her?
    • 6. Who has the power in this relationship?
  • 37.
    • 7. What are the positive traits you see in this person?
    • 8. What are the negative traits you see in this person?
    • 9. Will you have to interact with each other for a long time?
    • 10. How much impact could he/she have in your present or
    • future career?
  • 38. TWELVE TIPS TO IMPROVE YOUR INTER-PERSONAL SKILLS
    • Set the ground for communication and align your horizon.
    • Work on your attitude.
    • Have reasonable expectations.
    • Make the right choices of timing.
  • 39. TWELVE TIPS
    • While interacting, use your resources. Apply a variety of techniques to communication.
    • Consider the nonverbal aspect of communication.
  • 40. TWELVE TIPS
    • Be the best listener you can be.
    • Be an active and responsive listener.
    • Avoid “fire starters” such as:
    • hot words, overdramatization,
    • guilt induction, blaming,
    • person and past-centered comments.
  • 41. TWELVE TIPS
    • 9. Choose to behave assertively. Avoid aggressive and passive-aggressive behavior.
    • 10. Stay focused and monitor. Take your emotional temperature.
    • 11. Reflect upon the interaction and get ready to keep developing the relationship.
    • 12. Be ready to change and keep exploring continuously.
  • 42. In case YOU liked this speech and presentation ~ for listening to more speeches and for viewing more presentations, Please Visit: http ://www. viswam-becomingbetter.blogspot.com http:// www. archive.org/details/HowToExcelInWork In case YOU want to see some more presentations : Please visit : www.slideshare.net/viswanadham In case YOU want to give some feedback / contact me : [email_address] A BIG THANK YOU FOR YOUR PATIENT LISTENING Prof. V. Viswanadham ~ [ 040 - 2722 3383 ]
  • 43. Links to Prof. V. Viswanadham
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