• How would you describe the kind of love the tree had?• How would you describe the kind of love the boy had?
Love vs.• I nf at uat ion Happens quickly • Grows slowly• Short-lived • Long lasting• Physical thrills • Trust• Jealousy • More realistic• Rush to marry • More thoughtful
Love vs. Inf atuation• Each group will divide the statements about love into two piles. –Infatuation –Love• Divide into groups of 4-5.
Ladder of Love• Mature love for others• Love for humankind, very unselfish love.• Love for children • Unselfish love with ability to love without expecting anything in return.• Love for the opposite • Begins with interest in the other sex and sex continues throughout life.• Love for someone the • Role model and exemplified what you same sex, older wanted to become.• Love for same sex • Close friend of the same age and sex. friend• First love outside the • You had fun with this person and loved family him for the times shared.• Love of other • Love of a relative which brought a special relatives sense of security.• Love for secondary • This person met your needs and cared caregiver for you. Usually your father.• Love for primary • Your primary caregiver (usually mother). caregiver • Until you love yourself, you cannot• Self-love truly love another.
Types of Love• Romantic Love • Companionship Love – Puppy Love – A love typically found in• Sexual Love good friendships. – The intimate expression of • Altruistic Love love. – Selfless love or concern• Pragmatic Love for the spouse. – A rational, reasoning kind of • Manic Love love. – A crazy, possessive,• Platonic Love jealous kind of love. – The spiritual and intellectual • Self-Love relationship between a man – An egotistic, narcissistic and a woman. kind of love.In an ideal marital relationship, you would experience all types of love, everyday. However, until you are married, you can still experience most types of love with a variety of people.
Look at your “ABCs of Love.”What types of love werethe characteristics you listed?
Dat ing Review• Purposes of dating – Socialization – Recreation – Mate Selection• Stages of Dating 1. Gushy 2. Playing Games 3. Goal-Oriented• Love Curves – Dislike, Indifference, attraction, infatuation, love, enduring love
Dat ing Review• How to say no – Just say no, ignore the comment, leave. – Make an excuse, change the subject. – Turn it into a joke, act surprised, make different plans – Express feelings for them, return challenge• STDs – Chlamydia – Gonorrhea – Syphilis – Herpes – Genital Warts – HIV
I nt er net• Types of Love Quiz• Dating Review
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