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GOOD COMMUNICATION FOR GOOD RELATIONSHIPS
Despite technology, one thing never changes – good communication is a key
ingredient to good relationships, Wolvin says, when relationships break
down, it´s usually because at least one person has stopped listening.


Listening is probably the most useful life skill we have, and yet the least
emphasized, says Melissa Beal, a member and past president of the
international Listening Association, in a phone interview, Dr Beal who also
serves as a professor of Communication Studies at the university of Northem
Lowa said, ¨We just expected people to listen, but we really don´t teach them
how to do it¨.
During our teens and early 20s, we are trying to find our place and role in this
world, Beal explains, Especially during these years, we find acceptance,
explore our feelings and work through problems through the course of our
conversations, So, if someone doesn´t listen to us very often, it´s easy to
assume they care, we´re less likely to spend time with them, and the
relationship suffers.

KEYS TO BETTER LISTENING
We can became better listeners by taking active steps during conversations,
Our listening should be visual, mental and emotional, She suggests these tips
to make our listening more effective:
      Tune out physical distractions, like music, television or other people.
      Pay full attention to the conversation instead of engaging in other task.
      Focus your attention on the speaker- make eye contact- if the
      conversation is in person.
      Don´t interrupt while the other person is talking
      Make sure you really hear what the other person is saying instead of
      just thinking about what you´re going to say when he stops talking.
      Listen actively- nod smile or show concern when appropriate.
      Stay focused. Don´t let your mind wander.
It´s reassuring to find similar advice for good communication and
     friendships in Bible, in James 1:19, we are advised to be ´´SWIFT TO
     HEAR, SLOW TO SPEAK.´´




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Good communication for good relationships

  • 1. GOOD COMMUNICATION FOR GOOD RELATIONSHIPS Despite technology, one thing never changes – good communication is a key ingredient to good relationships, Wolvin says, when relationships break down, it´s usually because at least one person has stopped listening. Listening is probably the most useful life skill we have, and yet the least emphasized, says Melissa Beal, a member and past president of the international Listening Association, in a phone interview, Dr Beal who also serves as a professor of Communication Studies at the university of Northem Lowa said, ¨We just expected people to listen, but we really don´t teach them how to do it¨. During our teens and early 20s, we are trying to find our place and role in this world, Beal explains, Especially during these years, we find acceptance, explore our feelings and work through problems through the course of our conversations, So, if someone doesn´t listen to us very often, it´s easy to assume they care, we´re less likely to spend time with them, and the relationship suffers. KEYS TO BETTER LISTENING We can became better listeners by taking active steps during conversations, Our listening should be visual, mental and emotional, She suggests these tips to make our listening more effective: Tune out physical distractions, like music, television or other people. Pay full attention to the conversation instead of engaging in other task. Focus your attention on the speaker- make eye contact- if the conversation is in person. Don´t interrupt while the other person is talking Make sure you really hear what the other person is saying instead of just thinking about what you´re going to say when he stops talking. Listen actively- nod smile or show concern when appropriate. Stay focused. Don´t let your mind wander.
  • 2. It´s reassuring to find similar advice for good communication and friendships in Bible, in James 1:19, we are advised to be ´´SWIFT TO HEAR, SLOW TO SPEAK.´´ http://www.blogger.com/publish-confirmation.g?blogID http://httpvianymonteriabeautiful-monteria.blogspot.com