Going beyond clichés and stereotypes to better
understand her hopes, dreams, values and
vulnerabilities. Ultimately to bet...
Copyright	
  ©	
  2014	
  Ulli	
  Appelbaum.	
  All	
  rights	
  reserved.	
  
	
  
Unless	
  otherwise	
  indicated,	
  a...
What this
presentation is
about. 	
  
Understanding	
  what	
  
resonates	
  with	
  today’s	
  
moms	
  -­‐	
  beyond	
  ...
The marketing
community has a huge
opportunity to make
things better. And make
more $$$. 	
  
of moms feel that advertiser...
Brands still focus on
motherhood “ideals” and
stereo-types and usually
miss the mark.	
  
Mommy’s culture however
has evolved and changed.	
  
The result is a major gap
between moms own
narratives and expectations
and the social norms
embraced by most brands.
Brand...
8	
  
but first…
Who is this guy?
And what does he know about
MOMS?
Strategist
20+ years of global experience in
brand strategy and customer
experience design.
Proud dad & husband
Lola, 5
Fynn, 5
Leo, 3
Entrepreneur
Co-founder of
www.wemothers.com, a start-up
focusing on moms emotional
wellbeing.
Community Manager
I’ve built a community of 7000+
moms (total $ investment = 0) and
I have been listening to them for
the ...
14	
  
The research.
The research.
Over 1200 Facebook posts capturing
insights, truths, needs, vulnerabilities, jokes,
aspiration about motherh...
How it works.
•  Moms see one of our posts (digital posters)
•  They decide in a split second whether the content
(the pos...
Quick facts
Digital posters posted
	
  
1200+
Moms reacting to those posts
	
  
7000+
most engaging posts are the focus
of...
18	
  
Let’s dive in
31 truths that
resonate
with today’s
moms.
Moms daily experiences often
clash with the cultural “ideal” of
motherhood.
Mommy Truth:
Moms reject the notion of the
“perfect” mom. So why do brands
insist on maintaining these
stereotypes?
Mommy Truth:
Once you’re carrying a child,
suddenly the world has an opinion
on each and every choice you make,
despite the fact that t...
Once a woman asked me whether
I planned to breast-feed my baby,
so I asked her whether she shaved
her vagina. Oh, I’m sorr...
Because	
  as	
  wonderful	
  as	
  
motherhood	
  is,	
  it’s	
  also	
  the	
  
hardest	
  job	
  in	
  the	
  world,	
 ...
Motherhood is this place at the
intersection of heaven and hell.
Mommy Truth:
Moms will tell you that yes,
motherhood is fulfilling but in the
same breath they will bond over
how tough it is. Listen.
...
Mommy Truth:
Motherhood is like riding an
emotional roller coaster. And
emotions drive behaviors.
The pre-dominance of positive
moods ensures the reproduction
of our species. But most of these
are often overlooked by bra...
Mood	
  frequency	
  for	
  the	
  past	
  30	
  days	
  
0	
   2	
   4	
   6	
   8	
   10	
  
Tired/Exhausted	
  
Overwhe...
Welcome to a life of ongoing
chaos.
Mommy Truth:
She will rationalize her
shortcomings (an opportunity for
brands).
Mommy Truth:
A mom will develop her own
measures of success.
Mommy Truth:
It’s about the little successes.
(Removing chaos and achieving
tidiness trumps achieving
squeaky cleanliness.)
Mommy Truth:
A mom will redefine her
standards and the compromises
she’s willing to make.
Mommy Truth:
I confess that most days,
I feel like I have no idea what I’m doing.
Everyone thinks I have it all together—
good wife, go...
Her confidence and attitude
however grows and changes with
the number of children.
Mommy Truth:
Many of them will struggle with
their self-images. Or stay in a
state of denial.
Mommy Truth:
Moms will often struggle between
who they used to be and who
they have become. Are you
talking to the woman or to the
mom?...
Being a mom means that
someone else will always come
first.
Mommy Truth:
And moms turn their sacrifice into
a virtue and a celebration.
Mommy Truth:
Moms never get a break, ever.
It’s 24/7 job. Duh.
Mommy Truth:
Being a mom means always
being exhausted.
Mommy Truth:
Weekends become “week days
with less breaks and more messy
people around”. And vacations
stop being vacations & become
“tr...
It’s so bad, that even daily chores
carried out alone become a
vacation.
Mommy Truth:
So it’s not surprising that moms
crave breaks from their daily
routine.
Mommy Truth:
And moms will go to great length
to take that break.
I	
  lock	
  myself	
  in	
  the	
  bathroom	
  and	
  act	
  like	
 ...
By	
  golly,	
  I'm	
  taking	
  myself	
  to	
  a	
  
movie	
  tonight!	
  Ge@ng	
  out	
  of	
  
bedGme	
  duGes	
  than...
Hidden	
  in	
  the	
  pantry	
  in	
  a	
  box	
  labeled	
  “flour”	
  is	
  top	
  -­‐of-­‐the-­‐line	
  chocolate	
  
a...
Which explains moms hysterical
love for wine. It symbolizes me-
time, letting go & bonding.
Mommy Truth:
But no seriously, don’t mess with
a mom’s ME-Time. A mom will
turn on you in a heart beat.
Mommy Truth:
50	
  
For more information www.ulliappelbaum.com
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  1. 1. Going beyond clichés and stereotypes to better understand her hopes, dreams, values and vulnerabilities. Ultimately to better connect with her. May 2014   What every marketer should know about today’s moms. Motherhood is…. All  rights  reserved,  Ulli  Appelbaum  2013  
  2. 2. Copyright  ©  2014  Ulli  Appelbaum.  All  rights  reserved.     Unless  otherwise  indicated,  all  materials  on  these  pages  are  copyrighted  by  Ulli  Appelbaum.  All  rights  reserved.  No  part  of  these  pages,   either  text  or  image  may  be  used  for  any  purpose.  Therefore,  reproducEon,  modificaEon,  storage  in  a  retrieval  system  or  retransmission,  in   any  form  or  by  any  means,  electronic,  mechanical  or  otherwise,  is  strictly  prohibited  without  prior  wriGen  permission.  
  3. 3. What this presentation is about.   Understanding  what   resonates  with  today’s   moms  -­‐  beyond     stereotypes  and  clichés.   Inspiring  brands  to  beGer   connect  with  moms  by   solving  real  mommy   problems.     Helping  brands    play  a  more   meaningful  role  in  moms   lives.       Helping  marketers  idenEfy   fresh  ways  to  look  at  and   engage  moms.  
  4. 4. The marketing community has a huge opportunity to make things better. And make more $$$.   of moms feel that advertisers don't really understand what it's like to be a mom.   73% of moms feel like marketers are ignoring their needs.   60% of moms think advertisers are doing a poor job at connecting with them.   80% Source:  M2Mom.com  
  5. 5. Brands still focus on motherhood “ideals” and stereo-types and usually miss the mark.  
  6. 6. Mommy’s culture however has evolved and changed.  
  7. 7. The result is a major gap between moms own narratives and expectations and the social norms embraced by most brands. Brands that will close the gap first will win.
  8. 8. 8   but first…
  9. 9. Who is this guy? And what does he know about MOMS?
  10. 10. Strategist 20+ years of global experience in brand strategy and customer experience design.
  11. 11. Proud dad & husband Lola, 5 Fynn, 5 Leo, 3
  12. 12. Entrepreneur Co-founder of www.wemothers.com, a start-up focusing on moms emotional wellbeing.
  13. 13. Community Manager I’ve built a community of 7000+ moms (total $ investment = 0) and I have been listening to them for the last 2 years.
  14. 14. 14   The research.
  15. 15. The research. Over 1200 Facebook posts capturing insights, truths, needs, vulnerabilities, jokes, aspiration about motherhood. Delivered in a Facebook friendly format, “digital posters*”. To our community of 7000+ moms. posters *To learn more about digital posters visit www.ulliappelbaum.com
  16. 16. How it works. •  Moms see one of our posts (digital posters) •  They decide in a split second whether the content (the post) resonates with them and whether they want to engage (“like”, “comment” or “share”) or not. •  This methodology measures moms’ “blink” reactions. No rationalization, social filtering or forced conversations, just real spontaneous and visceral reactions that show moms hot buttons. A real temperature check of what resonates with today’s moms. •  Facebook provides the analytics that allows us to measure the strength of the reaction and engagement.
  17. 17. Quick facts Digital posters posted   1200+ Moms reacting to those posts   7000+ most engaging posts are the focus of this presentation   Top 10%Top 10%
  18. 18. 18   Let’s dive in 31 truths that resonate with today’s moms.
  19. 19. Moms daily experiences often clash with the cultural “ideal” of motherhood. Mommy Truth:
  20. 20. Moms reject the notion of the “perfect” mom. So why do brands insist on maintaining these stereotypes? Mommy Truth:
  21. 21. Once you’re carrying a child, suddenly the world has an opinion on each and every choice you make, despite the fact that they have less than nothing to do with your decisions or the outcome. Most moms hate unsolicited advice & dread being judged. They’ll get plenty of both (also from brands). Source:     Mommy Truth:
  22. 22. Once a woman asked me whether I planned to breast-feed my baby, so I asked her whether she shaved her vagina. Oh, I’m sorry, you don’t like personal, none-of-your-business questions?   A harmless and well-meant question can quickly be perceived as judgmental (Moms are first and foremost women after all). Mommy Truth: *  Source:  Motherhood  Comes  Naturally  (and  Other  Vicious  Lies),  Smokler,  Jill  
  23. 23. Because  as  wonderful  as   motherhood  is,  it’s  also  the   hardest  job  in  the  world,   and  we’d  all  go  crazy  if  we   couldn’t  laugh  at   ourselves*.     Moms often use humor when sharing their experiences. It’s a way to relieve tension, to bond and remain sane. Mommy Truth: *  Source:  Motherhood  Comes  Naturally  (and  Other  Vicious  Lies),  Smokler,  Jill  
  24. 24. Motherhood is this place at the intersection of heaven and hell. Mommy Truth:
  25. 25. Moms will tell you that yes, motherhood is fulfilling but in the same breath they will bond over how tough it is. Listen. Mommy Truth:
  26. 26. Mommy Truth: Motherhood is like riding an emotional roller coaster. And emotions drive behaviors.
  27. 27. The pre-dominance of positive moods ensures the reproduction of our species. But most of these are often overlooked by brands. 0   2   4   6   8   10   Proud   Happy   Excited   Overjoyed   Calm/content   Awed   Elated   Serene   Mood  frequency  for  the  past  30  days   Source:  Wemothers  LLC   Mommy Truth:
  28. 28. Mood  frequency  for  the  past  30  days   0   2   4   6   8   10   Tired/Exhausted   Overwhelmed   Worried   Frustrated   Anxious   Upset   Cranky   Angry   Sad   Confused   Bored   Depressed   Desperate   But motherhood is also a world rich in negative emotions. Negative emotions are actually often stronger at driving behavior. Source:  Wemothers  LLC   Mommy Truth:
  29. 29. Welcome to a life of ongoing chaos. Mommy Truth:
  30. 30. She will rationalize her shortcomings (an opportunity for brands). Mommy Truth:
  31. 31. A mom will develop her own measures of success. Mommy Truth:
  32. 32. It’s about the little successes. (Removing chaos and achieving tidiness trumps achieving squeaky cleanliness.) Mommy Truth:
  33. 33. A mom will redefine her standards and the compromises she’s willing to make. Mommy Truth:
  34. 34. I confess that most days, I feel like I have no idea what I’m doing. Everyone thinks I have it all together— good wife, good mom, successful career— but I really don’t. I’m ready to stop pretending to be perfect nowMany moms will have this nagging feeling of inadequacy and not knowing what they are doing. Mommy Truth: *  Source:  Smokler,  Jill,  Confessions  of  a  Scary  Mommy:  An  Honest  and  Irreverent  Look  at  Motherhood:  The  Good,  The  Bad,  and  the  Scary.  
  35. 35. Her confidence and attitude however grows and changes with the number of children. Mommy Truth:
  36. 36. Many of them will struggle with their self-images. Or stay in a state of denial. Mommy Truth:
  37. 37. Moms will often struggle between who they used to be and who they have become. Are you talking to the woman or to the mom? Mommy Truth:
  38. 38. Being a mom means that someone else will always come first. Mommy Truth:
  39. 39. And moms turn their sacrifice into a virtue and a celebration. Mommy Truth:
  40. 40. Moms never get a break, ever. It’s 24/7 job. Duh. Mommy Truth:
  41. 41. Being a mom means always being exhausted. Mommy Truth:
  42. 42. Weekends become “week days with less breaks and more messy people around”. And vacations stop being vacations & become “trips”. Mommy Truth:
  43. 43. It’s so bad, that even daily chores carried out alone become a vacation. Mommy Truth:
  44. 44. So it’s not surprising that moms crave breaks from their daily routine. Mommy Truth:
  45. 45. And moms will go to great length to take that break. I  lock  myself  in  the  bathroom  and  act  like  I  have   diarrhea,  but  really  I  am  si@ng  in  there  reading   magazines  and  playing  on  my  phone.  My  husband   keeps  pestering  me  to  see  a  gastroenterologist.   Mommy Truth: I  joined  a  gym  just  for  the   free  day  care.     I  drop  the  kids  off  and   read  magazines     and  blogs  in  the  locker   room.   *  Source:  Smokler,  Jill,  Confessions  of  a  Scary  Mommy:  An  Honest  and  Irreverent  Look  at  Motherhood:  The  Good,  The  Bad,  and  the  Scary.  
  46. 46. By  golly,  I'm  taking  myself  to  a   movie  tonight!  Ge@ng  out  of   bedGme  duGes  thanks  to  my   wonderful  husband.  Score!     KrisEne  on  Facebook   Mommy Truth: The joys of being a mom include “not being a mom” for once. A fresh opportunity to celebrate motherhood. I  love  my  kids.  Don't  we  all?  But  do  you  know  what  else  I  love?     I  also  love  all-­‐day  Kindergarten    and  early  bedGmes.  I  love  Moms'  Night  Out  and  Date  Night   with  the  Hubs.  But  I  especially  love  anything  that  gives  me  five     minutes  of  uninterrupted  peace  to  myself  to  JUST  PEE  ALONE!   *  Source:  Smokler,  Jill,  Confessions  of  a  Scary  Mommy:  An  Honest  and  Irreverent  Look  at  Motherhood:  The  Good,  The  Bad,  and  the  Scary.  
  47. 47. Hidden  in  the  pantry  in  a  box  labeled  “flour”  is  top  -­‐of-­‐the-­‐line  chocolate   and  a  few  joints.  I  rarely  resort  to  it,  but  it’s  a  comfort  knowing  it’s  there.   Every loving, dedicated and sacrifice-making mom also has a dark side (often in the form of chocolate) that she selfishly hides from others. Mommy Truth: *  Source:  Smokler,  Jill,  Confessions  of  a  Scary  Mommy:  An  Honest  and  Irreverent  Look  at  Motherhood:  The  Good,  The  Bad,  and  the  Scary.  
  48. 48. Which explains moms hysterical love for wine. It symbolizes me- time, letting go & bonding. Mommy Truth:
  49. 49. But no seriously, don’t mess with a mom’s ME-Time. A mom will turn on you in a heart beat. Mommy Truth:
  50. 50. 50   For more information www.ulliappelbaum.com
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