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Am I in a Bad Relationship? - Key Signs to Tell if                   You Are in a Bad Relationship                        ...
If you are in a bad relationship, you are most likely experiencing these symptoms:• Your spouse or partner seems to consta...
People that exhibit these tendencies or symptoms upon their mate tend to have a“toxic” feeling about them. They are people...
People that exhibit these tendencies or symptoms upon their mate tend to have a“toxic” feeling about them. They are people...
If at this point in reading you have come to the conclusion that you are indeed in abad relationship, you have two choices...
Breaking off a bad relationship - You DO have optionsOften times it may not seem obvious, but you DO have options. You DO ...
Repairing a bad relationship - It starts with YOUEven if you are indeed experiencing the symptoms we outlined earlier, the...
This is simply a quick overview to help answer the question of “Am I in a badrelationship?”. If you are REALLY serious abo...
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“Am I in a bad relationship?” If you are asking yourself that question, unfortunately the answer has a good chance of being “yes”. Often times, people search out our blog for advice on getting back together after a breakup, but it is commonly more important to work on improving or repairing your relationship before that occurs. But first, let’s answer your question and look at some key signs that will help to tell if you are in a bad relationship.

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  1. 1. Am I in a Bad Relationship? - Key Signs to Tell if You Are in a Bad Relationship http://www.saving-relationships.com“Am I in a bad relationship?” If you are asking yourself that question, unfortunatelythe answer has a good chance of being “yes”. Often times, people search out ourblog for advice on getting back together after a breakup, but it is commonly moreimportant to work on improving or repairing your relationship before that occurs.But first, let’s answer your question and look at some key signs that will help to tell ifyou are in a bad relationship.
  2. 2. If you are in a bad relationship, you are most likely experiencing these symptoms:• Your spouse or partner seems to constantly put you down in front of other people• Your spouse or partner may be controlling: checking your mail or phone, showing upat places where you are at unexpectedly to check up on you• Your spouse or partner may tell you they love you, but their actions may speakotherwise• Your spouse or partner has led you to change things about yourself in order toplease them• Your spouse or partner seems to be trying to make you dependent upon them
  3. 3. People that exhibit these tendencies or symptoms upon their mate tend to have a“toxic” feeling about them. They are people that others don’t particularly enjoy beingaround. You may have noticed your friends no longer invite the two of you to jointhem in public anymore.If you indeed can identify with these symptoms, you may be wondering how did youget here? No one in their right mind would willing enter into a bad relationship. I amconfident in saying that at first the relationship was most likely just fine.
  4. 4. People that exhibit these tendencies or symptoms upon their mate tend to have a“toxic” feeling about them. They are people that others don’t particularly enjoy beingaround. You may have noticed your friends no longer invite the two of you to jointhem in public anymore.If you indeed can identify with these symptoms, you may be wondering how did youget here? No one in their right mind would willing enter into a bad relationship. I amconfident in saying that at first the relationship was most likely just fine.Bad relationships often start out great, but they have a cycle to them. They have agreat period, followed by a blow up, followed after that by making up. It is not untilafter a few of these cycles occur that you begin to wonder if you are indeed in arelationship that you should be in at all. Further complicating things is that a badrelationship can often be a hard one to get out of.
  5. 5. If at this point in reading you have come to the conclusion that you are indeed in abad relationship, you have two choices: break off the relationship and start anew, orwork to resolve the problems and improve things. Let’s look closer at both choices.
  6. 6. Breaking off a bad relationship - You DO have optionsOften times it may not seem obvious, but you DO have options. You DO NOT need tostay in a relationship that is making you unhappy or is harmful to you. It is commonfor people that stay in bad relationships to be suffering from a low self-esteem due tothe bad relationship or had it even before things started.It is also common for the culprit in a bad relationship to blame you for what is wrong.They may exhibit narcissistic tendencies. They may feel that they are incapable ofdoing wrong. If you have bought into this premise, you need to realize that is not thecase. Get back on your own two feet and come to grips with the realization that youCAN walk away. If it takes going to some sort of therapy to do so, then so be it. But ifyou are indeed in a toxic relationship that cannot be repaired, you are going to bemuch better off for doing so.
  7. 7. Repairing a bad relationship - It starts with YOUEven if you are indeed experiencing the symptoms we outlined earlier, the good newsis that many bad relationships can indeed be repaired. I will caution you that this is atwo way street and your spouse or partner has to be willing to change, but first, youmust get yourself right. You STILL have to prepare yourself to walk away from this badrelationship. You need to get yourself to the point where things either improve, or youare done. This needs to be genuine and is a critical element to having your matecorrect what is wrong.This does two things: it eliminates your dependency on your spouse or partner andthey need to be convinced that they will lose you if they do not correct their ways.
  8. 8. This is simply a quick overview to help answer the question of “Am I in a badrelationship?”. If you are REALLY serious about improving or breaking off your badrelationship, before you do anything else, you need to watch this video: Watch VideoNow. HR Maguire is dedicated to helping people resolve their relationship and marital issues. His articles are a must read for anyone who is looking to either salvage or further enhance their relationship.
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