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10 steps in
giving effective
   Feedback
Feedback is an effective tool to use in 
different context, highly useful in training 
activities, team buildings but also 
organizational teams and business. The 
whole purpose of offering feedback is to help 
people change by reinforcing positive 
behaviors or improving negative ones.
                           The list below will 
                           help you structure 
                           your feedback for 
                           any situation that 
                           requires it.
1. Identify the problem clearly
Invest your time in assessing the 
situation and identifying the problem. 
Is this an isolated event or does this 
problem affect more areas and in a 
repetitive style? 
How does this need 
influence his/her 
performance? How 
does this need 
affect the rest of the 
team?
2. Select a time and a place
Selecting an appropriate environment to give 
feedback is highly important. Feedback 
should be given in person and in private, 
without any disruptions or interference from 
the outside. 
                     You should first explain 
                     your reasons for offering 
                     feedback and that it is in 
                     her/his best interest.
3. Setting the stage
Explain that feedback focuses on a 
specific behavior and not on the 
person as a whole, and should not 
be taken as an attack, insult or 
negative criticism. 
Ask him/her to keep 
an open mind and 
not become 
defensive, even 
though you know it 
is difficult to listen.
4. Describe the behavior
Focus on the observations you have 
regarding a specific behavior. Feedback is 
not a judgment but rather a description of 
events where you have seen that specific 
behavior.
5. Make your case
These observations are not 
interpretations or conclusions, 
just facts that affect you/your 
team/organization. Explain how 
this behavior is influencing 
his/her peers.
6. Hold your ground
By this point, he/she will react to your speech 
and either tries to end this discussion by 
making excuses about the behavior or will 
accept your arguments, and will commit to 
changing.
                       If the second scenario 
                       occurs you may skip 
                       to number 10, if not 
                       continue with the 
                       following points.
7. Explore the situation
Before you can move further you 
need to understand the exact 
context in which this behavior 
appears, what is the true nature of 
this demeanor. He/she will try to 
find explanations and 
interpretations of how they see the 
situation.
8. Outline the positive consequences
People usually react to positive 
reinforcements that detail how they are 
beneficial to him/her.  This is the moment 
                        when you should 
                        describe how 
                        adjusting this specific 
                        behavior will not only 
                        bring benefits to 
                        him/her, but also to 
                        the ones around 
                        him/her.
9. Outline the negative
consequences
If the positive reactions are not enough 
to convince him/her, you have to have to 
resort to explaining the negative 
reinforcements and punishments that 
are going to affect him/her. 
Do not sound 
threatening; just 
state the usual 
consequences 
this type of 
behavior usually 
has!
10. Plan for change
The final step should describe a clear 
commitment to change or improvement and a 
clear plan on how to achieve this goal.

                   Set deadlines to check 
                   if he/she is following 
                   the plan and commit 
                   yourself to helping 
                   him/her attain his/her 
                   objective.
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10 steps in giving effective Feedback

  • 1. 10 steps in giving effective Feedback
  • 3. 1. Identify the problem clearly Invest your time in assessing the  situation and identifying the problem.  Is this an isolated event or does this  problem affect more areas and in a  repetitive style?  How does this need  influence his/her  performance? How  does this need  affect the rest of the  team?
  • 4. 2. Select a time and a place Selecting an appropriate environment to give  feedback is highly important. Feedback  should be given in person and in private,  without any disruptions or interference from  the outside.  You should first explain  your reasons for offering  feedback and that it is in  her/his best interest.
  • 5. 3. Setting the stage Explain that feedback focuses on a  specific behavior and not on the  person as a whole, and should not  be taken as an attack, insult or  negative criticism.  Ask him/her to keep  an open mind and  not become  defensive, even  though you know it  is difficult to listen.
  • 6. 4. Describe the behavior Focus on the observations you have  regarding a specific behavior. Feedback is  not a judgment but rather a description of  events where you have seen that specific  behavior.
  • 7. 5. Make your case These observations are not  interpretations or conclusions,  just facts that affect you/your  team/organization. Explain how  this behavior is influencing  his/her peers.
  • 8. 6. Hold your ground By this point, he/she will react to your speech  and either tries to end this discussion by  making excuses about the behavior or will  accept your arguments, and will commit to  changing. If the second scenario  occurs you may skip  to number 10, if not  continue with the  following points.
  • 9. 7. Explore the situation Before you can move further you  need to understand the exact  context in which this behavior  appears, what is the true nature of  this demeanor. He/she will try to  find explanations and  interpretations of how they see the  situation.
  • 10. 8. Outline the positive consequences People usually react to positive  reinforcements that detail how they are  beneficial to him/her.  This is the moment  when you should  describe how  adjusting this specific  behavior will not only  bring benefits to  him/her, but also to  the ones around  him/her.
  • 11. 9. Outline the negative consequences If the positive reactions are not enough  to convince him/her, you have to have to  resort to explaining the negative  reinforcements and punishments that  are going to affect him/her.  Do not sound  threatening; just  state the usual  consequences  this type of  behavior usually  has!
  • 12. 10. Plan for change The final step should describe a clear  commitment to change or improvement and a  clear plan on how to achieve this goal. Set deadlines to check  if he/she is following  the plan and commit  yourself to helping  him/her attain his/her  objective.