Love, the feeling that makes a person new and feel heavenly. Love, a feeling that changes life within a moment. Have we not heard of love at first sight? One who was happy go lucky in the morning, gets deep anddreamy looks in the eyes by the time the evening arrives. What happened? He/she fell in love during the day and now does not know what to do?
Believing our every word; and why not? They have not been exposed to mistrust yet, not that they would recognize it at such an early age.
Then begins the planning of where to meet again? How to spot that lovely person again? Through friends, or what? Depends on where the love was found at the first place.After getting few glimpses more, the love deepens and thedreams become more frequent. But at the same time, fear sets in.
But we cannot deny the fact that there will always beproblems in the relationship later on. Now the question is how are we going to solve the problems? And that will bethe role of relationship counseling. It will guide us to makethe right decision. The role of the counselor is not give the solution but to lead us in the process of decision making.This is in contrast with the role of an adviser wherein he is expected to give a definite decision by the concerned individual.
When we first fall in love; What is that saying, "Love isBlind"? Ha! Now thats funny, because it really is blind. We trust so instantly and genuinely that we potentially setourselves up for the biggest fall in our lives. Why is that? Is it because we are so driven by nature to want to trust someone? Or is trusting someone just a happier, easier, way of life.