Empathy in the process of forgiveness

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Empathy in the process of forgiveness

  1. 1. Empathy In the Process of Forgiveness
  2. 2. • “You dont have to accept the invitation to get angry. Instead, practice forgiveness, empathy and encouragement” said by Dan Fallon.
  3. 3. Definition of empathy• Empathy can be conceptualized broadly as the ability to understand and relate to the cognitive and affective experiences of another (Wade & Worthington, 2005).
  4. 4. Origin of term “empathy”• The term empathy is of relatively recent origin, having been coined by Titchener in 1909.
  5. 5. Stages• Awareness of Self• Understanding of emotions• Enhance sensitivity to the feelings of others• Take the perspective of the other person
  6. 6. Dimensions of empathy• Davis, Hull, Young and Warren (1983) describe conceptual model of empathy has three dimensions. • Perspective taking • Empathetic concern • Personal distress
  7. 7. Definition of Forgiveness• Forgiveness can be seen as a process of setting aside negative emotions, thoughts and behaviors, or motivations of avoidance or revenge towards a transgressor and transforming them into more positive emotions, thoughts, motivations and possibly behaviors (Hodgson & Wertheim, 2007).
  8. 8. Unforgiveness Forgiveness• Selfish love• Anger • Unselfish• Fear love• Unempathetic • Empathy behavior Replaced behaviour• Hate • Compassion• Hurt feelings for self and• Offences other
  9. 9. Some facts…… Positively Associatedcorrelated with with anxiety,depression and Unforgiveness premature death neuroticism (Witvliet et(Lyubomirsky, 2007). al., 2001). Increased cardiovascular response and negatively affect the immune system (Worthington and Scherer, 2003). (McCllough, Worthington & Rachal, 1997)
  10. 10. Relationship with empathyPerspective Strongly correlated takingEmpathetic Correlated in some concern studies Not Personal strongly correlated distress
  11. 11. How empathy is in the process of forgiveness?• Empathy has a prominent role in the forgiveness theory and research.• According to forgiveness theories, empathy can potentially help to counter negative, stable and global views of an offender and other describes it as fundamental attribution error that takes place during conflict.
  12. 12. This error involves seeing one’s own actions as aresult of external situation and contextual factors(and as therefore understandable and open toimprovement), while viewing offender’s actionsas a result of the person they are, which is stableand unchanging over time
  13. 13. When empathy occurs….
  14. 14. Negative, stable and global attributions about an offender (i.e.the offender is a bad man) and the cause of the transgression are REPLACEDwith the broader view of the offender and the offence(Hodgson & Wertheim, 2007).
  15. 15. In this way……• The offence becomes attributed to a series of specific unfolding events, and the offender is viewed as a human who, like all of us is imperfect.• This new perspective can help injured parties compassionately understand the situation and resolve the conflict.
  16. 16. Final consideration in promoting empathy and forgiveness• An important distinction in the forgiveness literature involves the notion that forgiveness is not condoning another’s action.• It is inappropriate to uniformly encourage all injured parties to forgive their transgressor in case of repeated or severe offences.
  17. 17. Continued….• Regardless of whether forgiveness is considered appropriate or inappropriate in a particular context, there is a general consensus that deep hurts experienced by injured parties need to be respected through carefully approaching the timing and context of promoting empathy towards an offender and through empowering injured parties to come to their own decisions about whether and how to forgive.
  18. 18. Empathy building interventions to foster forgiveness• Psycho-education• Empathy building exercises (Wade & Worthington, 2005).
  19. 19. Role in Peace Psychology• By forgiving others, we contribute in spreading of peace.• It has role in removal of conflicts.• It prevents from building of negative emotions.• It helps in understanding other individual’s feelings and emotions.• It helps in making strong and honest relationships.
  20. 20. Summary• Empathy means to understand a matter according to another’s point of view and forgiveness means setting aside negative emotions and replace them with positive emotions. If we will not empathize with other person, we cannot forgive him. When we did not forgive other person, we feel a burden on our heart. Researches had found a relationship between empathy and forgiveness. People who had a disposition to empathize, are more prone to forgive other person. Forgiveness and empathy has role in overall spreading of peace. There are techniques which can enhance empathy disposition and ultimately helped in forgiveness process.
  21. 21. References• Davis, M. H., Hull, J.G., Young, R. D., & Warren, G. G. (1983). Measuring Individual differences in empathy: Evidence for a unidimensional approach. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 44, 113-126.• Hodgson, L. K., & Wertheim, E. H. (2007). Does good emotion management aid in the process of forgiving? An examination of the role of multiple dimensions of empathy in the relationship between emotion management and forgiveness of self and others. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 24, 931-949.• McCullough, M. E., Worthington, E.L., & Rachal, K.C. (1997). Interpersonal forgiving in close relationships. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 73, 321-336.• Wade, N. G., & Worthington, E.L. (2005). In search of a common error: A content analysis of interventions to promote forgiveness. Psychotherapy: Theory, Research, Practice, Training, 42, 160-177.

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