Your Appearance Matters More Than You Know With a tattoo
Recently a friend of mine told me a story about an encounter she had with one of her co-
workers when she accepted a job as the manager of IT at large technology company. On the
morning of her first day of work, she attended a staff meeting where she was introduced to
the other managers.
As her manager went around the conference table making introductions, she noticed a very
handsome, well-dressed, well-groomed man sitting near the head of the table. As the
introductions made their way around the room her manager eventually came upon this very
handsome man whom she was anxious to meet.
\"Now Dave\", he said with a smile, \"Is one of the most brilliant people working here. Without
him, our company would be in complete chaos.\" With that Dave look up and said, \"Hi Jan, long
time no see.\"
At first glance, Jan did not recognize him. But as she looked closer, scanning her memory
banks, (which is what IT people do) she recognized him from her carefree days as a teenager.
She remembered Dave as a long haired, cigarette smoking, motorcycle-riding friend of hers
from the 60s. It had been 25 years since she'd seen him. He was the last person she'd
expected to see sitting at the conference table of a Fortune 500 Company.
\"Is that you Dave? Dave the Dare Devil from Daytona?\" she said with a laugh in her voice.
Without responding to her question directly, Dave leaned over and whispered in her ear, \"A
good haircut will fool them every time.\"
Psychologists have discovered that good grooming is twice as important as job qualifications
when organizations decide to hire someone? Twice as important! How you present yourself
before you open your mouth sets the tone for the conversation. It makes a difference in
getting a job, it makes a difference in selling yourself and it makes a difference in selling your
ideas.
My younger son is a very handsome guy. When he was 20 years old he wanted to get a tattoo
on his wrist. Now, I don't have anything against tattoos; as a matter of fact, I'm planning to
get one myself before long. I didn't feel it was my place to discourage him from getting his
tattoo, but I did feel it was important that I help him understand how it could impact the way
people treated him.
After a brief discussion, I persuaded him to print a non-permanent replica of the tattoo with an
ink pen on his arm and wear it for a few weeks before he invested in the real deal. He agreed,
and quickly drew the tattoo image on his wrist.
To his surprise, he discovered that the tattoo did have an effect on the people who saw it. It
had a very positive effect and turned out to be a great conversation starter. People of all ages
were fascinated with his tattoo and wanted to hear the story behind it.
According to my son, and he paid very close attention to this, no one treated him badly or
looked at him negatively based on the tattoo. That little test was enough to persuade him that
as long as he was well groomed he was making a good decision.
My son is not so naive as to believe that there aren't people in this world who will look at his
tattoo in a negative light. Those people do exist and he will encounter them throughout his
life. The problem is, if you don't understand the consequences of how you look, you will be
forever wondering why people treat you one way while they treat the people around you
differently.
Maybe you're one of those people who haven't paid attention to personal grooming. Maybe
you're one of those people who don't care about your appearance. Maybe you believe that in

order to express yourself honestly you aren't going to change the way you look or dress.
That's your prerogative.
What ever your reason, the results will be the same. Poor grooming drops your chances of
connecting with people by 50%, unless of course you're trying to attract people just like you.
Remember, there's nothing wrong with being known as Dave the Dare Devil from Daytona and
dressing the part, as long as you understand the consequences. However, if you want to win
over people who are in a position to hire you for a job that is contrary to the life and style of a
cigarette smoking, motorcycle-riding kind of guy or gal, you're going to have to adapt. You
need to pay attention to how you look, how you smell and how you act.
The best advice I can give you doesn't come from me, it comes from the great philosopher
Dave who once said, \"A good haircut will fool them every time.\"
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