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What is the meaning of
What is the meaning of LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP??
A long-distancerelationship or LDR is typically an intimaterelationship that takes place when thepartners are separated by a considerable distance.
living apart can be stressfuland lonely for relational partners and most couples probably prefer living in the same place. (M. Carole Pistole and Amber Roberts)
As a human, we need to give full effort in the success of this relationship.
How to Make a LongDistance Relationship Work
NO 1. Consider using video chat calls as often as possible,
NO 1. Consider using video chat calls as often as possible, Text messaging and Phone calls every day.
NO 2 Ask the important questions
NO 2 Ask the important questions to make sure you are both clear on the parameters of the relationship.
NO 2 Ask the important questions to make sure you are both clear on the parameters of the relationship. Stating your end goal or ideas will allow each person to maintain what they need.
NO 3 Do things together
NO 3 Do things together Defy the distance. As a long distancecouple, its important to do other things together besides the usual phone call.
"The best and most beautiful things in theworld cannot be seen or even touched. Theymust be felt with the heart." - Helen Keller
Communicate in some way every day, moreNO 4 than once if possible.
Communicate in other way every day, more NO 4 than once if possible.Write love letters. Send small gifts, cards, or send flowers for no reason
NO 5Take advantage of the benefits along distance relationship offers
NO 5Take advantage of the benefits along distance relationship offers Most important, just benefits every single time that u have.
NO 7Avoid the temptation to be controlling.
NO 7 Avoid the temptation to be controlling.As long as you are both interested in being in the relationship, you will stick with it and distance will not make a difference.
NO 7 Avoid the temptation to be controlling.As long as you are both interested in being in the relationship, you will stick with it and distance will not make a difference. Just have a trust to your partner.
NO 8Try challenging each other.
NO 8 Try challenging each other. It will give you something to do while youwait to see your partner again, and it will giveyou both something for talk about until then.
NO 9Talk about your future together.
NO 9Talk about your future together.Assuming that ultimately youd want to live together.
NO 11Give a personal object
NO 11 Give a personal objectGive them a personal object of yours so in a time of need,
NO 12Remember that youre still in a relationship.
NO 12 Remember that youre still in a relationship.You HAVE to be there for your partner.
NO 13Be positive.
NO 13 Be positive.Staying positive and not focusing on the negative aspects to keeping your relationship blooming and your partner content.
Lastly… RememberThings will get better with time, and even the relationship will become better.
Lastly… RememberThings will get better with time, and even the relationship will become better. Have hope.
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