How to make out with a girl in 40 seconds or less – for realIf youve ever seen a guy in a bar walk up to a girl he didnt know and makeout with her almost immediately, it can be a completely mind-blowingexperience. It may seem like its magical or out of reach - a special ability orsuper-power that someone is born with.But its not. And it can be broken down into a few simple steps you canfollow in order to make the same thing happen for you. In this article, Imgoing to break down those steps.The Tao of Badass Free – Download For FreeTao of Badass PDF – Download For FreeThe Tao of Badass Download – For FreeTao of Badass eBook – Download For FreeThe first step is to realize that about 90% of the difference betweensomeone whos really good with women and someone whos not so goodor mediocre with women, is the ability to spot a woman whos ready tomake out.I know it sounds kind of crazy at first, but its true. If you walk into a bar andgo up to any woman without knowing what signs to look for, your odds ofsuccess go WAY down.You must know how to spot that woman whos already in this "make-outready" state, so you can walk up and be "that guy."Dont buy into the myth that women dont want this to happen.Women are as sexual (if not more sexual) than guys are. Most of the time,this "turbo" make-out session never happens, because so many guys areafraid to go for it. And when this doesnt happen, the girls end up goinghome alone or worse.. staying being kind of mean to a lot of guys in thebar/being resentful and angry because no ones approaching them.
By putting this technique into practice, You want to discover how to see thewomen who youre able to make out with in 40 seconds or less in the firstplace.There are a few excellent indicators that will (especially in a baratmosphere) tell you if a woman is game, or ready for an instant make-outsession.The Tao of Badass Free – Download For FreeTao of Badass PDF – Download For FreeThe Tao of Badass Download – For FreeTao of Badass eBook – Download For FreeWhat To Look ForThe first indicator is a woman looking down often. When a woman looksdown often, she is accessing her emotions.Let me explain... When we look in different directions, we access differentparts of our brain. These are called "Eye Accessing Cues." When a womanis in a bar setting and looking down, shes accessing her emotional brain.If she makes eye contact with you, looks down then back up again, shessaying: "I have an emotional response to you looking at me and Im lookingdown." And if she tilts her head down as well (and doesnt just use her eyesto look down), shes physically dropping herself a little bit lower andshowing submission.This gives you the ability to walk up and be the dominant man.Now, if she looks at you, smiles and doesnt look away, this could be a lotmore difficult situation. Socially, shes meeting you head on, and notshowing immediate submission.Women who youre going to be able to walk up to and make out with in 40
seconds or less should automatically take the submissive role as a woman.Thats one quality which shows youll be able to quickly make out with her.Another quality is that shes actively looking around to make eye contact.This is crucial. A woman who is engaged with someone specifically andshes not looking away is not going to be as easy to seduce in 40 secondsor less. Its going to take much longer.Again, youre going to have to play a totally different kind of game whenyou walk up. You cant just walk up and make out with her.So instead, if you see a woman who is in a conversation but shesconstantly looking around and trying to make eye contact with a lot ofpeople, this is probably a very, very likely opportunity for you and thats awoman you can walk up to and immediately become sexual with.Other traits are revealed in the way theyre moving and how theyredressed. Lets say shes standing with her feet about shoulder-width apart.Its less likely that a woman standing like this is going to be available foryou to walk up and dominate. Thats because shes standing in a dominantposition, with stronger body language and shell probably be a lot moreresistant.The Tao of Badass Free – Download For FreeTao of Badass PDF – Download For FreeThe Tao of Badass Download – For FreeTao of Badass eBook – Download For FreeInstead, you want to find a woman who takes up less space. She has herlegs closer together and seems to be outside of a group, looking around alittle bit.Another thing is the way shes dressed. If shes dressed in a way thatssuper flashy and attracting lots of attention, she probably isnt the kind ofgirl you can walk up to and make out with in 40 seconds.
This kind of women is looking for attention - not for someone to dominatethem. What you want is someone whos in between "I dont care" and"Stare at my tits, bitch!" Somewhere between wearing sweatpants with anelastic waistband to the bar and done up really, really beautiful and sexywith a really low-cut shirt. You want to find someone whos in betweenthose two extremes.A lot of women who are on vacation fall into this realm. They dont want toover dress or under dress, and dont know how the bar atmosphere isgoing to be. Theyll usually come in open-minded, and start looking aroundtrying to make connections. This is an excellent situation for you (and her,of course).Thats what to look for and how you spot her in the first place. If you seesome of those, you want to watch her for a second. If you think that she isthe kind of person you can walk up to and do this, then proceed.If not, Id actually suggest you proceed anyway, just to see what happens.Next, right after you get that done and youve seen your girl (there areprobably three or four of these girls in a bar at any given moment) youregoing to walk up and start the scary part.The Tao of Badass Free – Download For FreeTao of Badass PDF – Download For FreeThe Tao of Badass Download – For FreeTao of Badass eBook – Download For FreeWhat To DoThis is where the most powerful kind of frame control comes in. Its very,very important that you understand how to control someone elses frame ifyou want to come across like youre a pro at this.
By "frame," I basically mean their "reality." Youre controlling what theyexperience. You have to be able to stay in control of that experience inorder to really bring her to the level where she feels comfortable making outwith you immediately.Im going to give you a very quick, punchy, fast way of doing this. Ill explainas quick as possible; that way you can go straight out and try it...Heres what I would say, word-for-word... Walk up to a girl, when you get upto her and right when she makes eye contact with you, I want you toSLOWLY put your finger up by your lips and say this, "Shhh…"Then slow your speech pattern down and deepen your vocal tonality. Andimmediately say, "Wait just one moment."You can also say, "Stop for one minute." I suggest using a bit of NLP here.Whenever someone hears "stop," "wait," or "dont," they immediatelyregister whatever comes after that.So if I say, "Dont think of a black cat," what do you do? Immediately, youthink of a black cat and whatever version of one you have in your head.The Tao of Badass Free – Download For FreeTao of Badass PDF – Download For FreeThe Tao of Badass Download – For FreeTao of Badass eBook – Download For FreeSo if I said, "Dont try to make out with me," or "Dont make out with meright now," girls are going to be consciously hearing, "Dont make out withme," but their subconscious minds will be hearing, "Make out with me rightnow!"Youre attempting to sort of use real-life Inception to get making-out withyou to be HER idea. She should be thinking, "I should make out with thisguy."
Now, during frame control youll be using a lot of these subconscioustriggers in order to get this to go as fast as possible.Please only use this forgood. There are lots of evil ways to use this.Dont try to seduce women who dont want to be seduced. Again, thats oneof the reasons why its important that you notice a woman who really doeswant to be seduced by a man.The Tao of Badass Free – Download For FreeTao of Badass PDF – Download For FreeThe Tao of Badass Download – For FreeTao of Badass eBook – Download For FreeSo to recap so far: you walk up, you put your finger over your lips and youtell her to "Shhh" for a second and then you say a sentence that starts with"dont" or "wait" or "stop."My typical is "Dont worry... right now." Thats all I say. And I slow thatspeech down – "Dont…worry…....... right now."Then I go right into the next statement, which is, "You and I are going tohave a secret. Were going to secretly kiss and no one will know."And as Im saying this, Im leaning in... and youll be doing the same whenyou do it. Youre leaning in ever... so... slowly. At the same time, yourelooking from her eyes down to her lips and back up to her eyes again.This is called "Triangulating." Count to three looking at her eyes, then lookdown to her lips and count to two, look back up and count to three, lookdown and count to two... etc. Do that about three or four times as youretalking.This can be a lot to remember, so you may want to practice it a little bit. Iwouldnt expect youre going to get it perfect the first time.
So again, you say, "Were going to have a secret. Were going to kiss andno one is going to know." From here on out, youre really just filling upspace with words as youre leaning in so youre still controlling theinteraction.So youre going to very, very slowly, take your right or left hand –whichever one is more accessible – and reach around her back. You wontpull her in toward you or anything yet, just touch her very lightly.The Tao of Badass Free – Download For FreeTao of Badass PDF – Download For FreeThe Tao of Badass Download – For FreeTao of Badass eBook – Download For FreeSigns That Its WorkingIs she looking at your lips? If shes looking at your lips, you have a greenlight to go forward. If shes looking at your eyes, you may want to wait asecond, or turn around and turn back again and try it again.This resets the meter in her mind, so to speak. When you turn around andturn back again, most people consider this to be a fresh start in aconversation. Its a strange loop-hole in psychology.For some reason, thats how we are as humans. When someone turnsaway then turns back, we give them another chance moving forward. So ifyoure getting some resistance, turn around, turn back, smile, and continue.If she gives you resistance again, you probably should back off and findanother woman.If shes looking at your lips and seems to be very comfortable and excited,then proceed. Youll move in very closely and speak almost directly into herear.
!Important!In a loud environment like a bar, youll want to speak louder, but dont raiseyour voice. Make your voice very low so that you have to be very, veryclose to her ear for her to hear.Then youre going to keep talking... What I usually say is, "No one is goingto see this. Its just going to be our little secret. I promise I wont tellanybody only if you promise that you wont tell anybody either."As Im saying this into her ear, I make sure that shes feeling my breath onher neck. So Im sort of breathing out a little bit more than normal as Imspeaking so she can feel that hot air on her neck.This usually gets a very visceral, deep, sexual response from women whenyou do this.As youre speaking really close to her ear, youll, very slowly, press yourcheek against hers as youre talking. Then youll move you head over sothat your mouth is closer to hers, and then... youll start kissing her.And if you do this right, you start out with just one soft peck... then gostraight into making out. It may not seem like it in this description, but 40seconds is a long time. This process can happen in a lot less than 40seconds - Ive done it in less time, and Ive seen other guys do it, too.The Tao of Badass Free – Download For FreeTao of Badass PDF – Download For FreeThe Tao of Badass Download – For FreeTao of Badass eBook – Download For FreePractice It
What I want you to do is practice this approach. Maybe go for a minute ortwo at first, and then get to where you can do this in about 40 (or even 30)seconds.You wont use this tactic all the time. But when the opportunity is right, itsreally good to have this in your seduction arsenal. You want to make surethat you have the right kind of tools for the job, so to speak.Whenever you see a girl whos in that state and ready to be seduced, if youbeat around the bush, engage in small talk or generally waste time, shellbe turned off and youve lost a golden seduction opportunity.Instead, when you spot this, you want to be able to see her, know thatthats what she wants, go in, and give it to her immediately. This is themajor difference between guys who are rock stars at walking up andseducing a woman... and guys who wish that they were great at quicklyseducing a woman.There are a lot of other success factors as well. There are techniques onhow to speak with the right tonality... how to touch her that allows her tofeel comfortable and doesnt turn off any of her weird alert switches...specific NLP triggers that you can use to connect and make sure shestotally in your zone.Whats taken me from a normal dude to a well-respected dating coach, isknowing a lot of short-cuts like this and knowing when to bring them out.And these short-cuts can also improve your game with women.Remember these characteristics in women who want to be seduced, andremember – it is possible to make out with a woman in 40 seconds or less.The Tao of Badass Free – Download For FreeTao of Badass PDF – Download For FreeThe Tao of Badass Download – For FreeTao of Badass eBook – Download For Free
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