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  • 1. <ul><li>How To Ask A Girl Out On DateYou met her, you talked to her, you got her number and, so far, everything is going great. But now
  • 2. comes that awkward point, …
  • 3. How To Ask A Girl Out For Date
  • 4. If it is a girl you are really interested in your mind might be filled with doubts and insecurities :
  • 5. What if she says no ?
  • 6. Am I trying to move too fast ?
  • 7. Maybe she thought we were just friends and she will be offended if I ask.
  • 8. All of these fears, although natural and common, are dumb. If you want a date with this girl you have
  • 9. the right to ask her out. Don't allow your life to be ruled by doubt and insecurity.
  • 10. So what are the best ways to ask a girl out ?
  • 11. There are several cheesy techniques you can use to lower your chances of rejection (such as making a
  • 12. bet with a girl and the loser has to make them dinner) but these kinds of games are unnecessary. If you
  • 13. are straightforward, and don't beat around the bush about what you want, a girl will respect and admire
  • 14. your confidence.</li></li></ul><li>Optimally, you would ask her in a face‐to‐face setting. However, if that is not possible, either because<br />the opportunity won't present itself or because you aren't confident enough, your best alternative<br />would be over the phone.<br />Avoid, at all costs, asking through email or any other written medium (Instant Messenger, a note, etc.).<br />Not only do these methods scream "CHICKEN!" they also leave behind a paper trail that may or may not<br />come back to haunt you.<br />One way to avoid looking like an idiot is to have something in mind to say for these three possible<br />reactions to your question so you won't be caught off guard :<br />If she says "yes"<br />Have a plan in mind; know your schedule and have an idea to suggest.<br />If she says "no"<br />Don't act shocked or offended. Just be like, "Alright." Then carry on the conversation as if you never<br />asked. Be friendly and polite. Too often guys take a "no" personally and get ticked off. Girls don't admire<br />or respect a negative reaction. The fact that you were able to brush off her rejection so easily may<br />actually raise her interest.<br />If she says "some other time"<br />
  • 15. Have a plan B in case she is busy. If she still acts like she has too much to do it's probably because she's<br />not interested and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Accept it as a rejection and move on.<br />Of course, you go into it expecting her to say "yes" but it's, as with most things in life, it's important to<br />be prepared for the worst.<br />Tips on how to ask a girl out<br />The real key to getting women to say "yes" when you ask for the date IS TO MAKE SURE THAT THEY ARE<br />ATTRACTED TO YOU.<br />
  • 16. If a woman is attracted to you then why wouldn't she want to go out on a date with you ? It makes<br />sense but most guys don't think of it that way... they miss the point and focus on "how to ask" rather<br />than focusing on raising her attraction.<br />Steps<br />1. Break the stereotypes. Most colleges (at least in the south) have a vast majority of preppy<br />or otherwise conforming student bodies. The preppy ones are usually in intercollegiate sports and have<br />their own fraternity/sorority. The key is not to try to fit in with their style to keep up, but rather<br />maintain a style that is genuine, and that sets you apart from the thousands of conforming students she<br />will be surrounded by. If you are considered one of them preppy people, don't just limit yourself to<br />these type of people. If you like someone who is a gangsta or nerd or whatnot, go ahead.<br />2. Go all out. Most college students will approach a girl in a drunken stupor. This works on most,<br />and can probably be humorous to girls. But you have to set yourself apart. Flowers, cards, serenading,<br />every cliche romantic tool at your disposal must be used. This will also give her something sweet to<br />compare to drunken frat kids hitting on her. This will give you the upper hand most likely. However,<br />there is a fine line between "romantic" and overdone. You need to come off as mature as ‐ if not more<br />than ‐ the guys she's seeing everyday.<br />
  • 17. 3. Never surrender. College schedules can be hectic, and studying intense, so do not expect to<br />be able to hang out as much as you could in high school. Work out dates far in advance. If she has to<br />reschedule at the last second, be understanding, she is probably just as upset as you are.<br />4. Do not waste your time together. Do your best to make every moment she spends with<br />you the best part of her day. Your goal is to make sure she has nothing to think about, to make sure she<br />relaxes and to help relieve the stress of college. Even small gestures matter. Pick her up, walk her to her<br />dorm, open doors (of course) and depending on the situation don't make her choose dinner, just pick<br />something you think she would enjoy.<br />5. Let her know of your future plans, goals, and ambitions. Since she's busy working towards<br />her future, it's good to let her know that you've got your eye on yours, too.<br />6. Not being jealous is key. She needs to know that you trust her and care about her, even if<br />you can't see her as often as you might like. No one likes a too‐clingy boyfriend.<br />Want Online Dating Guide ??<br />Want To Make New Friends Online ??<br />Visit:‐ http://bit.ly/cQvvAe<br />

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