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  • Save your FAMILY BEFORE THEY BURN Based on work of Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Praise be to Allah, Lord of the worlds, and peace and blessings be upon our Prophet Muhammad (‫)ﷺ‬ and upon all his family and Companions. WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • "O you who have believed, fear Allah as He should be feared and do not die except as Muslims [in submission to Him]." [QUR’AN 3:102] WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Who all needs to care my family?? Father? Husband? Mother ? I ? You? Brother? Son ? Relatives? Children? WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • EVERYONE WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • All of you are guardians !! , and each of you is responsible for those under their guard. Allaah will ask each guardian regarding those under their guard and if they preserved or lost it. [Al-Bukhaari (2554) and Muslim (1829)] [Ibn Hibbaan in his Saheeh (4570) ] WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • "And cooperate in righteousness and piety, but do not cooperate in sin and aggression" [QUR’AN 5:2] WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones, over which are [appointed] angels, harsh and severe; they do not disobey Allah in what He commands them but do what they are commanded. [QUR’AAN 66:6] WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • All of you are guardians, and all of you are responsible and are held accountable WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • A leader Act based on Qur’an and Sunnah is responsible for things under his guard WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • A man is responsible for his family WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • A womanis responsible over the house of her husband WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • A slave is responsible over the wealth of his/her master WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • How to protect our families from the Fire WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Keenness on teaching them the Book of Allah the Exalted and the matters pertaining to their religion 1 WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Stay connected Recite Reflect Memorize Learn Explanations WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Enjoining them to perform obligations and supervising them e.g:- Salah WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Obligations we must be watchful over regarding our families e.g:- Zakaah WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Keenness on worship-based upbringing in family life 2 e.g:- voluntary prayers WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Teaching the family to have praiseworthy manners, shyness, and modesty 3 WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • “Advise yourselves and your families to fear Allah, and teach your family manners.” Al-Bukhaari WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Warning the family of the dangers of the people of misguidance 4 WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Certain criminals try to incite them to remove their covering and take them out of their homes in order to enjoy themselves with her, and they call it "freedom" of women. Undermining the Islaamic family and its size, and lessening the size of the Islaamic Ummah, and they call it the plan of birth control.
  • Safeguarding the home from blameworthy matters 5 WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • A child might watch something reprehensible in the home, which would embed itself in their mind slowly and their heart would become inclined to sinful actions. WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Reprehensible matters in the homes First category Second category Third category e.g:- Smoking parents e.g:- Cartoons WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Watching over women who work 6 Women working is one of the great doors to spreading evil that were it not a matter of necessity or the premise of pious women, it would result in great corruption WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Keenness on educating and disciplining the child from a young age 7 WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Da`wah (calling) within the family WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Being a goodrole model “The best among you are the best among you to their families.” At-Tirmithi (3895) WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Rewardand punishment WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Encouraging them to sign up with centers for memorization of the Qur’aan WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Establishing educational programs within the family Educating children by way of stories WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Rights and manners on the head of the household WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • The Prophet(‫)ﷺ‬ when informed that Abdullaah ibn Umar (ra) fasted every day and prayed all night, said: “I was told that you pray by night and fast during the day.” He said: “I do so.” He (‫)ﷺ‬ said: “If you do so, your eyes will weaken and your soul will become tired. Your soul has a right on you, as does your family.” Al-Bukhaari (1153) WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Giving the family their rights is one of the biggest means of saving them from the Fire 1. Spending on them “If a man spends on his family while expecting the reward, he earns reward of charity.” Al-Bukhaari (55) 2. Treating them with correct Islamic etiquette WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • 3. Kindness and joking `Aa’ishah (ra) said: “I used to drink while I was menstruating, then would give it to the Prophet (‫)ﷺ‬ and he would place his mouth wherever I placed mine and would drink. I would also eat meat while I was menstruating, then would give it to the Prophet (‫)ﷺ‬ and he would place his mouth wherever I placed mine.” Muslim (300) WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • `Aa’ishah (ra) was with the Prophet (‫)ﷺ‬ in a travel. She said: “I raced him, and beat him by foot. Then, when I gained some weight, I raced him, but he beat me. He said: ‘This is payback for that previous victory you had.’ Abu Daawood (2578) WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • A woman might become angry with her husband, but if he jokes with her and makes her laugh, the problem would be over, and harmony remains within the family. We should not forget, also, that young girls and children need this kindness and joking behavior. WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • 4. Nightly chats `Aa’ishah (ra) reported that the Prophet (‫)ﷺ‬ used to have nightly chats with her. Prophet (‫)ﷺ‬ used to speak with his family for an hour before sleeping. Al-Bukhaari (4913) Tafseer Ibn Katheer (1/617) WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • 5. Keeping away from constant absence except for a need “Travel is a part of punishment. One of you would be deprived of his food, drink, and sleep. If one of you completes their needs, let them hasten to their family.” WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Disasters resulting from the father's absence WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Society is suffering from the ill-effects of due to a father's absence. What are we trying to achieve? Are we trying to reach the level that the disbelievers have reached? WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • 6. Caring and taking their weakness into weak Allah the Exalted created women weak, and likewise, men begin weak in their infancy and childhood years, and end up weak at the end of their lives. They days are also filled with times of weakness due to sickness. The head of the household that has a sound intellect takes this weakness in his family into account. So, he is compassionate with the weak and cares for them, while not burdening them with things they cannot handle. WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • 7. Serving and participating in the housework Al-Aswad asked `Aa’ishah (ra) :“What did the Prophet (‫)ﷺ‬ used to do in his home?” She (ra) said: “He would serve his family, and when prayer time came, he would go out to pray.” In another narration: “He used to sew his clothes and mend his shoes; he would do what men do in their homes.” Al-Musnad (24947) WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Helping one’s family has many benefits, such as • Relieving the woman in helping her with some household chores. • Making the wife feel that the husband is a good husband in that he cares for and about her. • The man gains humility and turns away from pride and glorifying his own self WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Keeping away from leisure and luxury, so that the person does not being among those who have condemned luxury when Allah the Exalted Said (what means): "And leave Me with [the matter of] the deniers, those of ease [in life], and allow them respite a little." [QUR’AAN 73:11] WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • 8. Showing compassion and affection to them 9. Not placing them in hardships and strenuous situations 10. Avoiding harming them 11. Protecting their secrets 12. Consulting them and seeking their opinions WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • "Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth." [QUR’AN 4:34] WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Brothers in Islam: Do we have aspirations to call your family to Allah? Is there a level that we wish to reach in terms of our men and woman? WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
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  • Do dua, it’s the powerful weapon of a believer WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • Save your FAMILY BEFORE THEY BURN WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION
  • WISD MGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION Together.. Towards.. Peace... WISD M www.wisdomislam.org | facebook.com/wisdomislamicmissionGLOBAL ISLAMIC MISSION