Leading without
being in charge
Selena Deckelmann
End Point Corporation
selena@endpoint.com
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Software Engineer
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http://www.endpoint.com
User Group Leader
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http://pugs.postgresql.org/pdxpug
Conference Organizer
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http://www.opensourcebridge.org
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YOU
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You’ve got an idea for a
user group.
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You’re looking for
people to join.
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What’s a community?
A community is a group of people that
make things together.
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User groups meet regularly
in person, to share and learn.
And drink a pint or two.
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User groups help bridge
the gap between core
developers and end users.
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User groups are a training
ground for new speakers,
developers and organizers.
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User groups are also just fun.
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How?
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You want them to:
come to meetings
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from flickr: rmeneses
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You want them to:
participate
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You want them to:
take over for you
someday
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what is
leadership?
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Having a good time.
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Not having a good time.
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You’re not a dictator.
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You’re not a social
media douchebag.
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Facilitator
Moderator
Guide
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Leading without
being in charge
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5-step program to:
lead well
develop new leaders
have enthusiastic followers
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1.Get people to the meeting
2.Start the meeting
3.Make people feel good
4.Set the tone
5.Take questions

#1 - Get people to the
meeting
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Who?
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In
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Perl Mongers PDXPHP
Ruby Brigade Lunch 2.0
Linux Users Group BarCamp
Functional Programmers .NET Developers
Agile Developers Cisco Users
Pythoneers Java Developers
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Free Advertising
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email
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blog
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talk to people
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More free advertising
Ask someone else to blog
Ask other UG leaders to email
Speak at another UG
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Non-free advertising
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#2 - Start the meeting
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Share the agenda
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Make announcements
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Make introductions
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from flickr: gemengdbedrijf
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Why did you come today?
What do you want to learn?
What’s your favorite ... ?
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Introduce the speaker
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Rituals
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from flickr: magisterludi
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What can I expect at
your group?
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Announcements
Introductions
Feature of the month
A Talk
Socializing
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Set a regular date and time
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#3 - Make people feel
good
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from flickr: red5standingby
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Write names down
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Make stuff together
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Eat and drink together
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Make yourself feel good
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Why are you going this?
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Have a goal
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Measure your goal
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Make adjustments
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#4 - Set the tone
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Be an active leader
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Ask for help
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Take the load off
yourself.
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Give real work
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Let them fail
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That guy
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BOFH
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Sitting in the front row
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Interrupting
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Disrupting the flow
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Deal with trolls
before they happen
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How?
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Have an agenda
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Praise in public,
criticize in private
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Smile
Use touch
Give choices
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Structure for socializing
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Make time for you to
socialize
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Have a drink
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#5 - Take questions
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Ask people
what they think
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Write it down
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Change things, or not :)
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the 5 steps:
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1.Get people to the meeting
2.Start the meeting
3.Make people feel good
4.Set the tone
5.Take questions

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Thank you!
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CONTACT ME
Twitter: selenamarie
selena@endpoint.com
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