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  • How to Stay POSI + IVE in a TOUGH Work Environment
  • The Environment YOU Beware the Bullets! Determinism Theory Negative World View Changing Environment Negative Work Environment Past Experiences Other People’s Behavior Ouch!
    • - Dog eat dog . . . everyone fighting to get ahead
    • - No one appreciates your contributions
    • - Too much work . . . not enough help
    • - Deadlines are unrealistic
    • - Longer hours . . . additional work
    • - Budget Constraints
    • - Competition is eating us alive
    • - Poor management / direction
    • - Job insecurity
    Negative Work Environment
  • Bulldozers Snipers Exploders Clams Patronizers Complainers Controllers Backstabbers Walking Wounded Negatives Gossips Brown Nosers Sluffers Whiners Other People’s Behavior
    • Challenges our paradigms
    • Alters the way we think
    • Makes life more difficult for a while
    • Causes Stress
    • Is an ongoing fact of life
    “ The only person who always likes change is a wet baby” CHANGE . . . Changing Environment
  • Past Experiences Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch!
  • Media Frenzy A recent Statistic: Crime down 20% in America reporting up 600% , Look at what you are looking at !!! Negative World View
    • GENETIC : My Grandparents did it to me. (Inherited traits)
    • PSYCHIC : My Parents did it to me. (Upbringing)
    • ENVIRONMENTAL : My Spouse, my Boss, the Company, the Economy, etc.. is doing this to me. (Surroundings)
    Determinism Theory
    • “ Are some people just born positive thinkers
    • . . . or is it their CHOICE ?”
    Life’s Little Question
  • Choose the Right Luggage Dodge Bullets Be Bulletproof
  • The Problem With Dodging Bullets You’re going to get hit!
  • Choice #2 Wear Bulletproof Armor
  • Bulletproof Armor Comes from SELF CHANGE
  • Putting on the Armor Change 3 Things!
  • How to Change Your Attitude ATTITUDE ATTITUDE Changes happen personally from the INSIDE OUT!
    • I am responsible . . .
    • . . . for who I am
    • . . . for what I have
    • . . . for what I do
    So . . . Accept Responsibility ATTITUDE
  • Step #2 Take Control Negative world view YOU FROM THE INSIDE . . . OUT! Ownership Values Mission Discipline ATTITUDE
  • How to Change Your Thinking THINKING THINKING Changes come from observing logically in every situation
  • Observe Your Thinking THINKING It sucks to be him. I refuse to let this hook me! This is all very interesting What can I do to defuse this? Tomorrow it will look very different. I’d like to beat the …
  • Manage Your Self - Talk If you think you Can, or you think you Can’t… YOU’RE RIGHT ! Henry Ford THINKING This is going to be a wonderful day! This is going to be a crappy day!
  • How to Change Your Behavior BEHAVIOR BEHAVIOR Changes take true assessment, determination & discipline
  • Choose Your Behavior REACTIVE RESPONSIBLE BEHAVIOR Response My Response My Choice Stimulus Stimulus
  • Steps Toward Changing Behavior
    • 1. Unconscious Incompetence
    2. Conscience Incompetence 3. Conscience Competence 4. Unconscious Competence BEHAVIOR The New YOU!
  • Add POSI + IVE Behavior
    • INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT!
    • Sprinkle some “positive” on the negatives
    • Focus on the good of each day
    • Stay out of the “feeding frenzies”
    • Say “please” and “thank you”
    • Practice EMPATHY
    • Evaluate YOUR behavior
    • Never miss an opportunity to compliment
    • Spread a SMILE around
    Replace the BAD HABITS! BEHAVIOR
  • More POSI + IVE Contributions
      • 1. Is it true?
      • 2. Is it harmful?
      • 3. Is it necessary?
    • Keep promises
    • Have a forgiving view of people
    • Keep an open mind with changes
    • Count to 1000 if necessary
    • See criticism as opportunity to improve
    • Cultivate your sense of humor
    • Before you say anything to anyone, ask
    • yourself three things
    • Watch your definitions -
    • they become thoughts
    • Watch your thoughts -
    • they become words
    • Watch your words -
    • they become actions
    • Watch your actions -
    • they become your destiny
    Remember to . . .
  • The Choice is YOURS With a Bad attitude you can never have a positive day With a Positive attitude you can never have a bad day
  • Choose POSI + IVE Living